Faith Influencer

In this episode, we’re diving into a topic that came up from your feedback: the role of attractiveness in a marriage, especially in a blended family. I’m joined by my friend Nathan, and we’re getting real about how men are naturally drawn to beauty and how that can impact intimacy in a relationship. We discuss why staying in shape is important for both partners and how to have honest conversations...

This topic is easy for me to discuss because I’ve been a financial planner for a long time, and let me tell you, I’ve seen far too many couples who feel lost when it comes to budgeting and saving. In this episode, I’m diving into practical money management tips specifically for blended families. Let’s break it down together! We’ll go over the essentials of budgeting in a way that makes sense—divid...

Today, we're diving into something I hear often in counseling: "I'm starving for love." And if you've ever felt like your "love bank" is running on empty, this episode is for you. We’re talking about how this applies not just to any marriage but especially to blended families. You’re here with a second chance, and this time, intentionality is the key. So as you’re settling in, remember – it's natu...

In this episode, I dive into three key ways to level up your marriage—starting with spending quality time together, taking the initiative, and yes, stepping up your game in the bedroom. Let’s face it, marriage is a journey, and whether it’s your first or second, there’s no room for coasting. From creating meaningful moments with your spouse to getting real about physical intimacy, it's all about b...

In this episode, we’re diving into six game-changing ways to spice up your blended family life. Remarriage is your opportunity to rewrite the script, but only if you shed the old baggage. We’ll explore personal growth, effective communication, and reigniting that sexual attraction by getting your body in prime condition. Picture this as a fresh football season—victory comes from making bold change...

Have you ever felt the heavy weight of disappointment, especially after a life-altering event like divorce? In this episode of the Faith Influencer Podcast, I share my deeply personal journey of navigating through the storm of disappointment that followed my own divorce. From acknowledging your feelings and embracing vulnerability to finding support and setting healthy boundaries, I unpack practic...

Have you thought about what it really takes to strengthen the bonds within your family, especially in a blended one? After years of learning what works—and what doesn’t—I’ve come to realize that faith plays a huge role in holding us all together. I’ll be sharing lessons learned, and some practical tips on how to create deeper connections with your spouse, your kids, and even extended family. Wheth...

In this episode, I had the chance to sit down with Tommy and Auburn, a couple who are navigating the ups and downs of raising kids in a multicultural blended family. Have you ever wondered how families handle the challenges of managing two households when one side isn’t exactly supportive? Tommy and Auburn open up about the emotional and spiritual impact it has on their kids and share the tough re...

Welcome back to Faith Influencer. Today, we’re tackling a tough but essential topic: forgiving your ex. I know this isn't easy, and you may feel justified in your anger. But holding onto unforgiveness can weigh you down and block the blessings waiting for you in your new marriage and blended family. Forgiveness isn’t about excusing the hurt or forgetting what happened. It’s about freeing yourself...

In this episode of the Faith Influencer Podcast, I'm addressing a question that many of you have been asking: "Have I been single too long?" It’s a question that resonates with a lot of people, and today, I want to walk you through some practical guidelines to help you figure out if it’s time to consider a new relationship or if you’re called to embrace singleness as a gift. We’ll explore the dang...

In this episode, we’re diving into the dreaded word—compromise. If you’re part of a blended family, you know how tricky it can be to merge different traditions, especially when it comes to holidays or even something as simple as whether the family dog sleeps in the bed. Today, I’m sharing some personal stories from my own marriage and how my wife and I had to navigate these differences. We’ll talk...

In Episode 24, I’m going back to revisit some key topics that are crucial for building a successful blended family, especially if you're new to the podcast. We'll talk about handling the stress of the first year, managing finances with trust and clear agreements, and why it's important for stepparents to focus on building relationships rather than jumping into a disciplinary role too soon. I’ll al...

Have you ever wondered how grandparents navigate the unique dynamics of blended families? In this episode, we delve into the pivotal role grandparents play in these intricate relationships. We'll explore how they can provide stability and continuity for children who are adapting to changes, offering a sense of tradition and family history that can be comforting and grounding. Whether you're a gran...

Today, we're diving into an important topic: building a Christian blended family. When I say Christian, I'm not just talking about a family that believes in God. Most families might say they believe in God, but we're going deeper. We're talking about building a solid foundation rooted in Christian values. We'll uncover the essential tools and practices that can transform your blended family into a...

One question I often get asked at events is, "How long should we wait to blend our family and remarry?" Today, we’re diving deep into this important subject. We'll explore why you shouldn't rush into remarriage without first dealing with your past issues and emotional baggage. We'll discuss the importance of transparency in new relationships and the pitfalls of keeping secrets. Whether you’re cons...

I’m excited to share this special episode, recorded live at Life Church, where we dive deep into the unique challenges that blended families face. In this episode, we talk about the importance of a strong marriage as the foundation for successful parenting. I know it’s a tough pill for some to swallow, but trust me, it’s key. We also explore the baggage we all bring into second marriages and how t...

In Episode 19, we're addressing a practical and often challenging topic: finances in blended families. Building on our last episode, we'll explore when it might be best not to combine finances and how to manage these situations effectively. With my experience in finance and insurance, I'll guide you through setting up inheritance plans for stepchildren, the importance of life insurance policies wi...

In today's episode, we’re diving into money issues in blended families. Money issues rank among the top challenges in blended families, right up there with children and dealing with ex-spouses. In this episode we’ll explore why these money conflicts happen and how they’re often about more than just dollars and cents—they’re about control, power, and trust. And I’ll give you my take on one of the b...

Think it's easier because the children are out of the house? Think again! Adult children can create just as much chaos, if not more, than younger ones. We're tackling the uncomfortable reality of "enabling" adult children – when parents cripple their grown kids by preventing them from becoming independent and responsible. This isn't about blessing your children; it's about coddling them to their d...

This week, we're diving into a tough but crucial topic: dealing with an ex who lacks effective parenting skills. If you're worried about what your kids are exposed to at their other parent's house—whether it's immaturity, bad habits, or questionable friends—you’re not alone. As both a stepparent and a parent, I deeply understand the challenges you face. We're going to explore practical strategies...

I've come across a fascinating rulebook on fighting fair, but I'd rather call it communicating better. Because let's face it, no one likes to fight with their spouse. In this episode, we're tackling the essential rules that can transform how you and your spouse talk to each other. We'll explore why timing matters, the power of a well-placed timeout, and the importance of taking turns during discus...

In today's episode, we're tackling a big issue in blended families: mistrust. Ever thought about why your ex-spouse still affects your current relationship? You might not even realize it’s happening. We’ll explore why mistrust is so common and how to deal with it. It's also important to remember that your remarriage is a vow and a union. Your heart is safe with your new spouse, so it’s crucial to...

In this episode, we’re diving into one of the most challenging and frequently discussed topics in blended families: dealing with the ex-spouse. This issue hits home for so many of us, and I’m feeling extra passionate about it. We’ll explore the top frustrations that arise, such as when an ex oversteps boundaries or when your spouse seems a little too friendly with their ex. We'll talk about the im...

Welcome to Episode 12 of the Faith Influencer Podcast! In today’s episode, we're diving into a topic that many of you have asked about: co-parenting with an ex, especially within blended families. This episode is packed with real-life stories and practical advice to help you navigate these often tricky waters. We'll discuss how to handle these situations better, focusing on what’s best for the chi...

In this episode, we're diving into one of the most common challenges blended families face: the blurred lines of roles and responsibilities. God wants your blended family to be blessed and harmonious, and part of achieving that is understanding and defining each member's role. Tune in as I share insights on creating a "family map," a powerful tool to help everyone see where they fit in this new fa...