Eros Arts

What does it really mean to lead? In this episode, I share insights from a recent couples session where one partner longed to surrender more deeply and the other wanted to lead with greater confidence. We explore why dominance isn't aggression, how safety creates surrender, and why presence is one of the most powerful aphrodisiacs there is. Inside this episode: Why dominance is really about le...

From Mental Health Counselor to Professional Dominatrix with Goddex Elektra What happens when a trained mental health counselor trades the therapy office for the dungeon? In this fascinating conversation, I sit down with Goddex Elektra to explore the surprising intersection of psychology, healing, power, and BDSM. With a Master's degree in Mental Health Counseling and a background in wildernes...

You didn’t lose your spark. You just stopped feeding it. After five months off the mic—and a leap from a quiet Northern California town to the unknown pulse of Austin—this episode is a raw return. No polish. No perfect timing. Just truth, movement, and the moment I decided to stop waiting to feel “ready.” This one is for the version of you who keeps saying “I’m stuck”… but deep down knows that’s n...

🎙️ The Art of Surrender The alchemy of softening… without disappearing. What if surrender isn’t weakness—but your greatest power move? What if it’s the moment your body stops bracing… and starts listening? In this episode, we explore surrender as a kind of magic—a tantric technology for meeting life, love, and desire with trust instead of tension. Not by collapsing… but by leaning in. You’ll learn...

🎙️ Power as Presence Command… without force. Power… without performance. What if dominance wasn’t something you did — but something you became ? In this episode, we unravel the myth that dominance is about control. It’s not louder. It’s not harsher. It’s deeper. It’s the quiet kind of power that steadies a room… the kind you feel before a word is even spoken. Inside this episode: ✨ How to embody...

Ah desire. It’s the current that creates art, moves lovers, and wakes the world back up. When you understand desire’s rhythm, you stop chasing it and start conducting it. You realize it’s not something that just strikes — it’s something you can summon. A pulse you can build through breath, tension, and awareness until the air between you hums. Desire lives in the space between holding and letting...

Let’s talk about what Tantra really is—beyond the buzzwords, beyond the clichés. Tantra is the art of coming home to your body, your breath, and the electric pulse of connection itself. In this episode, I share the story of how I stumbled (and surrendered) into this path—and why I’m endlessly obsessed with helping others experience it. We’ll explore how to move from surface-level connection into t...

Most of us spend our lives reacting—snapping back, defending, exploding, or shrinking in ways that leave cracks in our relationships and shame in our bodies. But what if the very energy behind those reactions is the fuel you’ve been waiting for? In this episode, I break down the thin line between reactivity and creativity —and how to flip one into the other. I share stories from my own life of fie...

What happens when two erotic provocateurs strip down—literally and metaphorically—to talk shame, sex, and sovereignty? In this unfiltered backyard episode, Hales sits down with her dear friend Saint—a somatic sëxologist and creator of Fifth Element Somatox and The Good Girl Paradox —to explore the body-based roots of sexual shame, the cultural legacy of nudity repression, and how reclaiming your l...

You’re Not Underqualified. You’re Under-Expressed. WARNING - do not listen to this if you are happy where you are at and do not enjoy facing the edge Welcome to the edge where your fear meets your future. This episode is a ritual of initiation for those who are done waiting for permission. Inside: stories, truth bombs, nervous system wisdom, and a firestarter invocation to choose yourself— messy,...

What if your wildness wasn’t a problem to tame … but a medicine to unleash? In this solo episode, I speak from the fire about the unfiltered, expressive, sometimes chaotic way I move through life—and why it works . Because behind the bluntness is attunement. Behind the wild is care . And behind the unhinged… is heart. We explore: • How to express boldly and hold space for how it impacted others •...

In this raw solo drop, I reflect on what it means to stay anchored in a world that’s constantly bombarding us with fear, tragedy, and overstimulation. From the myth of Persephone to the realities of our modern nervous systems, I explore how technology has hijacked our sense of safety—and how we can reclaim it. This episode is a love letter to duality: to holding horror and beauty at once. To trust...

What if the pleasure you’re chasing is actually pulling you further from what your soul craves? In this solo episode, I crack open the difference between true embodied pleasure and the seductive trap of surface-level hedonism . We explore how overstimulation, shallow breath, and future-fixation rob us of the deeper, slower, more satisfying experiences that actually bring us alive. This isn’t about...

You know what’s hotter than a perfectly planned date? A trench coat, a little improv, and a whole lot of imagination. In this episode, we’re diving headfirst into the world of roleplay —not just as a tool for intimacy, but as a way to unlock your wildest archetypes, amplify connection, and turn up the volume on your erotic creativity. Here’s the thing: roleplay isn’t about being “good” at it; it’s...

The stars are calling, and 2025 is here to shake, shape, and inspire us into something entirely new. This episode dives deep into the astrological blueprint of the year ahead, offering insight into how to align with the cosmic currents of evolution and embody visionary leadership. Together with my soul sister & astrology powerhouse Zoe Wind, we explore how to meet the chaos of change with grou...

In this deeply raw and transformative episode, we dive headfirst into the sacred realms of death, grief, and Eros—the untamed forces that shape our humanity. We explore: How ritualizing grief can reconnect you to life and love. The power of eroticizing pain to transform it into freedom. Why embracing death infuses life with deeper meaning and purpose. The connection between pleasure and mortality...

What if the answers we seek have been rooted in the earth (and our bodies) all along? In this soulful conversation, I sit down with Tyler, a shamanic bodyworker and medicine man, to explore plant medicine as allies, teachers, and guides in our journey back to our original essence. Tyler shares his profound connection to Wachuma, the “ book that can’t be burned,” and how this sacred medicine helps...

In this POTENT episode, I dive headfirst into dismantling the societal shackles that have been keeping your sexuality in a cage. It’s time to reconnect with that wild, primal erotic energy that’s been waiting for you all along. Ready to break some rules? Here’s the juice of what we get into: The hidden forces of sexual conditioning that keep you disconnected from your true power. How religion, med...

In this follow-up episode, we step deeper into the world of kink, unraveling misconceptions and inviting you to explore your desires without shame. Joined again by my previous lover, we break down what it means to play with power and sensation in the bedroom, offering practical tips for beginners and seasoned lovers alike. We debunk the myth that kink has to be aggressive or tied to pain, a narrat...

This one feels super exciting and close to my heart In this episode, we dive into the raw edges of desire and what it means to truly own your sexual truth. Joined by a previous lover of mine who introduced me to polyamory and k*nk, we strip away the shame and conditioning that binds us. We explore how curiosity about your desires can lead to deeper, more integrated relationships and how to talk ab...

i just have to say it .... THIS IS ONE OF MY FAVORITE EPISODES YET this human, his words, his teachings, comes from a depth within him that stems lineages. Channeling ancient messaging into relatable shares that makes it so easy for almost anyone to metabolize Im obsessed. Will be going back to this one time & time again Topics explored -opening a monogomous love into a poly - explorative cont...

introducing my new course: EROTIC ACTIVATION a course for the passionate man to rewrite & uplevel the way he relates to his séxuality .... and therefore his LIFE I had the pleasure of sitting down with the incredible Devah for a deep dive on all things - - connecting the genitals & the heart - what the absence of that looks like, looking for validation outside of the self - calling your po...

Ooooh this one is so juicy. I brought on one of my favorite women to have a super fun talk on all things like: moving emotions through the body, somatic release, helpful insight for men to know on how to support her when she is experiencing a lot of emotions and how to spice up the passion in the bedroom. We explore topics around: Processing emotions through the body for complete release. Effectiv...

my new course for men on harnessing the power of their sexual force is finally HERE. see more at ⁠EROTIC ACTIVATION Exploring your turn on.... It’s actually so simple to live turned on  Turned on by life, romancing yourself in each moment  Not in hedonistic pleasures, that reaching for more (at some point it just plateaus)  Intentionally charging up our erotic current  Arousing our system Tantra q...

GoddeX Elektra is a Professional Therapeutic Dominatrix working out of Boulder, CO. She holds a master’s degree in mental health counseling and integrated these skills into her dominatrix work.  A few years ago, when we lived together, I would listen to her struggle and then flog her, quite intensely, with affirmative statements to pattern interrupt where she was stuck. And vice versa. All the tim...