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Have you seen “Bee Movie” with Jerry Seinfeld? That movie sparked the beginning of the movement I’ve been working on for the past 9 years and it’s at the center of my brand new workshop: “Safe in Love”  Listen in to this week’s episode for the real story of 50 thousand bees swarming my backyard and learn how to sign up to be part of our movement. Gonna be a good time.  Get full show note...

Are you tired of having explosive conversations? Or maybe you’ve given up on being heard and are simmering silently instead? You deserve better than all that.  Listen in to this week’s episode to get some tips on how to start having tricky conversations in a way that actually brings you closer. Get full show notes and more information here: Episode 82 - If the Shoe fits… - Candice Toone Coach...

Do you and your husband keep having the same, circular argument over and over again with no forward progress or any end in sight? It’s probably because you’re fighting the wrong enemy.  Listen in to this week’s episode to discover the real enemy to your marriage success + scoop up some practical tips for defeating that enemy together as a united team. Get full show notes and more information...

You might be wondering what it’s like to be part of an actual coaching conversation. Well… wonder no more. You’ve got a REAL, unscripted coaching session with one of my Queen Bees coming your way.  Listen in this week to witness how a Queen Bee works with me to actively create the marriage she wants to live in. Get full show notes and more information here: Episode 80 - MVP - Bees in the Wild...

There’s a particular exercise that I’ve been using over and over again for my entire career as a marriage coach. It’s a client favorite. Listen in to this week’s episode to work along with me and get the guaranteed hope + feel good feels that you REALLY want as part of your marriage. Get full show notes and more information here: Episode 79 -MVP - A demo of my clients’ all-time favorite exercise -...

Ever been disappointed that something didn’t turn out the way you thought it would in your marriage? Or maybe you’ve been hurt because your guy doesn’t see you quite the way you want him to?   Listen in this week to get some practical tips on how to handle it when your marriage starts serving up scenes that aren’t in the scope of what you had in mind for your “forever”. Get full show no...

Ever find yourself wishing that he’d value you more? Give you a break? Shower you with affection or even just sprinkle a drop or two your way - just once in a while?  Listen in this week to hear the wild truth about how any value or breaks or love that you WANT to come from him to you will only sink in if all of that comes from YOU first. Get full show notes and more information here: Episod...

When I tell ladies I meet that I help women stop wondering if they married the wrong guy, they almost always nod and make a noise of understanding before saying, “I need that.”  Listen in this week to hear the three most common reasons women wonder whether they married the wrong guy AND why those reasons are a call to lean in closer rather than run for the hills. Get full show notes and more...

Holy Ground in Hard Love is a unique marriage mentorship community that holds and heals us Bees under the watchful presences of our unique versions of The Divine. If you wanna know what being a part of that group is like - I’m here to tell you.  Listen in this week to get a sneak peek at what it’s like to hear things that you didn’t know you were allowed to believe and witness Bees as they do...

You might be wondering what it’s like to be part of an actual coaching conversation. Well… wonder no more. You’ve got a REAL, unscripted coaching session with one of my Defying Gravity Bees coming your way. Neither of us knew we’d be sharing it on the podcast when we were actually having the chat, but she has since graciously agreed to share it all with you. Listen in this week to witness how a De...

Who is this woman spouting marriage tips and tricks every Sunday? It’s me! Candice Toone, former Marriage and Family Therapist turned Master Certified Life Coach. Listen in this week to learn why I switched from therapy to coaching and how me and my Bees are changing the world – one marriage at a time. Get full show notes and more information here: Episode 73 - MVP - Hi, I’m Candice - Candice Toon...

It’s never too late to live happily ever after – especially once you ditch these two poisonous beliefs that are probably strangling the good thing you could have going. Listen in this week to discover where your expectations might be setting your marriage up for a fall and how you can establish expectations that’ll keep you feeling all the love instead. Get full show notes and more information he...

Do you see your marriage as a safe place where you’ll get your needs met? Many women don’t - and possibly for good reason because he did THIS or didn’t do that.  Listen in to this week’s episode to hear why it’s a useful skill to consciously see your marriage as a space that nurtures you - even if it doesn’t feel that way very much of the time. Get full show notes and more information here:...

Have you met my husband? He’s the other half - the behind the scenes of Candice Toone Coaching and without him, us Bees wouldn’t be able to fly nearly as high.  Listen in to this week’s episode to celebrate Valentine’s Day with our love story and learn some trivia about the Toones - including something I didn’t know he was gonna share. #blush Get full show notes and more information here: Epi...

The secret to goal success isn’t what you think. It’s how you REACT when faced with opportunities and obstacles that matters. It’s your Reaction Sequence that makes all the difference.   Listen in to this week’s episode to learn how to identify your Reaction Sequence and then how to use it to your advantage.  Get full show notes and more information here: Episode 69 - Reaction Seque...

Did you know that some questions are better to ask yourself than others? That some questions scare you away from what you really, really want while others pull you closer to the life you know you deserve? Listen in to this week’s episode to find out which question to ask and which to avoid. Get full show notes and more information here:   https://candicetoone.com/episode-68-20-seconds-of-cour...

Did you know the BIGGEST block between you and a marriage you love is the way you talk to yourself? It’s true. What’s also true is that you ALWAYS make sense. All of your words. All of your behaviors. ALL of it makes sense. Every time. Even if it doesn’t seem like it. Even if you’d rather not have said or done the thing you said or did.  Listen in to this week’s episode to hear how believing...

When’s the last time you did something that scared you? Scaring yourself just a little bit on the daily is the surest way to streamline your efforts and pull your goals closer.  Listen in to this week’s episode then get to brainstorming on how you could push yourself just a LITTLE bit more tomorrow than you did today. The life you want is waiting. Go grab it.  Get full show notes and mor...

Ever wonder what marriage coaching really sounds like? Curious about what goes on in an ACTUAL coaching conversation? Well… wonder no more. You’ve got a REAL, unscripted coaching session with one of my Defying Gravity Bees coming your way.  Listen in this week to witness how a Defying Gravity Revolution Bee actively questions her initial assumptions to find possibility where only pain existed...

If you knew an exercise would get you 1% closer to your goal, would you do it? Most people wouldn’t - because 1% improvement sounds “underwhelming” and “not worth it”. I get that reaction AND I know that 1% improvement is what fuels lasting change in the grind of the day-to-day.  Listen in to this week’s episode to hear the case for why 1% wins will get you further, FASTER with anything you’r...

You don’t have to believe everything you think. Most people laugh when I say that because they think I’m making a joke, but I’m not.  I couldn’t be more serious when I say that considering how you don’t have to believe everything you think is the VERY BEST GIFT you could give yourself this holiday season.  Listen in to this week’s episode for some examples of how NOT believing what you a...

Have you heard scientists say that bees shouldn’t be able to fly?  According to all known laws of physics, a bee’s fat little body is much too heavy for its tiny little wings to lift off the ground. But… bees fly anyway.  Because bees don’t care what humans think is impossible.  Listen in to this week’s episode for some tips on how to overcome the human tendencies in YOUR brain and...

You ever get sick of being the only one putting any work into your marriage? Isn’t it exhausting to always have to go first?  Listen in to this week’s episode for some validation around the very real heaviness of carrying your marital load AND hear some ideas on how to make the whole process lighter. Get full show notes and more information here: Episode 61 - No one better than you, Babe - Ca...

Ever wished for a simple, repeatable process that’d reliably help you get the things you really, really want in your marriage? Well… wait no more.  Listen in to this week’s episode to walk with us through the exact report we use in Defying Gravity Rising to focus our efforts and claim the lives we love to live in. Get full show notes and more information here: Episode 60 - Rise Up Reports - T...

You ready for a sneak peek at the KEY steps in the EXACT foundation we use in Defying Gravity Rising - my signature group coaching program - to create magic in our marriages and momentum in our lives? Listen in to this week’s episode for a simple, repeatable framework that I use with my REAL clients to help pull yourself closer to a marriage you love to live in. Get full show notes and more inform...