Embracing HER

If you've ever held back from doing your own healing work because you're scared of outgrowing your relationship, this episode is for you. This week we're talking about what it actually means to choose yourself, why your growth doesn't have to mean the end of your relationship, and what to do when you're the only one in the dynamic who seems interested in changing. ✨ ⁠ ⁠Want personalised support?...

You know unavailable men lead to heartache and yet, when someone kind, consistent, and genuinely interested shows up... nothing. No spark. No pull. Just a vague sense that something is missing. In this episode, we're unpacking one of the most common and confusing blocks that comes up once women start to break their pattern with unavailable men. We dig into what attraction actually is , why you...

Does trying to talk to your partner sometimes feel like banging your head against a wall? You come with a genuine concern, and suddenly they're shutting down, deflecting, or turning it back on you, leaving you feeling unheard, lonely, and stuck. In this episode, we're diving into one of the most common and frustrating relationship struggles: defensiveness . We'll unpack what defensiven...

Validation might be one of the most misunderstood skills in relationships and also one of the most important. In this episode, Nathalie breaks down what validation actually is, why so many of us resist it, and why if you haven't learned to validate your own experience first, no communication script in the world will save you. We cover self validation, validating your partner in conflict, and w...

In this episode, I go into the one foundation that every other relationship skill is built on: self trust . What it looks like when it's gone, how it got broken, and exactly how to start rebuilding it. If you've ever ignored a red flag, stayed too long, outsourced your reality to everyone around you, or needed someone else to confirm what you already knew, this one is for you. 🎁 ⁠Get my FREE mast...

Let's cut through the noise and talk about what long term relationships actually require and what we need to accept if we want one that lasts. In this episode we discuss: 🔥 why disappointment in love is inevitable and not a red flag 🔥 the fantasies we're still carrying from childhood that no partner can fulfil 🔥 why strong couples aren't ones who never fight but ones who aren't...

You've done the courses, read the books, know all the terms and you're still showing up the same way in relationships. Sound familiar? In this episode, we talk about the pattern of intellectualisation : how the personal growth space can actually give us a very clever way to feel like we're doing the work while quietly avoiding the parts that actually require something of us. We cover w...

If you've stopped bringing things up in your relationship because it never seems to go well, this episode is for you. The tiptoeing. The rehearsing. The deciding it's just not worth the conflict. It feels like the safe option, but silence is actually the thing that will slowly poison the love between you. We dive into how waiting for them to change keeps us stuck and how reclaiming our agency and...

In this episode we talk about the most common pattern for women in relationships: Losing ourselves. We do it all the time: The over-giving, the pretending we are fine, the walking on eggshells, the settling for less. We discuss the WHY behind this tendency in women and how to finally step out of it. 💛 Want to finally feel confident, grounded & secure in relationships? Join us in my signature...

If you're the one holding everything together in your relationship, you're planning, remembering, doing, this episode is for you. Over-functioning isn't a personality flaw. It's a pattern that made complete sense once upon a time. But in your relationships today, it's quietly creating the very distance you're trying to prevent. In this episode, I break down what over-functi...

In this Dear Nath Q&A episode, we open up an honest and nuanced conversation about what it means to be a woman who desires love, intimacy, and partnership with men… while also feeling fear, distrust, and grief. We explore: Why your rage, disgust, and hopelessness are valid responses, not something to suppress The deeper cultural conditioning that shapes how men relate to women, and how women r...

Most relationships don’t fail because of conflict. They fail because of how conflict is handled. In this episode, we’re talking about how to create a healthy conflict culture, one where you can disagree, get triggered, and still stay on the same team. We’ll unpack: Key ingredients for dysfunctional conflict culture Key ingredients for HEALTHY conflict culture How to get there as a couple 💛 ⁠Come...

You feel confident, grounded, and secure when you’re single… and then the moment you start dating, everything shifts. Suddenly you’re overthinking, second-guessing, craving reassurance, or pulling away and it feels like all your “old patterns” are back. In this episode, I break down why this happens ( spoiler alert: it’s not because you’ve done something wrong ), and how relationships activate the...

What does it actually mean to have standards in dating and relationships and why is it so hard to stick to them? In this episode, we move beyond surface-level advice and explore what standards really are: not a checklist of traits, but the conditions that allow you to feel safe, respected and fulfilled in a relationship. We talk about why so many women know their standards but still find themselve...

Endlessly replaying conversations, waiting for a message that never comes, or holding out for the moment the other person finally explains why it ended. We tell ourselves that once we get that explanation, we'll be able to move on. But what if the pursuit of closure is actually what's keeping us stuck? In this episode, we're unpacking a hard truth: the closure we seek from someone else...

Fear of rejection is one of the most powerful (and often invisible) forces shaping how we show up in love. It’s the reason you don’t ask for what you really want. Why you settle for less than you deserve. Why you overthink, overgive, or stay silent when something doesn’t feel right. In this episode, we unpack how fear of rejection is formed, how it shows up in your relationships, and why trying to...

In this Dear Nath Q&A episode, I answer a question that many couples find themselves facing at some point in a long-term relationship: Should we take a break? And if yes, how? Breaks can feel incredibly destabilizing, especially if you fear that space means the relationship is slowly ending. But when approached consciously, taking space can actually be a powerful tool for clarity, reflection,...

Disappointment is one of the most uncomfortable emotions we experience in relationships and one of the most important skills we’re rarely taught how to hold. In this episode, we explore containing disappointment as a relational skill : the ability to stay present, self-connected, and grounded when reality doesn’t meet our hopes without collapsing into self-abandonment or hardening into emotional s...

In this episode, we explore why this longing is so common, especially for women who learned early on to minimise their needs, stay attuned to others, and keep the peace. We’ll unpack how the desire for someone to just know is often rooted in a fear of vulnerability, the fear of being seen, needing something, or risking disappointment. And why avoiding asking doesn’t actually protect us… it keeps o...

Have you ever caught yourself thinking: “He’s just not man enough.” This episode is for you. Because underneath that thought is rarely a question of masculinity, it’s usually exhaustion, loneliness, resentment, and deeply unmet needs . In this episode of Embracing Her , we unpack why so many women end up feeling like they’re carrying the emotional, practical, and relational weight of the relations...

In this episode, I’m exploring one of the most important ( & most misunderstood dynamics in relationships): the balance between compassion and boundaries . So many of us tend to live on one end of the spectrum. We either overextend compassion, understanding everyone else while abandoning ourselves… or we lean heavily on boundaries, protecting ourselves so fiercely that closeness starts to feel...

In this episode, we talk about why letting go doesn’t happen naturally for many of us, and why waiting to “feel ready” often keeps us stuck. This episode is for you if: You’re trying to move on but still feel deeply attached You keep questioning whether letting go means giving up on love You struggle with anxiety, rumination, or emotional loops after endings You want a more grounded, compassionate...

In this episode we will dive into what people with an avoidant attachment style need to thrive in a relationship and develop a more secure attachment pattern over time. Whether you are avoidant yourself or you are in a relationship with someone that is, this episode will help you understand this often misunderstood attachment style and create the circumstances that allow for connection to deepen....

In this episode we explore what anxiously attached people really need in relationships to thrive & develop a more secure attachment pattern over time. Whether you are currently dating or are in a relationship, this episode will help create clarity around what to look for in potential partners or what to create more of in the dynamic you are in. 🌼Get all the tools you need to heal your anxious...

In this episode, I explore a question I get asked often and one that doesn’t have a one-size-fits-all answer. We’ll unpack how to discern whether a relationship is supporting your healing or quietly re-creating the very environment that wounded you in the first place. I talk about: The difference between new relational experiences and familiar childhood dynamics repeating themselves How often and...