EdenxJay Unfiltered

Hi Babes! — we missed you. 🫶🏽 It's been months (like, almost a whole baby later) since we dropped a new episode, but today we’re finally back. And we're catching you up on everything: the beautiful, the messy, the scary, and the growing pains. In this episode, we’re getting real about: – Our first pregnancy scare (and what it taught us about fear, hope, and resilience) – How IVF worked for us (a...

Hey, Trevino Tribe! 💕 Jay is giving her pregnancy journey an unfiltered review out of 10, and let’s just say, you might be surprised by her score! These last five months have been a rollercoaster—thank you so much for riding it out with us as we find our footing in this new chapter. When we hopped on this pregnancy train, we truly had no idea what we were in for. But even with all the ups and dow...

After 4 long years, we're finally pregnant!  In this episode, we get you quickly caught up on our whole plan and how we were able to make it this far. Warning, this was not an easy journey but this is our story.    Also, we'll be back every other Sunday until we navigate through this nesting phase and the next episode will be dedicated to answering your question on IG via DM or through our Gmail e...

We're back and it's been waaaaay too long! Life was definitely doing its thing and we're so excited to catch you up on the chapters you missed.  Chapter 1: Baby update and learning we will have to adopt our own child (grab a tissue) Chapter 2: Preciosa is down to its final leg of the tour! Chapter 3: We answer your IG questions about first heartbrakes and how to avoid Uhauling... We missed you so...

We’re moving!!! So sorry Unfiltered Fam we’ve been gone but this is why. Our lives have felt a little upside down and hard choices had to be made but here we are, ready to dive into what happened and most importantly… WHAT’S NEXT? No matter where we are in the world, we’re honored to take you with us. So please enjoy this catch-up episode as we unpack our decision to pack up everything and start a...

Not one, not two but there are FIVE different ways to feel imposter syndrome?? Yes, you bet we are unpacking all of them in this week's episode and giving you EIGHT different ways to fight those intrusive feelings. Also, we are just days away from Jay's bday party and DJ debut in Boyle Heights and we hope to see you there! - TICKETS     See you next week!  XOXOXO LOVE YOU!  

We are back y'all! Life has been lifing so thank you for giving us grace. When it rains it pours for sure but that won't stop us from being here for you. In today's episode, the first half we chat about our path to breaking the cycle of codependency and how we support having different identities. On the flip side, we share our experience with being long-distance and how we kept the flame alive whi...

Welcome to another episode of  EdenxJay unfiltered podcast! This week, we're blasting off into uncharted territory as we tackle some hard-hitting issues with our special guests, Roxy and Taylor, two LA drag kings. Get ready as we navigate the stratosphere of homophobia and discrimination while on our Preciosa Tour. Plus, we're exploring the complexities of starting a family as a queer couple. Buck...

Situationships...what are they? Why do we get into them? And how can we stop it? On this week’s episode of EdenxJay unfiltered we are fresh off our first Tour stop for Preciosa Night and we deep Dive into the intricate web of situationships, exploring the blurred lines between and how we even get there in the first place. Get ready as we spill the tea on our personal experiences and how we got out...

This is our first podcast on the road and I can't believe we pulled it off... and on time! This week's episode was a request from our Instagram and giiirrllll did we unpack our past. Listen as we dive into our Toxic recovery journey and share the lessons we learned along the way.  We officially hit the road next week for our Preciosa Night Tour so join us as we pack up for San Francisco and Texas!...

We're backkkkkkk! Happy 2024 babes! We're so excited to catch you up on all our favorite moments of our NYE party, including a Preciosa asking to be our New Year's Kiss.... OMG YES she did! Listen to not only hear what happened but we also talk about open relationships for the first time in our relationship.    Buckle up buttercups and let's unpack 2024 together.    Tune in every Sunday at 8 AM ps...

(Trigger Warning: DV / Suicide) for those in need please see the resources below:  publichealth.lacounty.gov www.thetrevorproject.org National Domestic Abuse Hotline   In this unfiltered episode, Eden and Jay bravely open up about their journey surviving their first toxic relationship. It's a raw account of the hardships they faced, which might be challenging to hear at times. Feel free to take br...

What do you want to make happen in 2024?  The girls dive into the power of manifestation and get candid about their goals for next year. Also, they answer some great questions sent by you, "Name a time when you had to trust the process", "Advice for struggling to feel accepted as a bisexual", "Fave places you traveled this year"?    Have you ever felt too old to do something risky? Eden opens up a...

It's that time of the year again and the girls are back with another Surviving the Holigays episode. Not every holiday is mistletoe and sunshine but hopefully, this topic will help your survival journey.    Episode Topics:  When and how to talk to your partner about the holidays. Setting healthy boundaries with your family during the holidays. Chosen family vs blood family for the holidays. People...

Is your sex life not what it used to be?  The duo dives into the episode and reveals their journey to building a healthy sex life. They also share the hard conversations they had while navigating different sex drives. Intimacy is definitely not one size fits all so you'll want to hear how Eden and Jay find a middle ground when it comes to getting close. Also, be sure to stay until the end to find...

Jay is feeling a bit under the weather but she's pushing through for y'all!  Back by popular demand, the Q and A session is BACK!  Every Thursday on EdenxJay's Insta you can send any questions on their stories and last week the questions were too good not to bring to the podcast. Check out the topics below.    What are we wearing to our Halloween party?  Advice on not having your family at the wed...

The baby update you have been waiting for is here! But first things first, we're going to learn how Eden and Jay got this far in the baby process and what criteria they had for their sperm donor.... if you're guessing it was a lot... you are correct!  Also, the two walk us through their baby steps into parenthood and how they started their IVF journey.    Shoutout to www.cryobank.com for being an...

Welcome to part 2 of the most unforgettable wedding day! Join us as Jay uncovers the reasons behind her morning emotions, and Eden takes us on a journey through her favorite wedding day memories. From crafting custom Mezcal bottles to a jaw-dropping 8-minute vow exchange (yes, you read that right), this episode is packed with heartwarming tales about healthy boundaries. But wait, there's more! sta...

We did the damn thing and now we're back!!! We're so excited to share our favorite (and least favorite) moments from our big day. We learned A LOT but wouldn't change it for the world. Honestly, there is so much wedding unpacking to do that we have to make a part 2!  Thank you for waiting and enjoy this special drop episode just for you!    XOXO!  Follow us @Edenxjay

A lot can happen in 3 weeks! from touring for Preciosa Night to throwing the FIRST EVER Latinx Pride Festival. Eden and Jay dive deep into the ups and downs of creating a safe space for their community. They would be lying if they said it was easy and certain instances where Eden gets the cops called on her by a city employee, makes it difficult to keep positive. They haven't been home in the past...

Between the planning a wedding, a festival and a crazy pride season, we had to get you caught up on a few hot topics... Liiiike our amazing friends throwing us a surprise bridal shower…. Seriously WHAT?! And How did we get so lucky? On this episode it’s also Jay’s turn to get in her feels as she opens up about the importance of our chosen family coming to the wedding. As for Pride Season… let’s ju...

We guess a lot can happen in 2 weeks! Our heads are still spinning from all the beautiful things we saw in Bora Bora. Wait until you hear about our favorite part of the trip. Also, we flew straight over to NYC to have our first Preciosa Night on the East Coast and it was one for the books! We had such an amazing time and truly can't wait to come back. Annnndddd we had our Preciosa Night one year p...

You all sent some damn good questions that even made us speechless. Today you asked us to talk about Preciosa Night and where it's going, how to unlearn toxic behaviors, how to handle codependency, annnnnnnd what negative characteristics would our exes say about us..... eeeeek.    Thank you for following all things @edenxJay and for sending us your questions!    What should we talk about next week...

Moving in with your partner after just meeting each other can have its challenges... even you Eden and Jay. The two break down the lessons they learned from Uhauling and answer deep questions sent by one of you!  

With a wedding just a few months away, Eden and Jay are all the stress with NO DRESS! Yup, the two share where they are with the BIG DAY approaching and let's say they have a long way to go. Also, they have some exciting news about a potential honeymoon opportunity but you'll have to be the judge of that.