Dudes Spankin' Dudes

Doug (from episode 30 about Hot Seat Retreat) is back to talk some more. He and Scott and Jaden worked on a great video to hopefully keep all you dudes entertained during our shared Coronavirus Lockdown, featuring interviews with guys involved with Sting, SpankThis, Bad Ass Weekend, and others. Check out the video at Hotseatps.com. In the Real Dudes Spanking Real Dudes segment, Doug shares what it...

Scott is joined this month by buddy Mike, who was his next-door neighbor at March's Hot Seat Retreat. In the Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes segment, Mike is a big fan of self-spanking, and in a time where we shouldn't be out trying to hook up with each other, no matter how badly we need a spanking, Mike has tips on applying heat to your own seat. In the Fantasy Life of Spanking we talk about fanta...

Hot Seat Retreat in Palm Springs has come and gone and was a wonderful success (with a few things we'll need to hammer out in future retreats--and there WILL be future retreats). Scott and Jaden are joined by Doug, the guy who actually came up with the idea of putting on a new spanking event in Palm Springs, and we talk about how things went and what we learned. Also, a short discussion about feti...

It's our last podcast episode before Hot Seat Retreat in Palm Springs in March. Jaden joins yet again with friend Anthony. In our "Real Dudes Spanking Real Dudes" segment, Anthony talks about his first experiences attending fetish events. He went to Bad Ass Weekend for the first time last October and Mid-Atlantic Leather for the first time in February. With Hot Seat Retreat just around the corner,...

Jaden is back with another spanking buddy, Kevin, here to talk about their fun time at Mid-Atlantic Leather (M.A.L.) in January. Speaking of which, in the "Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes" segment, M.A.L. got some negative publicity from a young gay conservative at the Washington Examiner who thinks that fetish and leather play makes the LGBT community look bad. Scott, Jaden, and Kevin discuss the...

What better way to celebrate ringing in the new year with a discussion of Adult Baby/Diaper Lovers (Or ABDL) and their connections to the spanking scene? Scott is joined by regular and Whappz co-founder Jaden and his buddy Richard, a member of both the ABDL and the spanking scene. We discuss what the two communities have in common and the opportunities for daddies out there in the spanking scene t...

Jaden is back to join Scott as we announce some big news: The launch of Hot Seat Retreat, a new spanking weekend event planned for March 5-8, 2020 at CCBC resort in Palm Springs, California. Scott and Jaden go over what prompted them to launch this new event and want to encourage all y'all to come on out. Also: Unfortunately, Camp Red Tails this summer is in trouble; RedSpankScott is now also HotB...

For episode 25, Scott is joined by the long-awaited straight dude! Cutter the Sourpatch Kid, who is on the board of the L.A. BDSM society Threshold, joins Scott to talk about why he likes spanking other dudes, the right way to approach heterosexual guys if you’re interested in spanking play with them, a bunch of things you SHOULDN’T do when approaching hetero dudes, and what fantasies straight dud...

Scott is joined for the latest episode by J.R., whom listeners know better as Bossman. Yes, the guy who beats Scott's butt on the regular stops by for a chat. And maybe a threat or two. In the Real Dudes Spanking Real Dudes section, J.R. talks about his membership in Avatar, an L.A. club that teaches men how to engage in safe BDSM play, including spanking. We discuss how the Internet and the rise...

Some good news to start. The Los Angeles Moonburn spanking party is back at it's old location at Threshold at the familiar day and time (the first Saturday of the month from noon-4 p.m.) Scott explains the details. Then, Scott is joined by David and Bruce, two of the organizers of Bad Ass Weekend, the all-male weekend spanking gathering held in Augusta, Georgia. This year marks the 10th anniversar...

Jaden is back to let us all know that his spanking app Whappz is now available for Android devices, yay! And Scott updates on what's going on with the L.A. Moonburn parties. In the Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes segment, Jaden talks about the work that goes into hosting private spanking parties, and what you'll want to keep in mind if you're thinking of having some of your own. In the Fantasy Life...

Jaden from Whappz is back joining Scott for an episode that has some fun news from Jaden (Whappz coming to Android; fun at Mid-Atlantic Leather) and some bad news from Scott (Moonburn loses its home; Tumblr kicks out porn). Before getting to the main event, Scott explains the sudden and surprising closure of Threshold, the BDSM club in North Hollywood where the monthly Moonburn spanking party take...

Podcast co-creator Brian/Croup returns for an episode because he and Scott just came back from a whirlwind spanking good vacation in Augusta, Georgia, for Bad Ass Weekend #9. They get into details about spankings, both delivered and received (and that includes Scott) and how amazing the entire event was. Y'all should consider going next year! Details about Bad Ass Weekend here: www.bawevent.com. I...

A very special guest joins Scott for Episode 19: Hunky porn star (PornHub's 2018 Top Bear Performer), and rugby jock Colby Jansen. Scott has been spanked by Colby twice now (and apparently there' s more to come). In the "Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes" segment, Colby talks about how he got into the porn scene, how he discovered he was into spanking and BDSM, his escort work, and some etiquette if...

Sidney's back to join Scott to talk about some more heavy-duty bottom stuff. Also, porn star Colby Jansen showed up at the Moonburn Party and it took Scott all of 60 seconds to go flying over his knee for a spanking. So now he and Sidney have that in common. There was also an accidental death in the BDSM community in Los Angeles, and Scott and Sidney go over what happened. It's an important subjec...

Scott's Guest for Episode 17 is Copper, an extremely well-known member of the American scene of dude-spankers. If you don't know him for his role in Man's Hand spanking videos, then you most certainly have seen his spanking artwork. For our "Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes" segment, Copper talks about his role in helping the Los Angeles spanking community get together and torment each other and the...

We've got Big Daddy Vegas back for a third episode. And we've got info on a new spanking party in New York City appropriately called "Welts." (Check out the host's Tumblr page here: https://nycinfernoparty.tumblr.com/) In our "Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes" segment, it's been a while since we've talked about particular implements. Daddy Vegas is a master at the belt and straps, so we spent some t...

Jaden is back as a co-host this episode! We have fun news for Dudes into Spankin' and also into IPhones. Also, there's some straight dudes into spanking with other dudes who are willing to answer your questions. In "Real Dudes Spanking Real Dudes," Jaden is here to follow up on Episode 7, where we introduced Whappz, a connection site for dudes into spanking Jaden has designed to become an app. But...

Happy New Year! Big Daddy Vegas is back with RedSpankScott for another episode. We've got a bit of an update on the state of Whappz, focus of episode 7. Beyond that: In our "Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes" segment, we talk about resolutions for the New Year, particularly in terms of spankings, obviously. But also in terms of making friends and communicating with other guys in the spanking communit...

Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukkah , and Happy Holidays in general. Scott is back after taking November off and joined by Big Daddy Vegas. Apologies for the break between episodes, but Scott had a good reason, which he explains. Also, if you're in the Pittsburgh area, we have info on a relatively new spanking party. In our "Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes" section, the podcast has been kind of bottom...

Brian (a.k.a. SoupGoblin) is back! Only as a guest host, but it's still good to have him back on the podcast. And he's back because he recently took a trip to Los Angeles and was able to attend a Moonburn in person. So we figured it would be a great opportunity to record a sequel to last year's Moonburn-centered podcast (episode 3) and talk about a whole bunch of spanking experiences that happened...

Scott has been asked repeatedly since starting the Dudes Spankin' Dudes podcast to discuss real world domestic discipline and Daddy/Boy fantasies. Unfortunately, these are areas in the spanking scene that Scott really doesn't participate in. So our guest for this episode of the podcast is Jake of the blog "Cornertime Confidential." Jake is in a relationship that involves domestic discipline spanki...

Sidney's back for a second episode! The timing was good to bring him back to discuss going off to Camp Red Tails in July and a spanking fantasy he has in common with Scott that they've both made a reality. Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes: Scott has never been to Camp Red Tails in Northern California, but Sidney has. Sidney describes the experience and also how he got spanked by a porn star! Which p...

Another long episode! You know what that means: Stories involving actual real life dude-spanking-dude action! Including Scott's birthday spanking. It was a doozy. Scott is joined by Duke, who is new to the spanking scene, but has been involved in other types of BDSM play for years. Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes: Spanking and the BDSM Scene. Scott talks to Duke about how an early bad experience pu...

Scott is back in Episode 8 with his buddy, Sid. Sid is a heavy-duty spanking bottom, and he and Scott share a spanking top in common, so this episode is focused all about being a bottom. Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes: How to build up that butt! If you're new to spanking you may be disappointed to discover you can't take all the punishment you fantasize about. Sid and Scott talk about ways you phy...