Dudes Spankin' Dudes

For Episode 48, Steve from Episode 46 is back to join Scott to talk about switches. Not the implement—though we should probably talk about that, too, in a future episode. Rather, we discuss what it’s like to be somebody who craves both giving and receiving spankings as opposed to just taking on one role. Many, many men in the spanking community identify as a switch, but we haven’t yet had an episo...

It's time to get ready to register for Hot Seat Retreat 2023, from March 16-19 at CCBC resort in Palm Springs. Registration will open at 10 a.m. Pacific Time (1 p.m. Eastern) on Nov. 19th. Rooms will be reserved on a first-come first served basis, so be ready when registration opens if you want a chance to stay at the resort. We also have rate agreements with two overflow motels. And we're making...

Scott is joined by The Sweet (and briefly by an awkwardly meowing cat) to discuss the fun of Bad Ass Weekend 2022. And there was a lot of fun to be had. Scott got to be a bully and get punished for it. The Sweet got spanked for some real life bad manners. More spankings were dished out at Uno games and wrestling matches. An amazing time was had by all. The Sweet can be followed on Twitter @sweet_a...

The Bad Boys Spanking Party is back for 2022 on Thanksgiving weekend, as is CLAW, now rechristened in its L.A. home as the L.A. Leather Getaway. The Spanking Party will be held in the Pasadena Room of the Westin Bonaventure on Saturday, Nov. 26, from 4-7 p.m. The party is free to those registered for the L.A. Leather Getaway. It's $20 for those who just want to come to the party. Scott provides al...

For Episode 46, Scott is joined by Stephen and Mike, two members of our spanking community who are working on a special project: a book about our scene and its members. They chat about their plan, what they’re looking for, what they are hoping to produce, and how you can participate. If you want to participate in their survey, visit: https://forms.gle/3hnCcTTPgg4qa1DQ6 Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Giv...

As Monkeypox spreads within the male community this summer, Scott felt it necessary to record a special piece with warnings and tips. Just because you're not engaging in sex, that doesn't mean you're not at risk of either getting or spreading Monkeypox. Some information from the CDC on social gatherings, safe sex, and Monkeypox here: https://www.cdc.gov/poxvirus/monkeypox/pdf/MPX_Social_Gatherings...

Some spanking implements are rigid. Some spanking implements are flexible. By the same token, some guys have rigid spanking fantasies where the scene plays out in very particular pre-determined ways. Some others have more flexible fantasies that revolve a bit more about evolving or improvisational play based on reactions during the scene. Both approaches (and both types of implements) are perfectl...

Our second Hot Seat Retreat has come and gone, and Scott is joined by attendees Randy (a.k.a. RedBearSpanker) and Tony (a.k.a. BearSpanks) to discuss all the fun of the event. Lots of swats were dished out, Scott got bullied and wedgied quite a bit, a pool party led to some wet bottoms getting paddled, and a good time was (mostly) had by all. In other news, Dudes Spankin’ Dudes now has a Discord s...

It’s Hot Seat Retreat time! But for those of you unable to join us out in Palm Springs, Scott managed to squeeze in a fun episode about some important spanking history connected to Man’s Hand Films, which has just recently shut down as a company. Scott is joined by Mike (a.k.a. StricTop) and Phil (a.k.a. SFspank), who have launched a brand new m/m spanking art archive. The initial focus is on the...

Hey out there to any dudes attending Hot Seat Retreat. If you’re looking to get your hands on Scott’s ass while he’s involved in his hosting duties, please listen to these guidelines. Yes, Scott wants to be bullied and spanked all weekend long while he's serving as host and he'll be attending as a bottom. He takes a few minutes here to outline his consent and what he’s giving all of you permission...

It’s our very first female guest ever, as author and spanking kinkster Jillian Keenan joins Scott to discuss what it is about guys spanking each other that appeals to some women. In the Real Dudes Spankin’ Real Dudes segment, we discuss a complex issue that Jillian has strong feelings about: Are kinks and fetishes a type of sexual orientation that we should treat differently from being gay or stra...

Jaden of Whappz is back with Scott on the podcast for a review of CLAW in Los Angeles on Thanksgiving weekend. Scott did the work to put together some panels on spanking and a big spanking party. Jaden was there as well, and the two discuss what they’ve learned (and how awesome it was to have major spanking presence at a big leather festival). In the second half of the podcast, Scott “comes out” a...

Come out to CLAW on Nov. 24-28 at the Westin Bonaventure Hotel in downtown Los Angeles. and have a great spanking time. Scott goes over all the important details of the Bad Boys Spanking Party and other fun activities. If you book a hotel room now, you will receive one free five-day event ticket for CLAW - just use CODE: C21-HOTELPACKAGE at www.clawinfo.org. There will also be day, night and vendo...

Scott is back from Bad Ass Weekend and is joined by Aaryn to discuss the amazing time they had at the first major U.S. spanking weekend to take place since the COVID lockdown. Pledges were hazed, naughty sons were disciplined by upset dads, and wrestlers grappled for dominance in some super-hot spanking activities. Also, Scott provides some more details about the upcoming Bad Boys Spanking Party a...

This episode Scott is joined by Bob Miller, one of the of the founders and the executive director of Cleveland Leather Annual Weekend (a.k.a. CLAW). Due to COVID wrecking schedules and planning, CLAW’s annual convention is happening this year in Los Angeles on Thanksgiving week. Better yet, it marks the kick-off of what they’re planning to be a new annual leather-kink-bdsm gathering every November...

Scott is joined by Jaden and Doug to formally announce that Hot Seat Retreat is on track for 2022. The event will take place from March 17-20 at CCBC resort in Palm Springs, California. Registration will formally open on Sept. 18. We go over all the basics to prep y'all on what to expect if you attend next year's hot spanking weekend. We hope to see you there! Visit the website here: https://www.h...

Jaden, founder of Whappz and co-founder of Hot Seat Retreat, is back for another episode as we all prepare for Bad Ass Weekend (bawevent.com) in Georgia in October. And Scott announces plans for a spanking party at the Cleveland Leather Awareness Weekend (CLAW) event (clawinfo.org), which will actually be taking place in Los Angeles this November on Thanksgiving weekend. Stay tuned for more detail...

Greetings dudes! Scott takes a step away from podcast episodes to record a special segment on spanking basics, inspired by seeing a bunch of fresh faces (and butts) coming into the scene post-COVID. This is intended to be a sort of “evergreen” podcast episode that can be searched for and shared with other dudes who are having fantasies about spanking and are wondering what to expect. Music: Vivera...

Just a quick message to let y'all know that the L.A. Moonburn m/m spanking parties are officially back! The next party will be on Saturday, July 3, from noon-5 p.m., at the Threshold club in North Hollywood. (Their site is here: threshold.org) Vaccinations are mandatory to attend. Scott will be celebrating his 50th birthday, so be sure to give him some licks!

J.R. (a.k.a. Bossman) returns to the podcast after giving Scott’s ass its first post-pandemic beating. We discuss what that was like and how to ease yourself back into pain play if you’ve taken, like we have, 14 months off from the scene. In the “Real Dudes Spankin’ Real Dudes” segment, we talk about how rebooting your butt and your BDSM interest is an opportunity to perhaps experiment in other ty...

For episode 36, Dudes Spankin’ Dudes Co-creator Croup/Soup Goblin/Brian returns to chat with Scott about furry culture, what it’s like to be a furry, and about bringing the spanking fetish to the furry community. In addition, Bad Ass Weekend is on schedule for October, and Scott reaches a birthday milestone and offers up his ass for punishment. In Real Dudes Spankin’ Real Dudes, Croup talks about...

Finally, the caning episode! With the assistance of British guest Harrison, we talk about the well-known, well-worn British love of caning this episode. The Real Dudes Spankin’ Real Dudes section discusses caning techniques, things to do and not do, and what a caning feels like. The Fantasy Life of Spanking section discusses the British schoolboy fantasy, some of the history of caning in schools,...

This is not a full podcast episode, but sadly, a short message informing everybody that Hot Seat Retreat for March 2021 has been cancelled. We're making initial plans to return to Palm Springs in March 2022 and some sort of virtual event to take its place. Listen for more details.

This episode begins with some sad news for our listeners. Frank, a.k.a. “Big Daddy Vegas,” who was the guest for episodes 13, 14, and 16, has passed away from Bulbar ALS, also known as Lou Gehrig’s Disease. Scott opens with some warm thoughts about a close friend. Our guest for this episode is James AZ of Southspanking.com, and that’s what our “Real Dudes Spanking Real Dudes” segment is about. Sou...

Scott is joined this episode by Isaac (izkboy on Whappz and SpankThis Hookups), a trans dude from New York who is new to the spanking scene but managed to get some action in before COVID-19 shut everything down. (FYI, Bad Ass Weekend for October has been cancelled.) In the Real Dudes Spankin’ Real Dudes segment, Isaac talks about the mostly very positive experiences he has had joining the spanking...