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The foundation for people developing the dependency on external validation is the feedback system inside the narcissistic matrix. The need to know what others think is a trick of the enemy for a number of reasons, as he cannot read our minds or he wouldn't need to know what we think. The feedback system also contributes to people becoming people-pleasers instead of God-pleasers. The dependency on...

Trauma associated with narcissistic abuse takes time to overcome and there are some primary things we must do first for the rest of the process to move along. The top three trauma healing tips are identifying and assessing the trigger, breaking the dependency on external validation, and learning to be physically alone more often. Without doing these three things, the trauma healing will never work...

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When we learn how narcissistic abusers are pushy, clingy and suffocating, we can see how the same patterns apply to narcissism as a whole. Narcissism and the abuse associated with it is pushy, clingy, and suffocating in many ways. Narcissism is part of the matrix control system to "force" people into complying with things that don't exist, don't matter, and don't adhere to God's laws and principle...

Once we go through the entire trauma healing process and are 100% healed, we know which triggers were easiest to overcome first and I share the top 3 in this episode. Overcoming these top 3 triggers paves the way to overcoming additional triggers to promote the healing process. The 3 triggers we will cover are embarrassment, feeling awkward, and being easily confused. Those three are the easiest t...

A brief synopsis of what you will get inside the course 'How to Deal with Toxic Coworkers' at CHA Academy as the same steps apply to dealing with these toxic narcissistic abusers in any environment. We learn that we must tell them 'no,' set boundaries, and go either full or limited contact with the narcissistic abuser to protect our mental and spiritual health. These concepts are a significant par...

While we do need proof of things for buying a home, renting a place, or buying a car, there are things in the spiritual that we don't need proof of. God does confirm things in the spiritual with His spiritual awareness. The narcissistic matrix walks by sight and not by faith, so it will always need "proof" of things that it cannot "see in the physical." Take your time to let that digest. While we...

We learn these narcissistic abusers always underestimate the power of God that is on the inside of their chosen targets. They will assume things that are not true, believe everyone else thinks like they they do, and they don't have spiritual discernment. Narcissistic abusers simply emulate what they see on tv in movies and drama shows because they have no control of their minds or over themselves....

The more we learn about narcissistic abuse and how the abusers are toddlers in adult bodies, the more we see their attempts to get attention, how they throw temper tantrums, how they get angry when ignored and more! Website: https://cdhrwdrmd.org CHA Academy: https://chaacademybtbw.com YouTube: https://youtube.com/ @narcissismcognitivedissonance

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When learning about narcissistic abuse as part of trauma healing, there are many red flags we often ignored until God awakened us to all of the evil that surrounds us on a daily basis. The red flags we are discussing in this episode include love-bombing, devaluing, discarding, and hovering. Plus, how excessive flattery works ruin, triangulation, making mountains out of molehills, false accusations...

Overcoming narcissistic abuse requires knowledge about what trauma responses are so we can heal from them and stop being manipulated by the narcissistic abusers. It is all about heightened awareness! Common trauma responses are feeling the need to unnecessarily defend ourselves, over-explaining ourselves, being easily offended, restlessness, always having a sense of urgency, and the catalyst to al...

When dealing with narcissistic abusers, we learn that they feed on emotional supply. They do prefer negative emotional supply and they like to project their negative emotions onto others. We are in a spiritual battle for the mind and part of the fight is understanding that emotions are spiritual energy in motion. Once we realize that they feed on our emotions, we stop giving them the supply they e...

Fellow warriors testimony with real-world examples. Narcissistic abusers are all about themselves and do many things to try and confuse people. We are living in a world full of narcissism and learning how to navigate through it is possible with God and the right tools. Website: https://cdhrwdrmd.org YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/NarcissismCognitiveDissonance44

Announcement for business and employer consultations at CHA, realizing the narcissistic abuse matrix is all about feeding on emotions, learning to stop internalizing the negative emotions, how to stop allowing ourselves to get sucked into the chaos and drama of the narcissistic matrix, and learning to ignore the fake fear mongering messages that are nothing new under the sun. Learning how to obtai...

Once we accept the narcissistic abuser is an abuser, we must learn to say no and set boundaries to protect our mental and spiritual health. Acceptance doesn't mean we ignore or excuse their bad behaviors, it just means we are aware of them and no longer tolerate them by cutting them off at the soul level. We learn to tell them no and set boundaries as part of breaking the trauma bonds. Trauma bond...

Real-world occurrences of narcissistic behaviors and how these predators operate to try to instill confusion and belittle their targets. The more we know, the more we grow. There are nuances in the crossover of narcissistic abuse behavior that can trick a survivor into thinking they are not being abused. This is why we have many crept in unawares.

Announcing CHA's 5 P's Coaching Course where learners gain unlimited access to the course materials and CHA Academy's Community Forum, discussing how emotional intelligence requires emotional maturity, and why narcissistic abusers do not have emotional intelligence. The system of narcissism is obsessed with all things "emotional" for a reason. Emotional maturity must come first to develop emotiona...

Overcoming trauma triggers as we learn they are always external, finding humor in some of the narcissistic behaviors because they end up playing themselves, recognizing who the enemy has access to around us, and not letting them trick us into living in fear are some of the ways we stay sane in an insane world. Plus, a little story time that illustrates how the evildoers try to trick us into being...

Introduction to Consulting for Heightened Awareness (CHA), what narcissistic abuse and the trauma bond are, how the trauma bond leads to people living in fear, and how we are in a spiritual battle for the mind.

Introduction to Consulting for Heightened Awareness (CHA), what narcissistic abuse and the trauma bond are, how the trauma bond leads to people living in fear, and how we are in a spiritual battle for the mind.