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Narcissists will try to find snuggle bunnies for each of man's seasons. When Winter is coming around, they try to line up "Winter snuggle bunnies" who will be discarded when it comes to to find "Summer Fun" snuggle bunnies in the Spring. Narcissists operate based on 'man's seasons' so they become very predictable. God's seasons are not the same as man's seasons. Narcissists will try to find whatev...

Chosen ones will not be able to walk in God's purpose for them if they are still easily triggered. We cannot allow narcissists to keep triggering us if we expect to fulfill God's perfect will for us. We must learn that all trauma triggers are always external and not coming from within us. Trauma triggers are designed to get people to give up and give in. Chosen ones are not to give up and give in!...

Trauma healing involves detoxing from toxicity. We are exposed to toxicity from narcissists and radio frequency on a daily basis. We have the ability to make better choices for healthier living. Detoxing is a slow and steady process too so we don't want to rush the process. As we detox we will see improved circulation which leads to proper nutrient delivery inside our bodies where the nutrients ne...

Healing from trauma isn't going to be an overnight process. Trauma healing takes time. We learn that we must allow ourselves the space and time needed to heal and not let outside distractions dictate how we move during the healing process. God doesn't wave a magic want for the healing process because there are lessons to learn during the process we would not learn if God did magically rid us of ou...

When living in fear, people are easier to control and manipulate, aka abuse. We learn about how the matrix uses fear mongering messages that are often recycled to keep the 'fear momentum' going. One cannot live in fear and walk by faith at the same time. It doesn't work that way in God's reality. Fear also leads to impulse buying, one of the devils favorite tricks to get into peoples finances. Cho...

Once we learn how the devil has no mother and the matrix has a mommy complex, it comes to our attention that the narcissistic matrix has a parental complex. Narcissists want to play the "role" of being of parent while not actually parenting because the world teaches parenting from a "control" standpoint. Plus, the whole nature vs nurture debate gets a good reality check when we realize that narcis...

The game of narcissism is all about 'make-believe.' We learn that a lot of things in the matrix are just made-up deceptions to deceive whomever can be deceived. The game of narcissism uses numerology against people too and quantitative statistics is too easy to manipulate to get the numbers someone wants. It truly is all about perception management inside the narcissistic matrix with all the illus...

When we make it to God's reality, we begin to learn that narcissists don't suffer from a personality disorder like the world wants us to believe they do. In the beginning, the world's labels make sense while we process what just happened. However, the further along we get in the spiritual awakening, we begin to see there isn't a rise in narcissists and that demonic possession is real. You can alwa...

When we learn that narcissists feed on emotional supply, many of us wondered why and how that is possible. Eventually we come to learn about spiritual energy transfer and how empathy is the conduit that narcissists look for to project their negative emotions onto others. I answer the question about what is spiritual energy, how spiritual energy is transferred, how narcissists are emotional and ene...

Once we are awakened to narcissism and how the world is a stage, we start to understand God's word better as the Holy Spirit interprets His teachings for us. In Ephesians chapter 1 there are several verses that teach us about God's spiritual inheritances. Narcissists will never understand these truths as they cannot spiritually discern. I cover God's spiritual blessings, the Holy Spirit of Promise...

When God awakens us to all the abuse around us and we start to see more of the same abusive behaviors all around us in those we never saw them in before it is natural to think there is a rise in narcissism. What we learn later is there is no rise in narcissism because it is the work of the devil. In this episode I share excerpts from my first book about this topic with the beginning of narcissism,...

We learn eventually that we are not meant to stay in the rabbit hole. The rabbit hole goes deep and is full of truths mixed with lies just like we encounter on the world stage. It takes serious discernment to know what is true vs what is made up inside the matrix and the rabbit hole is part of the matrix. All the truths mixed with lies are the very deception we are warned about in God's word and w...

We learn that narcissists have many ways for seeking attention and while some are more obvious, there are some that are not so obvious. The subtle ways narcissists seek attention are not as noticeable until we are awakened and God reveals them to us. Examples include when the narcissist makes noises while looking at you with a side glance, hoping you will notice and ask if they are 'okay.' That is...

When we learn to change our thinking from a scarcity mindset to an abundance mindset, we will eventually see the abundance in the physical once toxic narcissists are not in our environment anymore. We will not see any abundance while in the presence of narcissists for a number of reasons and one is that we will 'share' with them to keep the peace. Jesus tells us He came some that we can live and l...

I walk you through the steps for how chosen ones come to realize that narcissism is a spiritual disorder and not a worldly label. You will learn about the beginning where we start to see more narcissists around us and why it "appears" as though there is a rise in narcissism. You will also learn about the moment when the worldview labels no longer resonate with chosen ones and how we come to realiz...

As we continue to gain the heightened awareness God needs us to have we begin to see how the game of narcissism is played on the world stage. You will hear concepts about how narcissists think life is game, classical conditioning being used during the trauma bonding process, how the world slaps labels on people to try and mask demonic possession, the goal of the enemy is turn as many as he can int...

The final part to this series for how to unlearn worldly garbage to make room for God's wisdom! Just a few more points to discuss that include the importance of speaking positivity over your life, seeking truths in God's reality, and no longer ignoring what we see and hear in the physical and spiritual. We stop letting the enemy use cognitive dissonance (confusion) against us. I also share a real-...

Picking up where we left off in PT3 with how to unlearn worldly garbage, starting with getting into some kind of exercise structure. Exercise helps to keep the mind clearer and circulation working better. We also remind ourselves the world is a stage and this takes time to process. Additionally, we learn to spend more time being physically alone. God need us to do that too so we can hear Him and b...

Unlearning worldly garbage is necessary to make room for God's wisdom and sharpen our discernment. This episode covers how to do that by learning what God says about us and purge the subconscious of what the world said about us. Another point for unlearning worldly garbage is we stop having a 'massive' open mind about things because that is how all the garbage got in there in the first place. The...

Picking up where we left off in PT1 with the frequent self-reminders for unlearning worldly garbage. The other steps we cover include asking God what else is lying dormant in the subconscious that needs to be purged and we begin to question everything we have ever been taught about the world and about ourselves. Unlearning worldly garbage is a significant part of trauma healing and spiritual growt...

Part of trauma healing is unlearning worldly garbage, all the lies we have been told about the world and ourselves. The world wanted us to think things about ourselves that are not true so we would follow the crowd. God is clear about not following the crowd. Unlearning worldly garbage starts with knowing that it is a mental and spiritual activity that must be intentional. And then we must underst...

Description: We wrap up the series for trauma healing steps in this episode with the final four steps out of the top 10 steps. The steps we have covered so far are the initial shock, first round of acceptance, rumination, inner-work, unpacking the bag of talents and gifts from God on the inside, and the second round of acceptance. The final four steps are getting into alignment (reconnecting in mi...

After we make it through the rumination phase (step 3) in the trauma healing process, we are able to move forward and discover what it is God has called us to do on this planet for His glory. What we are called to do will have a healing and helping component to it since Jesus is a helper and healer! The steps we cover are inner-work, unpacking that bag, and the second round of acceptance. While we...

There are many steps in the trauma healing process and we are discussing the first three in this episode. These first three steps, overcoming the initial shock, first round of acceptance, and rumination are in the exact order they will occur for all trauma survivors. The other two steps that are also in an exact order are the second phase of acceptance and then radical acceptance. All other steps...

Trauma healing takes deep inner work and a lot of people are not willing to do that since it requires admitting to ourselves what needs to be changed, like outgrowing that pesky "adrenaline rush" addiction. For those who do embark on that maturity path, here are some common trauma responses we find ourselves head to head with that need to be overcome for full trauma healing. Once we can master hea...