Drinks With the Dinks

Who really wears the pants in a relationship? Is it one person calling all the shots, or does the "power" shift depending on the situation? This week, we're diving into the age-old debate of who wears the pants. From finances and vacations to household chores, major life decisions, and social planning, we're breaking down who naturally takes the lead in different parts of our r...

🎉 It's our 50th episode and almost exactly one year since we hit record for the very first time! 🎉 This week, we're celebrating two major milestones at once by talking about the milestones that shape our lives and relationships. From the obvious ones—dating, moving in together, getting engaged, and getting married—to the less talked about moments that often have an even bigger impact,...

Emma is taking a well-deserved break this week, so Ryan is joined by his best friend Kris for a long-overdue catch-up session. From old stories and questionable life choices to what's been happening behind the scenes lately, the two friends sit down and pick up right where they left off. Expect plenty of laughs, random tangents, inside jokes, and the kind of conversations that only happen whe...

This week on Drinks with the Dinks Podcast, we’re running purely on caffeine and whatever brain cells we had left after this week. So naturally, we decided to play a very serious and intellectual game of Are You Smarter Than a 5th Grader? Spoiler alert: things went downhill fast. From embarrassingly wrong answers to discussing how intellectual we were in school, this episode is chaotic, stupid, an...

This week on Drinks with the DINKs , Ryan opens up about the story that shaped his entire life. From losing his mother to murder at just two years old, to the heartbreaking loss of his grandfather only a couple years later, this episode dives into the grief, confusion, and unanswered questions that followed him through childhood. But the story doesn’t stop there. At 19 years old, Ryan discovered t...

In this episode, we dive into the often invisible—but very real—mental load in relationships… and things get a little heated. Emma opens up about what it feels like to carry nearly all of the planning, organizing, remembering, and emotional labor that keeps everything running smoothly, while Ryan is forced to confront just how much he’s been overlooking. From daily to-do lists to the constant back...

This week Emma talks about everything she hates about Ryan! At least that's how I'm taking it! And since I'm the one that writes the descriptions of these episodes, it has to be true! So grab a drink and enjoy the long list of "icks" I do that give Emma the instant nope!  Also, don't forget to let us know what your definition of diarrhea is! 💩 Send us Fan Mail Suppor...

This week, we sit down with the creative mind behind DINK: The Musical —the show that hilariously unpacks the double-income-no-kids lifestyle through song, satire, and a whole lot of truth. We dive into the inspiration behind the musical, what it says about modern relationships, and why the DINK life has become such a cultural talking point. From balancing ambition and partnership to navigating so...

Communication is something we all do every day—but how often are we actually good at it? In this episode, we dive into the art of communication: what it really means to be heard, understood, and connected. From the way we argue to how we express love, we explore the subtle (and not-so-subtle) habits that can either strengthen or sabotage our relationships. We talk about the difference between list...

Is PDA sweet… or should some things stay private? In this episode, we go head-to-head on public displays of affection—how we acted when we were younger versus now, and whether age changes what’s acceptable. From subtle touches to full-on makeout sessions, we’re breaking down where the line is and who’s crossing it. Bonus: we call out the most awkward places to show affection (and yes, we’ve all se...

In this episode, we dive into the wildly different ways men and women approach their health. From men avoiding the doctor at all costs to women diagnosing themselves before the appointment is even booked, we unpack the habits, fears, and social norms behind it all. Is it stubbornness? Conditioning? Or just pure denial? Grab a drink and join us as we compare checkups, pain tolerance, and why “I’m f...

In our 40th episode we hit the road! Apologies in advance  for the less than stellar audio, but when you're as busy as we are, sometimes you need to multitask and record while you drive to Disney.  We play a little game called defend the take where a random hot take is chosen and one of us has to defend it (even if we don't agree) while the other person tries to destroy it.  Thank you ev...

Some people count down the days to their birthday, while others would rather let it pass quietly. In this episode, we dive into why birthdays can bring out completely different feelings in people. From childhood expectations and personality differences to the pressure of getting older, we explore the psychology behind why some people love the spotlight while others would rather skip the candles al...

In this episode, we dive into The Let Them Theory and how one simple mindset shift can completely change your relationships, stress levels, and expectations. We talk about what “let them” really means, why trying to control other people is exhausting, and how releasing that need can actually bring more peace into your marriage and everyday life. From friendships and relationships, to random strang...

Homeownership sounded like a flex… until the first unexpected bill hit. In this episode, we get real about what owning a house is actually like — from the surprise costs nobody warned us about to the debate of buying new vs old (spoiler: both will try to drain your bank account). We break down the positives and negatives of being homeowners, talk about whether it’s helped or hurt our relationship,...

In this episode, we take a trip back to our hooligan era — when Friday nights meant the skating rink, questionable dance moves, and way too much PDA in public places. From awkward make-out sessions behind arcade machines to dabbling in things we definitely thought made us cool at the time, we unpack the chaos of growing up with very little shame and a lot of confidence. We’re talking about the wil...

Taking a leap of faith is easy… until it involves your money, your time, and your marriage. 😅 In this episode, we talk about what it’s really like to chase new ventures—from starting a resin craft business to tossing around the idea of opening a dog bar. We dive into how to support your partner’s business dreams without losing your mind (or your savings), how to tell the difference between a pass...

Valentine’s Day didn’t start with heart-shaped chocolates and awkward dinner reservations… so where did it come from? In this episode, we dive into the surprisingly weird history of Valentine’s Day, share some of the most interesting facts about how this holiday became what it is today, and give our honest opinions on how we feel about it now. From ancient traditions to modern-day pressure to be “...

In this episode, we crack open our high school memory boxes and read the actual notes we wrote to each other back in 2007 — dramatic handwriting, questionable poetry, and all. To celebrate our 19th dating anniversary, we take a trip down memory lane to revisit who we were as teenagers and how those cringey little notes turned into a real-life marriage. We talk about young love, growing up together...

This week we stumble our way through boundaries in a relationship. We go through the 6 types of healthy boundaries that "experts" think you should follow for a healthy relationship. If you're not intoxicated or under the influence during this episode, you might want to be. Send us Fan Mail Support the show Follow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

This week we're talking about the questions, "Is your spouse your best friend?" and "Is it important for your relationship to be best friends?". We give our take on the questions as well as discussing some responses our fans/listeners gave to us. Make sure you listen all the way to the end for an... interesting response we received.  Until we drink again!  🥂 Send us Fan M...

Another milestone for the DINKS, episode 30!!! As is custom, we're getting deep this week. Play along at home with your significant other and let us know how your New Year has started. We want to hear more from our listeners! Send us Fan Mail Support the show Follow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

Happy New Year!!! This week we're talking about our new years resolutions as a couple. What we plan on doing (or trying to do) to make us a stronger couple. Grab your champagne and let's toast to an amazing 2026 full of love and laughter! Send us Fan Mail Support the show Follow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

In this festive episode, we unwrap the magic behind Christmas traditions that bring comfort, joy, and connection during the holiday season. From decorating trees and exchanging gifts to unique family traditions.  We explore how these traditions began, how they’ve evolved, and why they still matter today. Whether your Christmas is filled with cozy family rituals or you’re still discovering new trad...

In this festive episode, we’re diving into one of the great holiday debates: Do couples make Christmas lists for each other, or should you just buy what you think your partner would love? From partners who want detailed links and exact sizes, to spouses who insist that guessing is part of the romance, we explore how different couples navigate the season of giving. We’ll also share listener stories...