Dr. Judy WT"Freud"

Being quarantined at this time is challenging enough. When you are quarantining with people that are reacting your negative core beliefs. As the challenge to all of you, I suggest that you use this time to self reflect and self correct and work on dismantling the effects of your childhood wounds on your beliefs. You can do that through the mind map video series and we are always here to help at th...

As we go through this pandemic, it is important to realize that we are all interconnected and they we have a profound effect each other. Now is a good time to dial down the amygdala by healing our childhood wounds and being more tolerant of others who are short on emotional bandwidth. use this time to self care and to connect with each other. Remember that human connection heals while apathy bring...

At a time where we have to isolate, I challenge everyone to connect through kind words and deeds. Sometime we need to take the time to regroup and heal as we globally go into our isolationism. We can use this as a time for self reflection, self correction, and emotional connection to others. Emotional connection is available even when we can not physically be near each other. Please understand tha...

Not everyone who is passive aggressive is narcissistic. The passive aggressive behavior can be a defense mechanism or it could be a way to demean, devalue, and destroy other people. It can make them feel gas lite and crazy, empowering over them behind their back. Silent treatment is a common of being passive aggressive. These people lack communication skills and do not know how to resolve conflict...

People who are most vulnerable to Ponzi schemes and other rip off schemes are people who have been validate in early life. Rather than protecting children, some families use their own children to fulfill their needs. They may even use their children to help build a corporate business and even use their college funds to bail them out of jail as in the case of "Robert", our call in guest. These boun...

Overt narcissism is much more obvious. There is an air of flamboyance. A way of being in the world were they grandiose themselves and act as if they are better than everyone else even if this is unearned. Narcissistic defense seemingly protect against childhood wounds, ultimately leaving family and friendships destroys. Most people suffering from this disorder will not seek treatment because they...

The covert narcissistic is in some sense more dangerous because you do not seem them coming. They act as if they care, they act as if they are committed, they act as if they love you, but they have been so injured that they have been left apathetic. As they age they may act out or may also act out by replacing their significant other and toss them aside in exchange for a better supply. The "better...

Fragile parents create pressure on a child to hold them up and compensate for their weakness. Whether the fragility steams from mental or physical health issues; the child is often time parentified and expected to over function in the family. This kind of pressure leaves the child feeling isolated, anxies, and social rejected. They may not even be aware that their parental dysfunction is the cause...

Building a sense of self after narcissistic abuse requires that you identify your childhood wounds, dismantlement their effects on you and re-code into health. The messages your parents left you with diminish your sense of self, leaving you at the effect of life. What ideally should have happened, is proper attainment and mirroring and support of yourself. What happens in narcissistic abusive fami...

When a child comes from a family where the parents are not able to take on the parental role, the burden falls on the child's' shoulders. The saddest aspect of a child gone wrong is their childhood is lost. This kind of stress can wreak emotional havoc and also create mood disorders such as: depression, anxiety, and abusive compulsive disorder or OCD. It is important to catch these patterns so you...

It might be tempting to rescue another person, but what happens to that person who gets strong and is no longer needy. Are you still going to be supportive of him or her, or will you be threatened that you are losing control and being taken off the pedestal. Knights in shining in armor are attractive to damsel in distress and vice versa. At first the story is off to a good start but later the stor...

Why Do We Chase After People Who Don't Seem To Care About Our Well Being. When we have been raised by apathetic parents, we have more of a tendency to chase after people who are also apathetic in order to convert them to empathetic people who will reverse the damages of our childhood. Rarely if ever does this horrible system work. One we do our inner work and heal our own hole in the soul we don't...