Sheila Akbar, PhD

Don't Force It: How to Get into College without Losing Yourself in the Process

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For all the stressed-out parents trying to help their teenagers navigate the complicated world of college admissions.  Each episode offers insightful and in-depth conversations with admissions experts and professional educators with practical advice for getting through the process without losing sight of yourself, your kid, or your sanity.  From building a strong academic and extracurricular profile, developing the college list, managing standardized tests, to crafting the perfect essay, we've got you covered. Whether you're a seasoned high school parent or a first-timer, join us for candid co...

Author

Sheila Akbar, PhD

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Education

Podcast website

dontforceit.buzzsprout.com

Latest episode

Oct 8, 2025

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Episodes

Shereem Herndon-Brown: The Black Family's Guide to College Admissions 28.03.2024

In today's episode, I sit down with Shereen Herndon-Brown, founder of Strategic Admissions Advice, about the evolving college admissions process. We dive into the significance of redefining success, the value of authenticity, and the importance of embracing one's unique identity in college applications. Tune in for insights on storytelling and diversity in higher education. Bio Featured...

Van Tran: Embracing the Pivot 21.03.2024

In today's episode, I sit down with Van Tran, co-founder of API Rising, and delve into the intersection of art and technology, her pivotal career transitions in corporations, and the importance of trusting oneself in navigating diverse career paths. Join us for a conversation that inspires embracing purpose-driven career pivots and making a meaningful impact. Bio Van is a community builder, D...

Let’s Get Tactical: How to Build a College List 14.03.2024

In today’s podcast episode, I talk about the college list. From navigating super scoring policies to campus visits and holistic considerations, gain valuable insights on creating a tailored list for a seamless college application process. Join me for essential tips and tools to guide you through this crucial phase. Resources here: Signet Education’s College List-Building Lab Personal College Inven...

Emmaline Cook: Learning for the Sake of Learning 07.03.2024

In today's episode, Signet’s Business Development Manager Emmaline shares her remarkable journey—from unconventional high school experiences and the complexities of college admissions to a surprising detour into dance during a transformative gap year. Her story is a testament to self-discovery, resilience, and the pursuit of authentic fulfillment. Tune in! Bio Emmaline is our logistical front...

Evan Mandery: How Elite Colleges Divide Us 29.02.2024

In today's episode, join me for a captivating conversation with Evan Mandery, as we unravel the hidden truths behind elite colleges, exposing their role in perpetuating social inequality. Tune in for a compelling exploration that might reshape your perspective. Bio An Emmy and Peabody award winner, Evan Mandery is the author of eight books, including four novels and, most recently, Poison Ivy...

Ned Johnson: The Self-Driven Child 22.02.2024

In today's episode, join me in a thought-provoking conversation with Ned Johnson, author of several books and founder of PrepMatters. We delve into crucial parenting topics, sharing insights from his book, "The Self-Driven Child." Your journey to understanding and empowering your child begins here, tune in! Bio Ned Johnson is the founder of PrepMatters, an educational company that h...

Dr. Neha Pathak and Dr. Joyce Varughese: Education and the Children of Immigrants 15.02.2024

In today's episode, I engage in a compelling conversation with two dear friends and accomplished professionals, Dr. Neha Pathak and Dr. Joyce Varughese, on navigating the pressures of college and societal expectations. They offer insightful advice for the next generation, urging a pursuit of passion over predefined paths. Join us as they candidly discuss the complexities of finding contentmen...

Andy Friedman: Word Nerd 08.02.2024

In today's episode, join us as we dive into Andy's unique journey on exploring the art of writing, the musicality of language, and how he guides students to craft compelling narratives. Get ready for an engaging and insightful discussion! Bio Andy has been working at Signet since 2018 and has tutored and taught for over a decade. He specializes in admissions writing, test prep (including...

Let’s get tactical: How to Plan your Summer 01.02.2024

Welcome back to the podcast! After a refreshing holiday break, join me as I share valuable insights on making your student’s summer meaningful. Let’s kick off the year together! Access Signet's Guide to Summer Planning here . Explore various summer programs and exciting opportunities from Pathways to Science, Teenlife , and College Match Point . Access free resources and learn more about Shei...

Samara Bay: Permission to Speak 21.12.2023

In today's episode, I dive into a captivating conversation with Samara Bay, an advocate for embracing individuality and finding power in our unique voices. We explore the transformative impact of authenticity and self-acceptance while uncovering Samara's upcoming newsletter series, 'How to Show Up,' aimed at reshaping power dynamics. Join us for an inspiring discussion! Bio Sam...

Let’s Get Tactical: Early Results Are Coming Out 12.12.2023

Early results are here! Dive into my latest episode to understand how to decode acceptances, denials, and deferrals, and learn why these decisions don't define your journey. Join me as we navigate the highs and lows of early applications, helping you support your child through this pivotal moment! Access free resources and learn more about Sheila and her team at Signet Education at signeteduc...

McKenzie Carver: What is a Co-Op program? 07.12.2023

In today's episode, I sit down with McKenzie, Signet Education's exceptional Community and Operations Manager. Our conversation delves into the impact of her Co-Op program at Northeastern on her college experience and her career journey.  BIO McKenzie joined Signet as the Community Manager in early 2022. She works closely with Andrea, Signet’s Director of Operations, to plan both fun and...

Elaine Taylor-Klaus and Diane Dempster: Supporting Parents of Complex Kids 30.11.2023

In today's episode, I sit down with Elaine Taylor-Klaus and Diane Dempster from Impact Parents to discuss the intricacies of modern parenting. We delve into the challenges of setting expectations, raising 'complex kids,' and the evolving roles parents play in their children's lives. Join us as we uncover the secrets to a more fulfilling and less anxiety-driven approach to paren...

Jay Rosner: Bias in Testing and College Admissions 16.11.2023

In today's episode, I sit down with Jay Rosner to explore the realm of standardized testing, discuss fairness in education, and dissect the recent legal battles over affirmative action in college admissions. BIO Jay Rosner is an admission testing and test-prep expert based in the San Francisco Bay area. He is the Executive Director of The Princeton Review Foundation, a small nonprofit that pr...

Let's Get Tactical: Now That Early Apps Are Done 08.11.2023

In this episode, I talk about what to do now that early college applications are behind us. Uncover essential post-early-admission steps and strategic insights to navigate your next move. Don't miss this expert advice on the college admissions journey! Become a part of our Circle community . Access free resources and learn more about Sheila and her team at Signet Education at signeteducation....

Chris LaTempa: Recruited Athletes & College Admissions 02.11.2023

In today's episode, I sit down with Chris LaTempa, a seasoned college counseling expert with a wealth of knowledge in the intricate world of college athletic recruiting. If you have a child considering college athletics, this episode is a MUST LISTEN! Bio Chris began his current role as Director of College Counseling at Moorestown Friends School this past summer after 8 years as the Associate...

Jaime Smith: Transfer & Homeschool Admissions 25.10.2023

In today's episode, I sit down with educational consultant Jamie Smith to explore transfer admissions. Join us as we unravel the opportunities and challenges for non-traditional students, from transfers to homeschoolers. Get ready for insights into the evolving higher education landscape and its impact on admissions. Don't miss this conversation about fostering diversity on campuses and...

Annie Tulkin: Accessible College 18.10.2023

In this episode, Annie Tulkin, the founder of Accessible College, and I discuss the world of college transition support for students with disabilities. Don't miss this insightful conversation that sheds light on the path to college success for all students. Bio Annie Tulkin is the Founder and Director of Accessible College , as well as an educator, author and public speaker. She is an expert...

Don’t Force It: An Intentional Approach to College Admissions 12.10.2023

Join me as we dive deep into the college admissions process and explore the three essential phases that set students up for success. We'll uncover the importance of building a solid foundation, strategic preparation, and crafting a compelling narrative. Discover how an intentional approach can transform the college journey into a rewarding experience. Life Satisfaction Wheel Connect with me o...

Hanna Stotland: Educational Crisis Management & Admissions 05.10.2023

In today's episode, I sit down with Educational Crisis Manager, Hannah Stotland. She works with students to recover their academic records and reapply to programs after major incidents, like medical leaves, ethics code violations, or family emergencies. Her message is clear: there is hope, but it will take your hard work. Bio Hanna Stotland flunked out of high school, got a G.E.D., and went o...

Tag team: Holly and Sheila discuss applying to graduate school 27.09.2023

In today's episode, Holly and I dive deep into the world of applying to graduate school. Whether you're contemplating a Ph. D. or an academic-focused master's program, these essential insights will empower you to craft a compelling application and embark on an enriching academic journey. Bio Holly has tutored for over a decade and specializes in undergraduate and graduate admissions...

Sharon Genicoff: Personal Branding in College Admissions 20.09.2023

In this episode, I sit down with high school college counselor Sharon Genicoff to explore the art of crafting an authentic personal brand for your college applications. Our conversation empowers students to present their unique qualities in a meaningful way, ensuring their college applications stand out and reflect their genuine selves. Tune in for invaluable insights on creating a compelling coll...

Alberto Naviera: STEM tutoring 13.09.2023

In today’s episode, I speak with one of Signet's Principal Tutors, Alberto Naviera. We discuss Alberto’s unique approach to STEM tutoring, his empathetic connections with students, and how he empowers them to conquer the challenges of learning science. Tune in to learn more about how we meet students where they are at Signet! Bio Alberto joined the Signet team in 2021 with 5 years of prior tu...

Bob Schaeffer: Fairtest.org 06.09.2023

Today I sit down with longtime friend, Bob Schaeffer. Bob is an incredible source of knowledge around how the testing landscape has changed in the last several decades and the work that he and his team at FairTest do is invaluable. Tune in to hear about the test optional movement in college admissions and more! Bob Schaeffer is currently the Public Education Director of FairTest, the National Cent...

Mai Moore and Yumi Ndhlovu: Navigating College Admissions as a Woman of Color 31.08.2023

Today’s episode is a special one: I get to talk to a mom and her daughter about their experience with the college process. Navigating college admissions is hard for anyone, and for people with minority backgrounds, there are additional factors to consider. Tune in to learn how one family listened to their values and found the right fit for their student. Bio: Mai Moore is an Award-Winning Social I...

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