Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts

Don't Blame Me!

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Don’t Blame Me is the weekly advice and pop culture podcast hosted by Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts. Each episode, the duo dishes out candid, unfiltered advice on everything from relationships and sex to work drama and life’s most awkward moments. They also delve into pop culture, rant about current events, and unpack the wildest corners of the internet, all with their signature humor, honesty, and chaotic charm. It’s like hanging out with your smartest, funniest besties who aren’t afraid to tell you the truth, and make you laugh while doing it. Check out their other show, But Am I Watchin...

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Author

Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts

Category

Society

Podcast website

www.dontblameme.show

Latest episode

Oct 5, 2026

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Episodes

FF: Chalam-énders Stay Alert! 22.12.2023

There wasn't a new But Am I Wrong last week so we don't have any results to read. Instead Meghan has news to report on about Club Chalamet and Melisa shares the war on tech that's happening in her parents' home. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

BAIW: Taking Job From My Stepmom 21.12.2023

But Am I Wrong: Meghan: Bring back the next era of Josh Hutcherson Melisa: Saying that she and her sister don’t look alike But Are You Wrong: Friend didn't tell me about a scholarship Getting offered a job But Are They Wrong Meghan: Matt Rife Melisa: Jonathan Majors  Smile Direct Club National Retail Federation Texas Supreme Court Teacher who put Zen Patches on pre-school students Julianna Marguli...

SYNT: Melisa's Making A Movie 19.12.2023

Life never slows down for Melisa! This week, she's juggling audiobook directing, navigating the single life, and prepping for a movie with Hollywood big shot Gabe S. Dunn. Oh, and did we mention her period finally returned? Meanwhile, Meghan's on a mission to win "Coolest Aunt" with Christmas decorations so epic, they might cause a blackout. Plus, Tom Hiddleston's bolognese recipe? Get ready for l...

DBM: Get The Results You Want w/ Logan Ury 18.12.2023

Meghan and Melisa are joined by behavioral scientist turned dating coach and the author of the bestselling dating book "How to Not Die Alone," Logan Ury. They give advice on: Being disappointed in dating prospects on apps Meeting people in a new city Taking care of your partner's pet Reacquainting with your situationship Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Loga...

REPLAY - BAIW: Peed on Dorm Floor 14.12.2023

Original Air Date: September 22, 2023 For But Am I Wrong Melisa: Farts shouldn't be taboo Meghan: White Americans are hypocritical when it comes to their proposed ally ship with Black Lives Matter and systemic racism shown by their obsession and praise of the monarchy.  In But Am You Wrong they if listeners were wrong in the following situations: Not being attracted to your partner Boyfriend won't...

SYNT: The P Is Always Open 12.12.2023

Meghan's voice is back, but can it survive a heated debate on MENSA myths and finger-counting shortcuts? Melisa's Renaissance Film euphoria takes a hilarious turn after a post-screening mishap, and the hosts dive into the fascinating world of IQ tests. Is finger counting a secret weapon against test anxiety? Tune in to this week's double-dose episode and find out! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/pr...

REPLAY - DBM: The Bride Peed On Me 11.12.2023

Original Air Date: April 18, 2022 Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Making a mistake in a relationship Converting to your partner's religion Fear and anxiety from medical trauma Not living up to the bride's expectations Don't Blame Them: Advice for the insecure bottom Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/...

REPLAY - BAIW: Spunky Sheets 07.12.2023

Original Airdate: May 12, 2022 Melisa wants to get rid of the filibuster and Meghan is tired of Weaponized Incompetence They then discuss if listeners were wrong in the following situations: Having an unintended sleep over Getting set up with someone who has a pregnant girlfriend Touching a housemate's laundry Staying over a friend's house who has a girlfriend And in "But Are They Wrong" AKA "Rach...

REPLAY - DBM: Entering Through The Backdoor w/ Mitchell Davis 04.12.2023

Original Airdate: January 5, 2018 Happy New Year! This week the very funny Mitchell Davis joins and we share our advice on how to tell your fuck buddy you want to be more, dealing with a friend that sent nudes to your boyfriend, and how to tell your parents that you’re in a secret relationships - regardless of whether they’re homophobic or racist. Also a listener calls in to share her advice on de...

SYNT: Gobble Gobble 28.11.2023

Join Melisa and Meghan as they unwind after a fun-filled family week and into fascinating discussions on Turkey Day feasts, adorable nephew anecdotes, and the intriguing science behind cartilage development. In this episode, Melisa shares her recent Korean spa experience, where she reached a state of relaxation so profound she mistook a gentle jingle for a dog jumping on her. The duo then delves i...

DBM: I Want to Date Someone 10 Years Older 27.11.2023

Meghan and Melisa to give advice on: Update: Twin Rings Never dated before Friend is in a relationship with a narcissist Graduation party without friends Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @meghanandme...

FF: But Am I Wrong Result: Bitch Stole My Costume 24.11.2023

Meghan and Melisa read the results from BAIW Bitch Stole My Costume, Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

BAIW: My Roommate Hovers in the Kitchen 22.11.2023

But Am I Wrong: Melisa: Black Friday Hot Takes Meghan: More people should walk around with the daily fear of being haunted But Are You Wrong: Boss was inconvenienced by my mental health day Roommate doesn't understand personal space But Are They Wrong Melisa: Jason P. Frank Meghan: Jason Gladwell of Gladwell Orthodontics in Raleigh Write In: butamiwrongpod@gmail.com Weigh In: vote in the weekly po...

SYNT: Building A House 21.11.2023

Melisa is thrilled to share her journey of applying to Disney's prestigious Writing Program. Delve into her aspirations, inspirations, and the creative process behind her application. Meanwhile, Meghan embarks on an ambitious DIY project – building an Ikea house from scratch. Follow her progress as she navigates the challenges and triumphs of this self-imposed task. Get ready to get into the festi...

DBM: Friend Wanted to Throw A Party Over My Breakup 20.11.2023

Meghan and Melisa to give advice on: Update: Friend thinks I’m going to hell because I’m bisexual. Is finishing your degree worth it? Long term boyfriend refuses to think about marriage Getting back with someone that your friends hate Being into your best friend but they aren't into you Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanr...

BAIW: Bitch Stole My Costume 16.11.2023

But Am I Wrong: Meghan: Celebrities need to stop cosplaying as minimum wage employees for promotional campaigns Melisa: Unmarried, childless people should not get gifts from the family they are giving individual gifts But Are You Wrong: Someone sitting in my row on a plane My friend took my Halloween Costume But Are They Wrong Meghan: Clare Malone Melisa: Central Park Karen - Amy Cooper Write In:...

SYNT: Wizard Rock 14.11.2023

Join Melisa and Meghan for a lively discussion of all things pop culture, from Mean Girls to the Hunger Games. Despite battling a sinus infection, Melisa is back with Meghan to dive into the latest pop culture trends. This week, they're taking a look at the Mean Girls Walmart commercials, the trailer for the upcoming Wicked musical movie, and the world of Harry Potter. Meghan is allowing Mats to f...

DBM: Engagement Ring Twins 13.11.2023

Meghan and Melisa to give advice on: Update: Moving in with your boyfriend but you're having second thoughs How to ask someone out Asking friends for your money back Proportionally splitting bills Friend copying engagement ring Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa inst...

FF: But Am I Wrong Results: Friends Won't Let Me Stay With Them 10.11.2023

Meghan and Melisa share the results from BAIW: Friends Won't Let Me Stay With Them Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

REPLAY: Thoughts of Hooking Up with a Married Co-Worker 09.11.2023

Original Air Date: May 5th, 2022 After a long discussion on LA cuisine, Meghan shares her thoughts on people giving up on climate change and Melisa thinks people should stop infantilizing the elderly. They then discuss if listeners were wrong in the following situations: Friend not wanting to stay in the chosen Airbnb for a birthday trip Being there for a friend that trauma dumps Boyfriend eating...

REPLAY: Guest: Nikki Limo - He Murdered Someone on Accident? 06.11.2023

Original Airdate: December 3, 2018 Welcome to a brand new season of Don’t Blame Me! Actress Nikki Limo is here to share her amazing advice. We’re answering your questions about being homesick, weed allergies, dating in college, being harassed by a guy with little man syndrome, and reaching out to an ex that murdered someone. We also have a listener sharing support for the caller that was sexually...

BAIW: Friends Won't Let Me Stay With Them 02.11.2023

But Am I Wrong: Meghan: Hotels are superior to Airbnb Melisa: Every year you should do a performance review of your friends But Are You Wrong: Trauma Dumping on social media Extended stay with friends But Are They Wrong Meghan: AI Buddies Melisa: Release: Amazon allowing piss to be sold Write In: butamiwrongpod@gmail.com Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.m...

SYNT: Janelle Monáe Concert 31.10.2023

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REPLAY: Boze - Should I Be with My Ex, His Best Friend, Or His Nephew? 30.10.2023

Original Air Date: February 24th, 2020 Boze joins us this week to share advice! We're sharing advice on what to do if your boyfriend's family doesn't want a relationship with you, how to be friends with someone that dates your leftovers, talking to your boyfriend about sex, and how to break up up with your boyfriend even though his mom is your boss. In Don't Blame Them a listener shares her own ad...

DBM: Sex on Antidepressants 23.10.2023

Meghan and Melisa to give advice on: Putting yourself out there for dating Being upset about you body's limitations Health anxiety Haven't had sex with partner in 8 months Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotme...

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