Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts

Don't Blame Me!

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Don’t Blame Me is the weekly advice and pop culture podcast hosted by Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts. Each episode, the duo dishes out candid, unfiltered advice on everything from relationships and sex to work drama and life’s most awkward moments. They also delve into pop culture, rant about current events, and unpack the wildest corners of the internet, all with their signature humor, honesty, and chaotic charm. It’s like hanging out with your smartest, funniest besties who aren’t afraid to tell you the truth, and make you laugh while doing it. Check out their other show, But Am I Watchin...

Author

Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts

Category

Society

Podcast website

www.dontblameme.show

Latest episode

Jul 6, 2026

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Episodes

FF: BAIW Results - Religious Deal Breaker 26.01.2024

Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong Episode: Religious Deal Breaker Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

REPLAY: I Slept With My Boyfriend's Twin Brothers (OG Title: Firsts) 25.01.2024

Original Air Date: September 15, 2017 Hey hey! Welcome back for a brand new episode. This week I’m sharing my wisdom on what to do if a guy seems like he’s not interested, dealing with emotions during your period (and everything else that comes with that), AND how to face your boyfriend’s family after you’ve slept with his twin brother. Yikes! I want to hear all of your questions that you need hel...

SYNT: GO BACK TO FLORIDA 23.01.2024

This week, Meghan and Melisa are navigating life's highs and lows (and test results). While Meghan isolates (again) with Covid, Melisa gets her fangirl fix at a Richard Linklater talk, witnesses her friend's dramatic Lifetime debut (as an incel!), and navigates family dynamics over a delicious spread. Plus, cutest nephew moment alert! And just when Meghan escapes the clutches of Omicron, Melisa fi...

DBM: Getting Over an 8 Year Relationship 22.01.2024

This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Navigating friend group meet up Moving past a relationship Correcting people using the wrong pronouns Breaking up with someone suffering alcoholism Don't Blame Them: Partner licking fingers when eating Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrien...

BAIW: My Boyfriend Watches Movies With His Female Roommate 18.01.2024

But Am I Wrong: Meghan: More women need to be comfortable fighting men Melisa: Stop asking coworker about their colleagues' side gigs But Are You Wrong: "Losing" an ex's keys Boyfriend being friends with his roommate But Are They Wrong Roxanne Doucette People that got married at the Mansion Society Write In: butamiwrongpod@gmail.com Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instag...

SYNT: Arkansas Adventure and COVID Couch Potato 16.01.2024

This week, Melisa returns from a sleigh-riding, hot chocolate-fueled Arkansas reunion with wild stories (and maybe a hint of edible-induced shenanigans). Meanwhile, Meghan battles COVID by binging classic comfort movies and discovering a hidden gem called "Focus" that she can't wait to share with Melisa. Tune in for laughter, movie recommendations, and a healthy dose of cabin fever commiseration!...

DBM: Finger Lickin' Gross 15.01.2024

Content warning: Diet culture (second write in) This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Update: Caller that slept with 3 brothers Partner licks his fingers while eating Expensive bachelorette trip Can't pass a test to graduate Diet talk at work Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanr...

REPLAY: Threesome is Down to a Twosome 11.01.2024

Original Air Date: Dec 16, 2021 Meghan and Melisa recount Meghan's engagement then discuss surprise proposals and apologies. They then give their thoughts if a listener was wrong in the following situations: Sister-in-law getting married close to your wedding day Not going to your friend's stage proposal on their 1-year wedding anniversary Getting left out of a throuple Being a "pushover" for forg...

REPLAY: My Nurse Friend Stole Medication 08.01.2024

Original Air Date: Jan 17th 2022 This week we're sharing advice on:  Boyfriend berating you because his dog bites you Dating your ex after taking a break Dating for 4 months and making plans to move in Your friend lying about pharmaceuticals Don't Blame Them: Snitching on Younger Cousin Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me    Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts...

BAIW: Religious Deal Breaker 04.01.2024

But Am I Wrong: Meghan: Bring back the Instagram Likes Page Melisa: Tesla Needs to Be Stop But Are You Wrong: Accepting expensive gives from a patron Friend's fiance want to get married in a church But Are They Wrong Meghan: Panera Bread Melisa: Neusha Alexandra Afkami Bonus: Simone Biles' Husband Write In: butamiwrongpod@gmail.com Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagr...

SYNT: 2024 Predictions and Cults 02.01.2024

Get ready as Meghan predicts 2024's wild trend. Then, hold onto your hats as Melisa shares how she almost got caught up in a cult. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

REPLAY: Our Friend Peg 01.01.2024

Original Air Date: February 11, 2019 Here’s your February M&M ep! This week Melisa and I share our advice on what to do if your non-boyfriend is using you for your car, dealing with a judgemental friend, sharing a class with a hookup you ghosted, and if you should break up with your fiance with racist parents. And in Don’t Blame Them, a listener shares her advice on dating as a bisexual. Follow Us...

FF: But Am I Wrong - Taking Job From My Stepmom 29.12.2023

Meghan and Melisa share the results for Taking Job From My Stepmom. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

SYNT: Binge This Before the Ball Drops: A Farewell to 2023 with Movie Magic and Holiday Cheer 26.12.2023

It's the last Tuesday of the year, and the air is crackling with anticipation... not just for New Year's Eve fireworks, but for a sizzling hot take on all things entertainment! Join Melisa and Meghan as they dish out their final 2023 movie and TV recommendations, guaranteed to fuel your holiday viewing frenzy. From recovering like a rom-com queen (minus the theraguns, thank you very much) to indul...

DBM: My Straight and Gay Roomies Want to Hookup With Each Other 25.12.2023

Happy Holidays! This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Not wanting to be an adult Roommates want to be friend with benefits Getting the therapy you want Coworkers telling you you're making excuses Don't Blame Them: I want to date someone who’s 10 years older Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twit...

FF: Chalam-énders Stay Alert! 22.12.2023

There wasn't a new But Am I Wrong last week so we don't have any results to read. Instead Meghan has news to report on about Club Chalamet and Melisa shares the war on tech that's happening in her parents' home. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

BAIW: Taking Job From My Stepmom 21.12.2023

But Am I Wrong: Meghan: Bring back the next era of Josh Hutcherson Melisa: Saying that she and her sister don’t look alike But Are You Wrong: Friend didn't tell me about a scholarship Getting offered a job But Are They Wrong Meghan: Matt Rife Melisa: Jonathan Majors  Smile Direct Club National Retail Federation Texas Supreme Court Teacher who put Zen Patches on pre-school students Julianna Marguli...

SYNT: Melisa's Making A Movie 19.12.2023

Life never slows down for Melisa! This week, she's juggling audiobook directing, navigating the single life, and prepping for a movie with Hollywood big shot Gabe S. Dunn. Oh, and did we mention her period finally returned? Meanwhile, Meghan's on a mission to win "Coolest Aunt" with Christmas decorations so epic, they might cause a blackout. Plus, Tom Hiddleston's bolognese recipe? Get ready for l...

DBM: Get The Results You Want w/ Logan Ury 18.12.2023

Meghan and Melisa are joined by behavioral scientist turned dating coach and the author of the bestselling dating book "How to Not Die Alone," Logan Ury. They give advice on: Being disappointed in dating prospects on apps Meeting people in a new city Taking care of your partner's pet Reacquainting with your situationship Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Loga...

REPLAY - BAIW: Peed on Dorm Floor 14.12.2023

Original Air Date: September 22, 2023 For But Am I Wrong Melisa: Farts shouldn't be taboo Meghan: White Americans are hypocritical when it comes to their proposed ally ship with Black Lives Matter and systemic racism shown by their obsession and praise of the monarchy.  In But Am You Wrong they if listeners were wrong in the following situations: Not being attracted to your partner Boyfriend won't...

SYNT: The P Is Always Open 12.12.2023

Meghan's voice is back, but can it survive a heated debate on MENSA myths and finger-counting shortcuts? Melisa's Renaissance Film euphoria takes a hilarious turn after a post-screening mishap, and the hosts dive into the fascinating world of IQ tests. Is finger counting a secret weapon against test anxiety? Tune in to this week's double-dose episode and find out! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/pr...

REPLAY - DBM: The Bride Peed On Me 11.12.2023

Original Air Date: April 18, 2022 Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Making a mistake in a relationship Converting to your partner's religion Fear and anxiety from medical trauma Not living up to the bride's expectations Don't Blame Them: Advice for the insecure bottom Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/...

REPLAY - BAIW: Spunky Sheets 07.12.2023

Original Airdate: May 12, 2022 Melisa wants to get rid of the filibuster and Meghan is tired of Weaponized Incompetence They then discuss if listeners were wrong in the following situations: Having an unintended sleep over Getting set up with someone who has a pregnant girlfriend Touching a housemate's laundry Staying over a friend's house who has a girlfriend And in "But Are They Wrong" AKA "Rach...

REPLAY - DBM: Entering Through The Backdoor w/ Mitchell Davis 04.12.2023

Original Airdate: January 5, 2018 Happy New Year! This week the very funny Mitchell Davis joins and we share our advice on how to tell your fuck buddy you want to be more, dealing with a friend that sent nudes to your boyfriend, and how to tell your parents that you’re in a secret relationships - regardless of whether they’re homophobic or racist. Also a listener calls in to share her advice on de...

SYNT: Gobble Gobble 28.11.2023

Join Melisa and Meghan as they unwind after a fun-filled family week and into fascinating discussions on Turkey Day feasts, adorable nephew anecdotes, and the intriguing science behind cartilage development. In this episode, Melisa shares her recent Korean spa experience, where she reached a state of relaxation so profound she mistook a gentle jingle for a dog jumping on her. The duo then delves i...

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