Treva Brandon Scharf and Robby Scharf

Done Being Single

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How did Treva and Robby Scharf know it was time to settle down? Because they were done being single. Before getting married for the first time at 51 and 57, Treva and Robby did it all, dated it all, and lived to tell. With a combined 108 years of single life experience under their belts, Treva and Robby are dating survivors. They’re the authorities on being single and finding love later in life. Treva and Robby don’t just offer empty platitudes and promises, they offer dating intervention. From dating apps to dating gaffes, from getting a second date to getting laid, Treva and Robby have a too...

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Treva Brandon Scharf and Robby Scharf

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Latest episode

Mar 7, 2024

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Episodes

Men, What Say You? 01.09.2018

What happens when three single guys start talking? You get a no-holds barred discussion about women, dating, aging, work, divorce, E.D., porn, getting laid, and definitely finding love. Nothing is off-limits, everything's on the table. It's as close to locker room talk as you're going to get. No bragging about grabbing women by the pussy, we promise!!

Cracking The Man Code 11.08.2018

Men shouldn't need an instruction manual or combination lock to figure out what they're thinking, what they want, or what makes them tick. Everyone says guys are simple, but we still wonder: what IS going on in their brains? Joining us this week is midlife dating and relationship coach, Jonathan Aslay. With his help, we'll crack the man code, unlock the male mind, and figure out what the hell is g...

What Women Really Want 04.08.2018

What happens when four single chicks get together to shoot the shit about men, dating, and finding love? A gabfest of epic proportions. If you're curious about what women really want, you've come to the right place. From online dating to sex, to old-fashioned courtship, you're about to hear it straight and uncensored. Be a fly on the wall for this candid, no-holds barred roundtable discussion.

Don't Take Dating So Damn Seriously! 28.07.2018

When it comes to dating, comedian Craig Shoemaker aka The Love Master, wants you to stop taking it so damn seriously! Yes, single life sucks, but you won't survive it unless you keep your sense of humor, and keep laughing it off when things go south. That's what Craig learned to do after two failed marriages, single fatherhood, and other personal difficulties. Laughter is the best medicine. That,...

How To Date In A Feminist World 21.07.2018

Today, women have the power. They have more money, influence, and authority than ever. On more equal footing with men, women are taking control and leading the charge. But what about in dating? Who takes the lead? Who’s in control? Who makes the first move, and who should pay? If you’re an old-fashioned type who believes in traditional courtship, is feminism and the #MeToo movement empowering you,...

Dating TMI: Let It Rip, Or Keep It Zipped 14.07.2018

When you’re dating, honesty is always the best policy, but how much is too much? In the interest of full disclosure, how much should you reveal and when? If you know you have issues, should you drop the bomb sooner, later, or not at all? What’s the difference between TMI, and truth in dating anyway? On this week’s episode, we’re inviting love coach Bex Burton and medical therapist Dr. Gretchen Kub...

Surviving Breakup Hell 07.07.2018

Breaking up is hard to do, in fact, it can be pure hell. But in this week's episode, we're going to show how to do it without losing your sanity or soul. To help you survive breakup hell, we're inviting acclaimed psychotherapist Dr. Fran Walfish, and divorce attorney Michelle Afont, to give you their best advice and guidance to piecing your heart and life back together. In addition, we've got othe...

Everything You Wanted To Know About Sex But Were Afraid To Ask 30.06.2018

"Everything You Wanted To Know About Sex But Were Afraid To Ask" is an old Woody Allen movie from the 70s, but it's also what we're talking about this week. Sex never gets old, never goes out of style, and can never be explained enough. That's why we're inviting sex educator Lou Paget to get down and dirty with her knowledge about all things sex. From oral to anal, from masturbation to #metoo, we'...

Everything You Want Is On The Other Side Of Fear 23.06.2018

Everything you want in life: abundance, success, a great relationship, is on the other side of fear. It's on the other side of your limiting beliefs and self-defeating thoughts too. You are deserving and worthy of love, and nothing is keeping you from it except YOU. Fear will conquer you if you don't conquer it first. Our guests this week are personal growth pioneers Gay and Katie Hendricks. In th...

Bad Boys and Crazy Chicks: Are You Addicted To Chaos? 16.06.2018

If you're constantly attracted to crazy chicks, if you're always getting burned by bad boys, if you can't enjoy a relationship without drama or get turned on by someone stable, if sex isn't hot without a hot mess, then you might be addicted to chaos. Dating doesn't have to be dysfunctional, and neither do you! We welcome board certified psychiatrist Dr. Dale Archer to share his insights, and provi...

Date Ready: From Manscaping To Anti-Aging 09.06.2018

If you're just entering the dating world, or have been dating forever, it might be a good time to take a look in the mirror. Do you like what you see? Are you the best version of yourself? Do you look and feel date ready? Maybe it's time to make some changes, update your look, get in shape, or "freshen up" a bit with some cosmetic procedures. Or maybe you just need an attitude adjustment and fresh...

Got Chemistry? The Metaphysics Of Dating 02.06.2018

As the old joke goes: a human behavioralist, a palm reader, and a psychic, all walk into a bar... What they discover is they all have something in common: the ability to intuit, look deeper, and find hidden signs and meaning into human behavior and personality. On this week's DONE BEING SINGLE, we're inviting metaphysical experts to help explain chemistry and attraction, specifically what to look...

Don't Let A Tough Childhood Stop You From Finding Love 12.05.2018

You might've had a tough childhood. You might've been a child of divorce, or from a broken home, or without good role models to show you love, or how to function in a healthy, stable relationship. Your past--regardless of how dysfunctional or tumultuous--shouldn't stop you (or keep you) from finding love and attracting healthy relationships. You don't have to be a legacy to what you experienced gr...

Be Your Own Happiness Boss 05.05.2018

Think that finding a girlfriend/boyfriend/relationship or getting married is what's going to make you happy? Think again! Your happiness is not attached to something or someone outside yourself. It comes from within, and it's all within reach. You can be the boss of your own happiness, and we're going to show you how. On this episode of DONE BEING SINGLE, Happiness Coach Ricky Powell, and former C...

Sex and the Single Girl 28.04.2018

Sex and the Single Girl was wildly popular non-fiction book written in 1962 by Helen Gurley Brown, editor of Cosmopolitan Magazine. It broke taboos and sold millions by encouraging women to take charge of their sex lives at a time when men had all the power in the bedroom. 56 years later, the single girl might have more say and more power, but she still has questions about sex, and she isn’t afrai...

So You Want To Be In A Relationship? 21.04.2018

You say you want to be in a relationship, but do you even know how? Do you know what it takes to find a healthy, stable partner? Do you know what's required to sustain a happy partnership? Treva and Robby are still learning, and want to share their discoveries and insights with you. So they're hitting the couch for some live, on-air, couples counseling with Jonathan Robinson, psychotherapist and a...

Is 'Good Enough' Good Enough? 14.04.2018

The Rolling Stones once said: “You can’t always get what you want, but if you try sometime, you find you get what you need.” But when you’re single and dating, can you get what you need without settling? Is even a little settling too much? How do you keep your bar raised, your standards high, and still be realistic? The real truth is, you get what you need when you stop searching, and start settli...

Dating With Baggage 07.04.2018

Dating with baggage--you may have it, or you may be dating someone who has it. Kids, a crazy ex, an ugly divorce, personal issues, all qualify as stuff we bring with us when we date and get into new relationships. The baggage might be heavy, but it doesn't have to weigh you down. Our guest this week, Tom Carouso, MFT, will help you unpack your baggage, unload your stuff, and free yourself up to lo...

Singles Sex: When To Have It, When Not To Have It 31.03.2018

Sex when you're single can be wild and fun if you're adventurous, or it can spell doom and gloom if you're not careful. It all depends on where you're at, what your needs are, and what kind of shape your ego is in. Long term relationship? Marriage? Fuck buddy? Casual hook-up? There's something for everybody, you just gotta be clear on what you want first. Tune into DONE BEING SINGLE and let Treva...

Online Dating: Are You A Pro Or A Con? 24.03.2018

Who are you online? A straight shooter or con job? Do you lie about your age, height, weight, income, marital status, etc. on dating apps? Or, do you tell the truth and hope for the best? On this week’s DONE BEING SINGLE, we’re delving into the shady world of online dating, with its liars, bullshitters, and yes, some very good people too. Adding her insights to the discussion will be cyber-dating...

Deal Breakers: Dig them or ditch them? 17.03.2018

We all have them—some are harsh, some are unreasonable, and some are more deal points than deal breakers. Won’t date a guy who’s separated? Won’t date a woman with small kids? Don’t want to be a nurse or a purse? Don’t want to date someone who isn’t a college grad, great looking, or rich enough? Good luck with that. As we discussed in last week’s episode, nobody’s perfect, but shouldn’t everyone h...

Are Politics Screwing Your Love Life? 03.03.2018

If you’re single in this political climate, chances are politics are either wreaking havoc on your love life, or if you’re lucky, helping you get lucky. Are you dating across the aisle, or only along party lines? These days, the politics of dating are screwing everybody. We’ll be talking to singles on the political spectrum—from diehard Dems to staunch Conservatives—to hear their take on dating in...

Is There Such A Thing As Right Person, Wrong Time? 24.02.2018

Does the concept of "Right Person, Wrong Time" really exist? Or, is it that you just haven't met the right person yet, regardless of what time it is and where you are in life? Are the people we meet at the wrong time actually just the wrong people? Or, is there something wrong with us? We'll debate these age old questions with psychologist and late blooming bride, Dr. Karin Abrell Anderson, author...

How To Know When You're Done 17.02.2018

You can't just say "I'm done!" you have to be willing to make the changes to get what you want. That means taking a hard look at yourself, your choices, and your actions. If you're mad as hell and not going to take it anymore, good for you! You're on your way to being done. In their first episode, Treva and Robby will tell their story: how they met, why they were single for so long, what they lear...

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