Empathy Architects
Do You Know You? An Enneagram Podcast
A podcast by Empathy Architect co-founders and certified Enneagram experts, coaches and teachers, Sterlin Mosley and Aaron Addonizio. Sterlin and Aaron endeavor to set the record straight regarding the truth of the Enneagram (and other personality typologies) through real, honest, and at times, humorous reflection on the many facets of the human ego. It begs the question..."do you know you?" Because if you don't, Sterlin and Aaron probably do. empathyarchitects.substack.com
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Dec 9, 2025
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Episodes
Neurodiversity, The Enneagram, and Wario? 09.12.2025 58:54
In this episode, we unpack neurodiversity and the Enneagram. Neurotype interacts with personality type and can lead to some interesting mistypings. We discuss why 7 and ADHD aren’t the same thing, why autism can run in any type (not just 5s), and why sensory sensitivities can be false positives. We also gripe a little bit about how people misunderstand the lines of connection and type themselves b...
The Enneagram, Neurodivergence, and...Design? 18.06.2025 1:05:00
In this episode, we parse the differences between personality (Enneagram, MBTI, etc.) and neurotype (especially autism and ADHD), talk about our brand studio design launch, and do a little uncomfortable self-revelation…oh, and something about moxie. You can watch our Enneagram Types in Love on the Spectrum YouTube video here . To let us know what questions you have as well as what kind of content...
On Living with a Six 11.04.2025 57:11
What’s it like to live with a 6? In this episode, Maeve Stoltz joins Aaron to explore the inner workings—and outer ripple effects—of being in a relationship with a Type 6. Maeve’s husband, a so/sp 614 gets analyzed as we talk theoretical orientation, over-alert hyperintentionality, and a bunch of other fancy sounding 6 defenses… and compare being a 6 to being a plate spinner who’s not sure if the...
Knowing Your Type Won't Fix Your Life (But This Might) 28.01.2025 1:06:10
In this episode, Aaron will introduce you to our newest EA coach - Monique Lacoste (sx/so 468) and your new favorite guide to doing "the work" you’ve been avoiding! Aaron and Monique tackle the Enneagram as a self-growth tool and spill the tea on: ⭑ What "doing the work" actually looks like (spoiler: it’s not scrolling Instagram memes)⭑ Why hyperfocusing on your type keeps you stuck (and prevents...
Yes, Another Podcast About Sixes 11.09.2024 1:12:40
In this episode, we discuss Aaron’s orange shirt, break down how Sixes can mistype or appear like the other eight types and make empty promises for more regular podcast episodes. To watch our Ichazo course, as mentioned in the episode, sign up for our course catalog subscription . This will give you access to the Ichazo course, and all of our other courses for only $19 a month. Watch as many cours...
Cultivating Presence with the Enneagram 01.03.2024 1:00:17
In this episode, we discuss cultivating greater mindfulness and present-moment awareness using the Enneagram and how to avoid the pitfalls of over-identifying with our type. We also sniff our microphones a little bit. If you're interested in diving more deeply into the Eckhart Tolle content we discussed on this episode, you can find that here .To register or learn more about our upcoming Ichazo co...
All About Threes...and a Little About Pickles 13.02.2024 1:11:54
In this episode, we discuss Threes and the plethora of misconceptions and reductionistic ideas about this type. We also have a lively discussion about a slightly NSFW sweatshirt featuring a woodland creature. We've decided to make this more fun... here's a link to a photo of that shirt we just couldn't stop talking about! To register or learn more about our upcoming Ichazo course (beginning 3/23)...
All About Twos...and a Little About Beans 30.10.2023 1:12:39
In this episode, Sterlin and Aaron talk all about Twos and the complexity and missed nuances of the types. There's also entirely too much conversation about beans. You can purchase Sterlin's book, The Narcissist in You and Everyone Else: The 27 Types of Narcissism here . To download our new Essential Enneagram Reference Guide go here . We love you all. Thank you for listening! Want to say hi, ask...
All About Fives...and a Little About Honey Badgers 03.10.2023 1:01:25
In this episode, Sterlin and Aaron discuss Fives' fascinating psychic structure and contemplate honey badgers' ferociousness. You can purchase Sterlin's book, The Narcissist in You and Everyone Else: The 27 Types of Narcissism here . To download our new Essential Enneagram Reference Guide go here . We love you all. Thank you for listening! Want to say hi, ask us a question, or submit a topic you'd...
Pitfalls on the Typology Path 31.08.2023 59:06
In this episode, Sterlin and Aaron get deep and talk about Peabo (AKA Peebo) and other pitfalls of the typology path to self-discovery. You can purchase Sterlin's book, The Narcissist in You and Everyone Else: The 27 Types of Narcissism here . To download our new Essential Enneagram Reference Guide go here . We love you all. Thank you for listening! Want to say hi, ask us a question, or submit a t...
Will the Real Eights Please Stand Up? 07.04.2023 1:06:27
Sterlin and Aaron get their hackles up talking about what makes an Eight an Eight in this premiere of the second season of Do You Know You. You can purchase Sterlin's book, The Narcissist in You and Everyone Else: The 27 Types of Narcissism here . To download our new Essential Enneagram Reference Guide go here . We love you all. Thank you for listening! Want to say hi, ask us a question, or submit...
Fours Part 3: Demystifying Sexual Four 12.10.2022 1:13:44
Sterlin and Aaron continue their discussion of Fours, specifically Sexual Four. Sterlin shares his experience as a Four, and finally, the two give 4 top traits of Sexual Fours to look for...but you have to make it through this extended hour-and-a-half-long episode to get the cliffs notes. No cheating. You can purchase Sterlin's book, The Narcissist in You and Everyone Else: The 27 Types of Narcis...
The Journey to Finding Our Types: Sterlin (sx 478) 05.09.2022 1:04:39
Do bees poop? Do Fours want validation? Does Timothy Chalamet have hands? Was Sterlin emo in high school?...and other important questions are answered in this episode. You can purchase Sterlin's book, The Narcissist in You and Everyone Else: The 27 Types of Narcissism here . To download our new Essential Enneagram Reference Guide go here . We love you all. Thank you for listening! Want to say hi,...
The Journey to Finding Our Types: Aaron (sp 614) 03.08.2022 1:04:53
In this episode, Aaron talks about finding her way to Type 6, Sterlin sings some Outkast and something about Crank Yankers. You can purchase Sterlin's book, The Narcissist in You and Everyone Else: The 27 Types of Narcissism here . To download our new Essential Enneagram Reference Guide go here . We love you all. Thank you for listening! Want to say hi, ask us a question, or submit a topic you'd l...
Loosey Goosey with Ones 13.06.2022 1:03:54
In this episode, Sterlin and Aaron discuss everything about 1s, a little about waterfowl, and enjoy a special appearance by Michael Cain. You can purchase Sterlin's book, The Narcissist in You and Everyone Else: The 27 Types of Narcissism here . To download our new Essential Enneagram Reference Guide go here . We love you all. Thank you for listening! Want to say hi, ask us a question, or submit a...
Ethics, Empathy, and the Enneagram 18.04.2022 1:00:18
Sterlin and Aaron go awf about Enneagram community toxicity and what you can do to protect yourself from e-trolls. You can purchase Sterlin's book, The Narcissist in You and Everyone Else: The 27 Types of Narcissism here . To download our new Essential Enneagram Reference Guide go here . We love you all. Thank you for listening! Want to say hi, ask us a question, or submit a topic you'd love to he...
Episode 10 is all about 9s 22.03.2022 1:02:25
Sterlin and Aaron talk about all the nine things and....eggs? You can purchase Sterlin's book, The Narcissist in You and Everyone Else: The 27 Types of Narcissism here . To download our new Essential Enneagram Reference Guide go here . We love you all. Thank you for listening! Want to say hi, ask us a question, or submit a topic you'd love to hear more about? We want to hear from you! Other resour...
Narcissism, The Enneagram and Finger Cots 15.02.2022 57:33
We start with a riveting discussion of silicone finger cots (you know, the kind that protects your fingers from...stuff) and end with a pretty interesting discussion about the narcissistic spectrum and the Enneagram. You can purchase Sterlin's book, The Narcissist in You and Everyone Else: The 27 Types of Narcissism here . To download our new Essential Enneagram Reference Guide go here . We love y...
We're Outta Here: All About Sevens 07.01.2022 59:32
In this episode, we discuss some of the fine details of Type Seven, the dangers of self-made amusement parks, and a mouse that just can't stay too long. You can purchase Sterlin's book, The Narcissist in You and Everyone Else: The 27 Types of Narcissism here . To download our new Essential Enneagram Reference Guide go here . We love you all. Thank you for listening! Want to say hi, ask us a questi...
What Exactly is an Enneagram Type? 23.12.2021 52:13
In this episode, we get a little meta and talk about what makes a type a type, and also some "prattle" about doctors and reading the blood. You can purchase Sterlin's book, The Narcissist in You and Everyone Else: The 27 Types of Narcissism here . To download our new Essential Enneagram Reference Guide go here . We love you all. Thank you for listening! Want to say hi, ask us a question, or submit...
Sixes Are Really Complicated: Part 2 29.10.2021 55:19
In this episode, Sterlin and Aaron continue talking about 6s, the etymology of the word "toodles" and drop a new business name for the people. You can purchase Sterlin's book, The Narcissist in You and Everyone Else: The 27 Types of Narcissism here . To download our new Essential Enneagram Reference Guide go here . We love you all. Thank you for listening! Want to say hi, ask us a question, or sub...
Sixes Are Really Complicated: Part 1 08.10.2021 56:05
In this episode, we talk about some really high-waisted khaki's, the hit 90s sitcom Sister, Sister, and of course, the emotional complexity of Type Six. You can purchase Sterlin's book, The Narcissist in You and Everyone Else: The 27 Types of Narcissism here . To download our new Essential Enneagram Reference Guide go here . We love you all. Thank you for listening! Want to say hi, ask us a questi...
So You Think You're a Four: Part 2 11.09.2021 58:56
In the continuation of our discussion on 4s, we discuss hatred, spoiling the milk, refinement, and meat. It's sure to be a good one. You can purchase Sterlin's book, The Narcissist in You and Everyone Else: The 27 Types of Narcissism here . To download our new Essential Enneagram Reference Guide go here . We love you all. Thank you for listening! Want to say hi, ask us a question, or submit a topi...
So You Think You're a Four: Part 1 02.09.2021 1:01:04
In this episode, Sterlin and Aaron talk about some of the critical aspects of Type Four, Shelley Long, one of Aaron's treasured childhood books, and Sterlin accidentally drops the "s" bomb. You can purchase Sterlin's book, The Narcissist in You and Everyone Else: The 27 Types of Narcissism here . To download our new Essential Enneagram Reference Guide go here . We love you all. Thank you for liste...
Typing Other People is Fine 26.08.2021 43:58
In this episode, we finally introduce ourselves and chat about whether or not we should type other people using the Enneagram. We still do not share our Twitter handle. You can purchase Sterlin's book, The Narcissist in You and Everyone Else: The 27 Types of Narcissism here . To download our new Essential Enneagram Reference Guide go here . We love you all. Thank you for listening! Want to say h...
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