Do We Have To? A Marriage Podcast

Send us Fan Mail Today is for anyone in a partnership who’s ever wondered why getting healthy together feels harder than doing it alone — and why going solo often leads to distance, resentment, or even divorce. We are a couple that has failed every way imaginable — dieting alone, working out together, setting goals for each other, and ultimately facing life-saving surgery — we will be brutally hon...

Send us Fan Mail In this Thanksgiving episode of Do We Have To? A Marriage Podcast, we break down the real benefits of being thankful — for your mental health, physical health, and relationships. We share our personal stories, practical gratitude tools, pop culture references, 90s nostalgia, and a heart-opening round of Let’s Get Deep. If you’re looking for relationship advice, marriage tips, self...

Send us Fan Mail Sean & Emily dig into Taylor’s tracks 10 – “CANCELLED!”, 11 – “Honey”, and 12 – “The Life of a Showgirl.” We’ll unpack what experts say these songs represent, unearth hidden meanings and easter eggs, and check how they’re performing in the charts. Plus: a 90s nostalgia rewind for Nov 16-22, a live card from the Let’s Get Deep game, and our Do We Have To Crew Peloton update. Le...

Send us Fan Mail Sean & Emily unpack Taylor Swift’s tracks 7 – “Actually Romantic,” 8 – “Wi$h Li$t,” and 9 – “Wood.” We hit what critics are saying, the hidden easter-eggs fans are spotting, how the songs are charting, and connect the themes back to marriage: authenticity, desires, and the lines we draw. We’ll also run our 90s nostalgia segment (Nov 9–15), play a live card from Let’s Get Deep...

Send us Fan Mail Sean & Emily dig into “Father Figure,” “Eldest Daughter,” and “Ruin the Friendship.” We cover expert takes (and fan decoding), easter eggs (including a George Michael interpolation), and where each song is landing on the charts right now. Plus: a ‘90s nostalgia run (Nov 2–8), a live Let’s Get Deep card, and the Do We Have To Crew Peloton shout-outs. Support the show This Episo...

Send us Fan Mail “Marriage can be scary sometimes… but nowhere near as scary as Freddy Krueger crashing date night! Join us on 10/29/2025 for our Do We Have To? A Marriage Podcast Watch-Along of A Nightmare on Elm Street 4: The Dream Master. Grab your popcorn, lock the doors, and let’s laugh, scream, and maybe even argue about who would survive Freddy longer in our marriage. 🔪💤 Do we have to? …...

Send us Fan Mail It’s our final episode of Season 1 of “Do We Have To? A Marriage Podcast” — and we’re going out strong. We’ll kick things off with a bit of ’90s nostalgia (because if we’re ending a season, we might as well go back in time), then we’ll roll into a live-game moment with the card deck Let’s Get Deep by ByRelatable (yes — we pick a card in real time). Finally, we’ll take you behind t...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Do We Have To? , hosts Sean and Emily Miller explore the dazzling new era of Taylor Swift: The Life of a Showgirl . We kick things off with some 90s nostalgia (because you can’t have a Swift deep dive without a little rewind). Then we play Let’s Get Deep with ByRelatable — drawing a card live and seeing what truths we unearth. Finally, we jump into our main segm...

Send us Fan Mail Forget bedtime stories—this week we’re breaking down the internet’s wildest Bluey conspiracy theories. From dark fan predictions to surprising character secrets, Sean and Emily Miller go all-in on the theories that make you rewatch the Heeler family with fresh eyes.  Along the way, we’ll hit some 90s nostalgia (October 5–11), pull a live “Let’s Get Deep” card, and shout out the Do...

Send us Fan Mail The U.S. government officially shut down at midnight on October 1, 2025. In this episode of Do We Have To , Sean and Emily Miller (with Executive Producer Colin “Smedium” Mascal) unpack the reality of a shutdown: what stops, what keeps running, and why political gridlock brought us here again. Before diving into the main topic, we revisit some ’90s nostalgia highlights and draw a...

Send us Fan Mail Ernest Hemingway captured adulthood’s harshest truth: life doesn’t stop just because we’re hurting. In this episode, Sean and Emily break down Hemingway’s haunting words about what it really means to keep going when you feel broken inside. But before we get heavy, we kick things off with a 90s nostalgia rewind (from   ⁨ C rash Bandicoot   to Se7en topping the box office), then pla...

Send us Fan Mail Trust, privacy, and respect collide in one question: Should couples share phone passwords… or not? In this episode, we dive into one of the hottest relationship debates: phone privacy in marriage. Is withholding your password a red flag, or is demanding it a breach of trust? Support the show This Episode Was Video Recorded And Available On Youtube https://www.youtube.com/@DoWeHave...

Send us Fan Mail Every couple gives off signals—some are warning signs, some are signs of health, and others are… well, just plain beige. In this episode, we break down the relationship flags you need to watch for: the 🚩 red flags that spell trouble, the 🟢 green flags that mean you’re on the right track, and the 🟤 beige flags that may just signal boredom or mismatched energy. With real-life exa...

Send us Fan Mail Sean takes the mic solo this week as his cohost (and wife) sits out after testing positive for COVID. In this special episode, he shares a sneak peek at next week’s planned topic, dives into some 90s nostalgia, and pulls out the Let’s Get Deep by ByRelatable card deck for some surprisingly thoughtful conversation starters. Plus, get the latest updates on the Do We Have To Crew Pel...

Send us Fan Mail Join us this week as we dive deep into the enchanting engagement of two of the world's most beloved figures: pop icon Taylor Swift and NFL superstar Travis Kelce. We'll break down how the relationship began, the details behind the jaw-dropping vintage-style ring, the story behind that cheeky Instagram caption, and the fanfare that followed. We'll also explore how th...

Send us Fan Mail Taylor Swift and New Heights break the internet and we are here to break it all down! How many easter eggs can we spot? How many did we miss? And will any of them come true? Stick around to hear all about it! Support the show This Episode Was Video Recorded And Available On Youtube https://www.youtube.com/@DoWeHaveToAMarriagePodcast  Sponsors:  kansascitykiley.com  emmaenchantedtr...

Send us Fan Mail What if your marriage came with an expiration date? The idea of a "4-Year Marriage Contract" is shaking up how we think about commitment. A modern take on love, this concept suggests couples should reevaluate their relationship every four years—like a sports contract—with the option to renew or part ways. In this episode, we dive into the pros and cons of this idea, its...

Send us Fan Mail It wasn’t IQ. It wasn’t money. The one trait that predicted success, health, and happiness across a lifetime? Discipline. Backed by science, this is the episode that could change the way you approach everything. Support the show This Episode Was Video Recorded And Available On Youtube https://www.youtube.com/@DoWeHaveToAMarriagePodcast  Sponsors:  kansascitykiley.com  emmaenchante...

Send us Fan Mail What does your family stand for? In this episode, we walk you through how to create a mission statement that unifies your family’s values and vision. Whether you’re raising kids or just starting out, this is a powerful way to strengthen connection, set priorities, and create a family culture that thrives—on purpose. Support the show This Episode Was Video Recorded And Available On...

Send us Fan Mail When the Coldplay “kiss cam” turned into a global spectacle, tech CEO Andy Byron and HR chief Kristin Cabot found themselves at the center of an unexpected scandal—one that cost careers, marriages, and sparked worldwide conversation about ethics, power, and personal accountability. In this episode, we dive deep into the lives behind the viral moment, explore how a private lapse be...

Send us Fan Mail If you’ve ever felt stuck, scattered, or unsure of your next step—this episode is for you. We’re diving deep into the transformative power of crafting a personal mission statement. You’ll learn how to define your core values, clarify your purpose, and align your decisions with who you truly want to be. This is your guide to becoming the best version of yourself—on purpose. Support...

Send us Fan Mail What if the real secret to a lifelong, thriving marriage isn’t more date nights or spicy texts—but friendship? In this episode, we dig into why being best friends with your spouse might be the most underrated (and powerful) relationship strategy out there. We’ll explore the research, unpack expert advice from names like Dr. John Gottman and Harvard’s Arthur Brooks, and share real-...

Send us Fan Mail In this special Independence Day episode, we’re lighting up the mic with four sizzling questions straight from our “Do We Have To?” Crew! From marriage mishaps to explosive debates (that somehow don’t end in divorce), we’re answering your questions with honesty, laughter, and a few patriotic puns. Tune in for fireworks, freedom, and the kind of transparency that even the Founding...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, we delve into the everyday actions—often unnoticed—that can silently erode the foundation of a relationship. Drawing from psychological research and expert insights, we identify common behaviors that, if left unchecked, can lead to emotional distance and, ultimately, relationship breakdowns. Show Segments -  90s Nostalgia, Lets Get Deep, and more! Support the show...

Send us Fan Mail Let’s face it: tough talks suck. Whether it’s about money, sex, in-laws, parenting, or just finally admitting you do hate their cooking—it’s hard to have honest conversations without triggering a full-blown meltdown. In this episode of Do We Have To?, we’re diving into real strategies for better communication during the hardest convos. We’ll unpack the research on emotional regula...