Bonita Hamm - Divorce Coach; Christian Life Coach

Divorced and Redeemed| Broken Heart, Forgiveness, Betrayal, Infidelity, New Beginnings

Religion EN ↓ 20 episodes

Are you a Christian woman experiencing emotional and spiritual pain from spousal betrayal and divorce? Struggling with bitterness, unforgiveness, and shame? Do you want to know how to begin a new chapter and move forward in life? Well, if any of these situations apply to you, you’re in the right place! This podcast will help you recover from the trauma of divorce and live victoriously by exercising strong faith, developing emotional wellness, and finding the courage to rebuild your life.

Author

Bonita Hamm - Divorce Coach; Christian Life Coach

Category

Religion

Podcast website

DivorcedandRedeemed.com

Latest episode

Jun 13, 2026

Where to listen?

Podcasts in the app Replaio Radio Coming soon

Podcasts are coming to the app soon. Install now and be the first to see a whole new take on podcasts

Get it on Google Play Install for free Android 5M+ downloads · 4.8 rating iOS soon

Episodes

Why You Feel Numb After Divorce (And How God Begins Healing You) 13.06.2026

Have you stopped crying… but still don't feel like yourself? Do you feel emotionally flat, disconnected, or spiritually exhausted after divorce? Maybe you're functioning, going through the motions, and trying to keep moving forward—but deep down, you feel numb. In this episode, we're talking about the emotional shutdown that many Christian women experience after betrayal and divorce but rarely dis...

19. Anger After Betrayal: The Emotion Christians Are Afraid to Talk About 21.05.2026

If you’ve been telling yourself, “I shouldn’t still be this angry…” — this episode is for you. In this deeply honest and healing conversation, we’re talking about the emotion many Christian women feel after betrayal and divorce…but are often afraid to admit out loud: anger. After a spouse’s betrayal, infidelity, deception, or emotional abandonment, many women carry hidden rage, resentment, bittern...

18. Shame After Divorce: The Lie That Keeps You Stuck 18.05.2026

After divorce, many Christian women don't just carry heartbreak; they carry shame. They carry the shame of what happened, of what people think, of starting over later in life, and have a quiet fear that maybe they somehow failed. In this deeply healing episode, we're talking about the lie shame whispers after betrayal and divorce, and why God never intended for you to live weighed down by condemna...

17. How to Let God Heal Your Broken Heart After Divorce or Betrayal 02.05.2026

If your heart feels shattered right now, if you're trying to hold yourself together after betrayal or divorce, and you're wondering, "God, how do I even begin to heal from this?" this episode is for you. Today, we're not just talking about healing in theory; we're talking about how to actually let God heal the places in you that still hurt.

16. Why Does Betrayal Make You Feel So Rejected? A Christian Healing Guide 24.04.2026

In this episode, we're having a conversation about the sting of rejection after betrayal or divorce and why it cuts deeper than many people realize. You'll learn that betrayal doesn't just break trust; it can plant lies about your worth, value, and identity. But we're not staying stuck there.  If you've been struggling with feelings of being replaced, not enough, or easily discarded, this episode...

15. Triggered After Divorce? Why Everything Sets You Off (and How To Finally Calm Down) 21.04.2026

Are you feeling easily triggered after divorce—like the smallest things suddenly overwhelm you, bring back painful memories, or send your emotions spiraling? If you’ve been asking yourself: “Why am I still so emotional?” “Why do I feel anxious, reactive, or on edge all the time?” “I thought I was healing… so why does everything still trigger me?” You are not crazy—and you are not alone. In this ep...

14. Feeling Unsafe After Betrayal or Divorce? Here’s How to Rebuild Emotional Safety 18.04.2026

If you’ve been through betrayal or divorce and suddenly feel anxious, guarded, or emotionally on edge… you’re not imagining it—and you’re not broken. In this episode, we’re talking about emotional safety after betrayal or divorce—why you don’t feel like yourself anymore, why your heart feels constantly on alert, and how trauma impacts your ability to trust, rest, and feel secure again. We’ll walk...

13. How to Feel Peace Again When Your Life Fell Apart 15.04.2026

What do you do when your life falls apart… and peace feels completely out of reach? In this episode, we’re having a real, heart-level conversation about what it looks like to find peace again after divorce, betrayal, and unexpected life changes. If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, emotionally exhausted, or like you’ve lost the life you once knew—this episode is for you. We’re diving into why peace...

12. Struggling to Trust God After Divorce? How to Rebuild Your Faith Again 12.04.2026

Rebuilding faith after divorce isn’t easy—but it is possible. If you’re walking through pain, uncertainty, and unanswered questions, you may be wondering how to trust God again. In this episode, we’re talking about how to rebuild your faith after divorce in a real, honest, and practical way. You’ll learn: How to trust God in the middle of emotional pain What to do when your faith feels weak or sha...

11. Why Does God Feel Silent After Divorce? Finding Faith in the Quiet 08.04.2026

Have you ever wondered, “Why does God feel silent after divorce?” If you’re struggling to hear God, feeling distant from Him, or questioning your faith after heartbreak, you are not alone. In this episode, we’re talking about what it really means when God feels silent after divorce—and why His silence doesn’t mean His absence. You’ll learn how grief, betrayal, and emotional overwhelm can make it h...

10. Feeling Lonely After Divorce? How To Find Peace and Connection Again 04.04.2026

Feeling lonely after divorce can hit in ways you didn’t expect—the quiet, the disconnection, the loss of your “person.” In this episode, we talk honestly about what loneliness really looks like and how to begin moving through it with faith, intention, and grace. You’ll walk away with encouragement, biblical truth, and simple, practical steps to help you rebuild connection, find peace in the quiet,...

9. From 'We' to 'Me': Finding Your Identity After Divorce 01.04.2026

After several years of marriage, divorce can leave you wondering, “Who am I now?” In this episode, we talk about the identity crisis that can follow when your life has been deeply intertwined with your spouse—and how to rediscover who you are in Christ. With honest storytelling, biblical truth, and practical steps, you’ll be reminded that you are still chosen, still whole, and still deeply loved. 

8. Do You Have to Reconcile to Truly Forgive? A Biblical Guide After Betrayal or Divorce 27.03.2026

After betrayal or divorce, many Christian women wrestle with this painful question: If I truly forgive, does that mean I have to reconcile? In this episode, we explore the important biblical distinction between forgiveness and reconciliation and why the two are not the same. You’ll discover what Scripture really says about forgiveness, why reconciliation involves more than one willing heart, and h...

7. The “What If” Trap After Divorce-Why You Keep Replaying the Past and How to Finally Forgive Yourself 24.03.2026

After a divorce, many women find themselves stuck in the exhausting cycle of “what if.” What if I had said something different? What if I had tried harder? What if I had seen the warning signs sooner? In this episode, we talk about the “What If” trap after divorce—why your mind keeps replaying the past and how self-blame can quietly steal your peace. Through biblical encouragement and practical in...

6. Forgiveness After Betrayal-What It Is, What It Isn't, and How to Begin the Process 18.03.2026

Forgiveness after betrayal or divorce can feel incredibly difficult—especially when the wounds are still fresh. In this episode of the Divorced and Redeemed Podcast, we talk honestly about forgiveness after betrayal, what the Bible really says about forgiveness, and how Christian women can begin the journey toward emotional healing and divorce recovery. You’ll learn what forgiveness is, what it is...

5. Brokenhearted - The Stages of Grief in Divorce and How to Heal with God 13.03.2026

Divorce creates a kind of grief that many people don't fully understand. It can feel invisible, misunderstood, or even judged, but it's very real. If divorce has left you feeling brokenhearted, confused, or alone, this episode will help you understand the stages of grief and remind you that healing and hope are still possible with God.

4. Betrayal Trauma Recovery: Why You Feel So Shaken 09.03.2026

Many Christian women experience something after infidelity, but don’t always have language for it, and that’s trauma. If you’ve felt shaky, emotionally overwhelmed, or unlike yourself since discovering betrayal, this conversation will help you understand what may actually be happening in you, and some practical steps you can start taking to help you move toward healing. 

3. Betrayed - When Infidelity Shatters Trust, Faith, and Identity 28.02.2026

In this episode, we address the heartbreak of betrayal and infidelity — especially for the Christian woman who never imagined this would be part of her story. We talk about how infidelity impacts not just your heart, but your sense of safety, your understanding of love, and even your faith and identity. If you’re feeling shaken, questioning your worth, or wondering where God is in all of this, thi...

2. 'Til Death Do Us Part - Until It Wasn't: Divorce, Faith, and Starting Over 28.02.2026

Welcome to the very first episode of the Divorced and Redeemed podcast. Today, we’re talking about what happens when “’til death do us part” becomes an ending you never saw coming — and how to begin the healing process with God. If you’ve walked through the trauma of divorce, this conversation is here to remind you of two powerful truths: God is still with you, and your story is far from over.

1. Divorced and Redeemed Podcast Trailer 20.02.2026

In this trailer, you’ll hear the heart behind the podcast: a space created to help Christian women over 45 navigate the pain of divorce with faith and hope, along with a brief introduction to the host’s personal story.

Listen to the Divorced and Redeemed| Broken Heart, Forgiveness, Betrayal, Infidelity, New Beginnings podcast in Replaio

Radio and podcasts in one app - free, with no sign-up. Install today and do not miss the launch

Get it on Google Play

Replaio is not a podcast publisher; show names, artwork and audio belong to their authors and are distributed through public RSS feeds.