Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)

We have heard from so many people that need help recovering from marriages to narcissists, and this episode is a great primer on how to start your recovery and move on. There are specific coping skills that are important to understand, because these relationships are very different, often involving emotional abuse which can leave you feeling both scared and scarred. In this episode you'll lear...

The type of divorce you choose depends on who your ex is, but mediation is a common practice in several kinds of divorce. But who does it serve? What can go wrong? In this episode you'll learn exactly what goes on in mediation, how to best prepare for it, what can go wrong and how to prevent that so you come out feeling good about your result. This is a must-listen for anyone getting divorced!...

Do you sometimes wonder how you even married your ex in the first place? None of us get married thinking we'll get divorced, but if it happens, we all wonder how we got here - especially if you married an extremely difficult person. If you're wondering what's wrong with you or how you allowed this to happen because you wouldn't even be friends with them, then take comfort in knowin...

There's one thing both a new year and divorce have in common...and it's that both make you start thinking about who you are and who you want to be . Divorce is a huge change, but there are so many meaningful lessons to be learned about how to trust yourself, how to understand what it is you're looking for, and how to fully invest yourself in what you want. In this episode you will lear...

Finding yourself suddenly single sucks, no matter how old you are. But it can also be a time for reinvention, inspiration and rediscovery. In this episode, we hear about how one woman's divorce propelled her into a new business and into a second phase in life, and how her own story has inspired others to follow their own path. (Guest: Jennifer Polt, Making Up for Glossed Time) Sign up for exEX...

In this special episode, we invite Jessica's ex to come on and face the music...we mean share his feelings and opinions about their marriage and divorce. Hear from both of them on what worked, what didn't, and what they think of each other as exes today. (Guest: Daren Herzberg, Jessica's ex husband) Sign up for exEXPERTS in your inbox for weekly updates, events and tips you can't a...

There's a new trend we're hearing about when it comes to dating after divorce - mate poaching. This isn't cheating, exactly, but it's when someone sets up a situation with the ultimate goal of stealing someone's partner. The crazy part is that the one being poached has no idea...and it has real consequences and ruins relationships. One of our favorite relationship and dating co...

Have you ever been worried that your ex drinks too much or struggles with addiction? This is a very difficult issue to deal with, especially around the holidays, when experts say the problem can increase significantly. How do you keep yourself and your children safe? This episode will help you identify the patterns to watch out for, how to determine if there is truly a problem, and how you can dea...

Your ex may be an asshole, but how can you tell if what you're dealing with is considered emotional abuse? If you're struggling and not sure you can make it work, then you need to hear this episode. We talk to podcast host and author Kate Anthony, who helps us hear the hard things, while also helping you come to terms with where you are, and how to move forward. (Guest, Kate Anthony, host...

If you want to know the secrets on how to get your shit together after divorce, then you've come to the right place. We all wonder how everyone else does it, while we feel like we're barely keeping our heads above water. This episode shines light on how to help yourself so you're the one people are wondering about! (Guest: Jamie Hess, @NYCFitFam, Founder of Radical Wellness system &amp...

Are you excited about or dreading the holidays? Either way, it's natural to have feelings around the holiday season, and we've learned a LOT over the years after our divorces. We've compiled some of our best tips to help you survive the holidays, including what to do about holiday cards, gifts, budgeting and what if you are solo - you can still enjoy the holidays, just make a plan. (T....

It's an interesting phenomenon, but it's very common to find yourself back in the arms of an old flame after getting divorced. Whether it's a high school or college love, or even an old camp fling, almost everyone we know has been there. We talk to Dating and Relationship expert Jennifer Hurvitz about why this is the case, and whether or not it can ever work. (Guest: Jennifer Hurvitz,...

When is it worth taking your ex back to court? Just being unsatisfied with the settlement you reached probably won't be worth it, but if there have been material changes or you have solid reason that things should be changed, then it might be. We ask all those questions so you'll understand what your best options - and chances are - if you find yourself considering whether to back to court...

So many women wonder what men are thinking when it comes to dating post divorce, and how to approach finding a new partner in a way men actually respond to. This week's episode sheds light on the way men think about all of this, because we talk to a dating coach that specializes in working with men. If you're single and ready to mingle, you have to listen to this! (Guest: Celeste Moore, Im...

It's time to shift the narrative on divorce, and instead of looking at it as a source of trauma, what about understand it as a source of empowerment? Getting divorced is a huge decision and can be very scary, so you should try and recognize your own inner strength and what it takes to say no, that you won't stay in an unhappy relationship and that oyu deserve more. If you've never hear...

With the growing use and popularity of artificial intelligence, there are some real concerns when it comes to divorce. Reports of people using AI to create deep fakes and falsify photos and documents are happening, and it's something you might need to protect yourself from. In this episode with mediator/lawyer Susan Guthrie, we hear specifics about how AI is being used against people and how y...

Do you wonder where to even start in order to plan for your financial future? Planning and preparing for divorce can be scary, especially when it comes to financial plans We know how important the money aspect can be, and we love the idea of working with a women-owned and operated financial firm. BP Wealth solutions is led by women who understand the complexities of divorce and this episode goes t...

Hear the first-hand perspective from a client about exactly how exEXPERTS helped her through every step of her divorce, to come out stronger and happier. The end of a marriage is always difficult, but it is also the beginning of something new. In this episode, we talk to exEXPERTS client Jennifer all about her experience, how she reached out to us before the papers were even filed, and how exEXPER...

Kids have a lot to manage when parents get divorced, and empowering them with the calendar can be a great way for them to feel a sense of control and acceptance of the situation. In this episode, we find out about a great line of creative tools and books from Mighty and Bright - founded by a cancer-survivor/divorcee/warrior - that can help kids manage their own feelings and expectations during you...

We're all looking to win in so many areas of our lives, but it's a challenge to make it all happen. Renowned divorce lawyer, Renee Bauer, is a big advocate of empowering women through divorce and beyond, and her new book "She Who Wins" is full of takeaway advice for women everywhere. It's not a divorce book, but the strategies and tips can be applied as you navigate your divo...

Don't you want to feel like you're in control of your divorce? Are you tired of hearing people tell you how bad your divorce process will be? In this episode we talk to attorney and Certified Life Coach Meaghan Norris about being the CEO of your divorce (and your life). You'll hear tips and ways to get into the right mindset, which will ensure you are making the best choices and decisi...

A common fear in women getting divorced is whether they will have enough money to support themselves and their families. Many women have been out of the workforce for years and don't know where to start when it comes to looking for a job, and this episode can help! We spoke to Heather Black, who runs an organization dedicated to helping women get back to work in well-paying jobs they could nev...

For anyone who's dealing with a high-conflict legal battle, it's important to know that the term "legal abuse" is a real thing. There is a time when all the back and forths, and briefs and motions can become part of a pattern that lawyers and judges recognize as legal abuse. The intention is to try and wear you down, both emotionally and financially, and it is not ok. It is extre...

One of the hard truths about divorce is that if you have kids, you're not done with your ex once the divorce is final. You now have to transition into the next phase, which is coparenting together. For many couples, finding common ground and being able to coparent peacefully is as hard as getting through the divorce negotiations - and for some couples, coparenting ends up being years of additi...

Talking to your kids about your divorce is one of the hardest parts for many parents. When do you tell them? What should you say? What shouldn't you say? What's the best way to handle their emotions - anger, sadness, fear? We talk to Grace Casper from Divorce Tips From Kids, who has suggested answers that are a great guide for any situation. Anyone who has kids should listen to this episod...