Dishing on Divorce Podcast

In this heartfelt episode of Dishing on Divorce, Mandy and Deanna get real about one of the most personal and challenging parts of divorce: the emotional weight of shame and blame. From neighborhood parties that feel like the walk of shame to well-meaning comments that linger for years, they unpack the hidden narratives we tell ourselves—and how to rewrite them. They share personal stories, includ...

This week on Dishing on Divorce, we sit down with Kristyna Hawkett , founder of the UK-based Minus One Club and a certified Separation & Divorce Coach, who’s transforming how people experience divorce. With roots in both the Czech Republic and England, Kristyna brings a powerful blend of emotional insight and practical guidance to her work, helping clients navigate divorce with clarity and con...

In this powerful episode, Deanna Coyle and Mandy Pullen Barr open up about the most common—and costly—divorce mistakes they’ve made personally and seen repeatedly in their work with Vesta. From letting emotions drive decisions to misusing professionals and overlooking post-divorce financial realities, they share candid lessons and practical strategies to help you avoid unnecessary heartache and ex...

What happens when divorce and business ownership collide? In this episode, attorney, mediator, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® Amanda Singer joins us to unpack the financial and legal complexities that come with divorcing as a business owner or being married to one. With over a decade of experience guiding couples through peaceful, strategic resolution, Amanda shares her top insights on:...

In this powerful episode of Dishing on Divorce, Mandy Pullen Barr welcomes co-mediators Carolyn Laredo and Jim Bell to explore the transformative impact of co-mediation in divorce. With over 40 years of combined experience, this dynamic duo combines backgrounds in law, psychology, sociology, and education to help couples resolve conflicts, communicate more effectively, and reach durable, respectfu...

In this episode of Dishing on Divorce, host Mandy Pullen Barr welcomes special guest Kary Watson, a seasoned family law attorney and founder of Together You Part, a groundbreaking online mediation practice based in Charlotte, North Carolina. With over 20 years of experience, Kary shares her powerful journey from a high-conflict, aggressive divorce litigator—known as the “bulldog”—to a compassionat...

In this episode of Dishing on Divorce, Mandy and Deanna delve into the emotional rollercoaster that accompanies navigating divorce. They discuss how grief, uncertainty, loneliness, and even moments of joy can surface, sometimes all within a single day. Together, they emphasize the importance of processing your “emotional divorce” before diving fully into the legal and financial aspects. Through th...

In this inspiring episode, Mandy Pullen Barr and Deanna Coyle welcome Charmaine Panko, collaborative family lawyer, mediator, and founder of Panko Collaborative Law & Mediation in Saskatchewan, Canada. Charmaine shares how her unexpected path into family law became her life’s mission: helping families navigate conflict with dignity, empathy, and common sense (or as she calls it, cowboy logic,...

This Week on Dishing on Divorce: Navigating the Complexities of Stepparenting & Blended Families In this heartwarming and deeply personal episode, hosts Mandy Pullen Barr and Deanna Coyle explore the often unspoken challenges—and surprising joys—of stepparenting, co-parenting, and blended family life. Joining them is the remarkable Maria Natapov, founder of Synergistic Step Parenting and host...

In this eye-opening episode, Mandy and Deanna sit down with Erik Blaushield, a CPA and certified valuation analyst with over two decades of experience in business valuation, forensic accounting, and divorce-related financial analysis. Erik breaks down the often misunderstood world of valuing a business during divorce—what makes a company a marital asset, when it needs to be valued, and how claims...

Mother’s Day Special: Honoring Our Moms, Grief, and the Beauty in the Mess In this deeply personal and moving episode of Dishing on Divorce, hosts Mandy and Deanna set aside the usual script to open their hearts about love, loss, and motherhood. This year marks their first Mother’s Day without their moms—Mandy’s passed in September, and Deanna’s in January—and they invite listeners into a raw and...

In this deeply moving episode of Dishing on Divorce, Mandy and Deanna sit down with the extraordinary Poonam Bhuchar, an attorney, mediator, TEDx speaker, divorce coach, and award-winning author of Saved From the Pain. With raw honesty and profound grace, Poonam shares her personal story of trauma, cultural stigma, loss, and, ultimately, radical healing. Poonam introduces listeners to her transfor...

In this enlightening episode of Dishing on Divorce, Mandy Pullen and Deanna Coyle welcome family law trailblazer Bobby Buchanan—founder of Buchanan Law Group, host of Illinois Divorce Guide Podcast and Illinois Divorce TV, and a proud member of the Vesta network. Bobby is not your typical divorce attorney. With zero personal experience in divorce—but a deep well of empathy and emotional intelligen...

In this deeply heartfelt episode of Dishing on Divorce, we welcome the luminous Simonne Rossi Paumard, transformational mindset coach, a retreat facilitator, and San Diego-based realtor originally from France. With grace, humor, and raw vulnerability, Simonne shares her extraordinary story of love, betrayal, reinvention, and ultimately liberation. Simonne takes us back to a life-altering moment in...

In this episode of Dishing on Divorce, we’re joined by Molly Wilson Chung, a highly respected family law attorney with over 16 years of experience navigating everything from high-net-worth divorces and custody disputes to uncovering hidden assets and guiding clients through mediation. Molly brings deep legal knowledge, compassionate counsel, and a gift for clear communication to every case—and thi...

Welcome to an insightful episode of our podcast, where we have the privilege of hosting Glenn Crawford, a seasoned Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, financial advisor, and mediator. With a rich background in financial planning and a personal understanding of the complexities of divorce, Glenn brings a wealth of knowledge and compassion to the table. He has been a cornerstone of Vesta's programs...

In this enlightening episode of "Dishing on Divorce," we welcomed Dr. Thomas Jordan, a distinguished clinical psychologist, psychoanalyst, and author, who brings over three decades of expertise in reshaping love life patterns. Dr. Jordan, a clinical associate professor of psychology at New York University and founder of LoveLifeLearningCenter.com, shares transformative insights from his book, "Lea...

In this engaging episode of "Dishing on Divorce," hosts Mandy Pullen Barr and Deanna Coyle tackle the pervasive myths surrounding divorce and contrast them with many people's realities. The episode, aptly titled "Myths Versus Reality," sheds light on the misrepresentations of divorce often seen in movies and media, specifically discussing the impact of films like "War of the Roses." Throughout the...

In this insightful episode of "Dishing on Divorce," Mandy Pullen Barr interviews Lisa Cukier, a renowned family law attorney specializing in complex divorce scenarios. Lisa discusses the challenges and intricacies of midlife divorce, bringing her vast expertise to the table and illuminating the unique aspects of divorces later in life, particularly those involving family businesses, large estates,...

In this deeply moving episode of Dishing on Divorce, hosts Mandy Pullen and Deanna Coyle are joined by Susan Tripi, a woman’s empowerment coach, certified divorce coach, and the innovative founder of the Sparrow Collective. Inspired by her challenging divorce, Susan has created a revolutionary community that supports divorced women by offering comprehensive services tailored to empower and rebuild...

In this enlightening episode of Dishing on Divorce, host Mandy Pullen Barr engages in a thought-provoking conversation with Kelly Myers, a distinguished divorce and mediation coach, co-parenting specialist, and integral part of the VESTA network. Kelly brings her extensive experience and a passion for transforming the divorce process into a constructive journey through education and self-advocacy....

In this enlightening episode of Dishing on Divorce, hosts Mandy Pullen Barr and Deanna Coyle sit down with Jolee E. Vacchi, a trailblazing attorney redefining family law through compassion and innovation. As the founding attorney at Foundations Family Law & Mediation, licensed in Massachusetts and Rhode Island, Jolee shares her inspiring journey from being captivated by legal dramas to becomin...

In this impactful episode of Dishing on Divorce, hosts Mandy Pullen Barr and Deanna Coyle welcome Juan Espinoza, a U.S. Army veteran, author, and motivational speaker. Juan, a beacon of courage, shares his Afghanistan experiences, struggles, and healing journey outlined in his memoir, Unbroken: Turning Pain into Purpose. He highlights the emotional scars of military service, the challenges of rein...

In this episode of Dishing on Divorce, Mandy Pullen Barr and Deanna Coyle, renowned concierge specialists, share their unique insights on optimizing consultations with divorce professionals. They stress the critical need for assembling the right team and detailed strategies for vetting potential attorneys and other experts, cautioning against common pitfalls like selecting lawyers through mere Goo...

In this episode of "Dishing on Divorce," Deanna Coyle welcomes Susan Trotter, Ph. D., a life and relationship coach, with Vesta, who specializes in dating, divorce, self-confidence, mindset, and communication. With her rich background in clinical psychology and over two decades as a therapist, Susan shares her profound insights on navigating the complexities of relationships and personal empowerme...