Dishing on Divorce Podcast

Therapist, writer, and divorce support group leader Oona Metz joins Dishing on Divorce to talk about what so many women experience but rarely feel prepared for: the emotional journey of divorce. With 30 years of clinical experience and 15 years specializing in divorce support, Oona shares why community matters, why the traditional grief model does not fully fit divorce, and how her Five Phases of...

A conversation about mediation, collaborative divorce, and healthier paths forward. On this episode of Dishing on Divorce, we’re joined by Debra Whitson, founder of Whitson Law and a vetted Vesta professional in New York. With more than 25 years of experience in divorce and family law, Debra has seen firsthand how litigation can deeply impact families—especially children. That experience led her t...

In this powerful and deeply human episode of Dishing on Divorce, Deanna and Mandy sit down with Jodi Goodman, a longtime Vesta community member turned Concierge Specialist, to share her remarkable journey through divorce, healing, and transformation. Jodi opens up about navigating two very different divorces, the emotional toll of starting over, and how finding the right support system changed eve...

In this episode of Dishing on Divorce, Mandy and Deanna are joined by Danielle Konzelmann, Esq., a New Jersey family law attorney and mediator, and a Vesta-vetted professional in the New York / New Jersey Hub. With more than 20 years in family law, Danielle brings a calm, child-centered approach to high-conflict divorces, complex custody matters, and significant-asset cases—while firmly believing...

In this powerful and refreshingly honest episode of Dishing on Divorce, hosts Mandy Pullen Barr and Deanna Coyle sit down with renowned sexologist, integrative somatic trauma therapist, and author Zoë Kors to explore one of the most tender, transformative, and commonly misunderstood parts of life after divorce: reclaiming your sexuality. Zoë —author of Radical Intimacy and resident Sex & Intim...

In this special anniversary episode, Mandy and Deanna look back on an incredible first year of Dishing on Divorce—a year filled with wisdom, laughter, vulnerability, unforgettable guests, and profound moments that shaped both the show and their own lives. They kick off with nostalgia, remembering their launch party led by mentor Jennifer Grace on December 7th—a celebration that brought together Ve...

In this episode of Dishing on Divorce, Deanna and Mandy welcome back one of Vesta’s favorite professionals, Dr. Susan Trotter, along with comedian, actress, and writer Kelly MacFarland, for a conversation that’s equal parts heartfelt, insightful, and laugh-out-loud funny. Susan shares how she knew at 15 that she wanted to be a therapist and how her own midlife reinvention, divorce, and transition...

In this episode of Dishing on Divorce, we sit down with Loren Larsen — former family law attorney, top-producing Compass realtor, and founder of The Collective — to explore one of the most stressful and misunderstood parts of divorce: what to do with the marital home. Loren brings a rare combination of legal and real estate experience, offering deep insight into how to navigate the sale or purchas...

If you’re navigating narcissistic abuse, a high-conflict divorce, or the emotional chaos of the holidays, this conversation with Lisa Happ will give you clarity, comfort, and practical tools. Lisa Happ is a certified divorce and narcissistic abuse coach and a grief recovery specialist. She guides clients through trauma bonding, emotional recovery, and toxic relationship dynamics—and even travels n...

Feeling stuck in life—or in your divorce journey? In this episode of Dishing on Divorce, hosts Deanna Coyle, Co-Founder of Vesta: A New Vision for Divorce, and Mandy Barr, Strategic Managing Partner, share empowering insights from the Tony Robbins AI Advantage Summit on shifting from managing your circumstances to creating your life. Together, these Divorce Concierge Specialists explore the emotio...

From the Divorce Concierge team at Vesta: A New Vision for Divorce, elder law attorney Aaron Miller explains how families can protect their assets, navigate long-term care costs, and build a legacy with clarity during and after divorce. Presented by Vesta: A New Vision for Divorce, where we’ve built a better way for people to navigate the divorce process — through expert guidance, professional cou...

“Divorce isn’t a weapon; it’s a tool of transformation." In this episode of Dishing on Divorce, Deanna Coyle, Co-Founder of Vesta: A New Vision for Divorce and Concierge Director, sits down with Karen McNenny—mediator, divorce coach, therapist, TEDx speaker, and host of The Good Divorce Show—to reframe divorce as a tool for transformation, not a weapon. Drawing on 25+ years in human behavior and h...

Divorce changes everything — but it doesn’t have to destroy your finances or your peace of mind. In this episode of Dishing on Divorce, presented by Vesta: A New Vision for Divorce, hosts Mandy Pullen Barr and Deanna Coyle speak with Jamie M. Lima, MBA, CFP®, CDFA®, Certified Mediator — Founder of Allegiant Divorce Solutions and Co-Founder/CEO of SecureSplit™, a groundbreaking divorce FinTech plat...

Divorce is hard enough — but the tax fallout can be brutal. In this episode of Dishing on Divorce, Mandy Pullen Barr and Deanna Coyle talk with tax attorney Hubert Johnson about how to protect yourself from hidden IRS surprises, avoid costly filing mistakes, and take back control of your financial future. Hubert shares essential tips, including: Why you should never ignore an IRS letter — and how...

What happens when two life transitions collide — divorce and menopause? In this powerful and deeply relatable episode, Dishing on Divorce hosts Mandy Barr and Deanna Coyle sit down with Wendi Francis, a bestselling author, nationally recognized nutritionist, and women’s wellness expert, to explore the connection between hormones, emotions, and healing during midlife. Wendi shares her personal stor...

In this episode of Dishing on Divorce, hosts Mandy Barr and Deanna Coyle dive into a topic that so many divorce survivors face: how do you reenter the workforce after years (or even decades) of being a stay-at-home parent? Deanna shares her personal journey from a successful Wall Street career to full-time parenting, as well as the challenges she faced when trying to reestablish her professional l...

Clear strategies for tuition, savings, and student loans when divorce complicates college planning. Financial Planner and CDFA® Lars Lambrecht shares practical ways to handle college costs during divorce: agreement language, 529s vs. Roths, federal vs. private loans, repayment/forgiveness, and small steps that add up. Divorce + college costs = overwhelm. In this episode of Dishing on Divorce, we’r...

In this episode, we sit down with Melissa Hoyer, affectionately nicknamed The Inheritor Whisperer. Melissa is a Certified Financial Planner, life coach, and wealth coach at The Wealth Conservancy. She specializes in guiding women in transition who receive a financial windfall—whether through a divorce settlement or an inheritance. With nearly 20 years of experience, she combines traditional financ...

In this powerful episode, Mandy Pullen Barr sits down with Pascha Rose, a California-based family law attorney, certified divorce coach, mediator, and collaborative professional. For nearly three decades, Pascha has helped families navigate premarital agreements, divorce, and post-divorce transitions with compassion and clarity. Pascha shares how she pivoted from high-conflict litigation to mediat...

Financial advisor, author, and founder of Modern Wealth, Jennifer Lee, joins us to talk about money, meaning, and how to squeeze the juice out of life. With nearly 30 years of experience, Jennifer has guided women through significant life transitions, particularly divorce, helping them make informed and confident financial decisions. In this episode, Jennifer shares the story of her late father’s...

Blended families are complex — and love alone isn’t always enough. In this episode of Dishing on Divorce, hosts Deanna Coyle and Mandy Pullen Barr sit down with April Eldemire, nationally recognized marriage and family therapist, stepfamily expert, and founder of Couples Thrive. With over 13 years of experience and advanced training in the Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, Ap...

In this episode, we welcome Myrna Laine-Hyppolite, CFO, wealth strategist, speaker, and founder of Empower Financial Wellness. Myrna’s journey into financial empowerment began with her mother’s divorce, which left her without a financial safety net. Watching her mother and other women struggle inspired Myrna to dedicate her career to helping women build confidence, financial literacy, and long-ter...

In this episode of Dishing on Divorce, host Mandy Barr chats with Jennifer Chaney, a Real Estate Agent, investor, and strategist, about navigating one of the most emotional decisions in divorce: what to do with the marital home. Drawing from her personal experience, Jennifer shares invaluable insights, including four key tips for deciding whether to keep or sell your home. Jennifer emphasizes the...

Fear of the unknown can feel overwhelming, especially during divorce. In this raw and honest episode of Dishing on Divorce, Mandy and Deanna explore the most common fears people face: financial insecurity, parenting worries, identity loss, and the big question… “Will I be okay?” They share their own stories, break down the mindset traps that keep people stuck, and offer tangible ways to move forwa...

In this episode of Dishing on Divorce, host Mandy Pullen Barr welcomes Laura McGee, J.D., founder of Leave Strong Divorce Services and a trusted Vesta professional. With a law degree from the University of British Columbia and over four decades of experience, Laura brings a unique blend of legal expertise, mediation skills, and compassionate coaching to her clients in California and beyond. Laura...