Disability After Dark

In this episode, I sit down with author, producer and soon to be TV personality, Ryan O'Connell. We talk about his experience of Cerebral Palsy and gay identity, and trying to bring that into the public sphere with his up and coming TV show, "Special". We also chat about wanting boys to ask us out on weekend dates as disabled guys, disability activism and queerness, his experience of sex...

This episode I sit down with my friend, sex worker and porn star, Raj. We have a chat about what it was like for him to have sex with a disabled lover - me. We talk about our experiences having sex together, and I ask him what that must have felt like for him; was he nervous? Was he scared he'd hurt me because I was disabled? Am I a good disabled lover? All this and more will be revealed in this e...

In this episode, I come out about my experiences working with sex workers as a queer disabled man. I share why I made the decision, some good and not-so-good experiences working with sex workers when disabled, and I offer tips and tricks to disabled clients on how to make the sessions about your agency and your pleasure. I share how sex work helped me gain self-confidence as a disabled man and so...

I wanted to do something special today. You may have heard on the show that I'd be releasing When I Was A Disabled Ki episodes exclusively on Patreon. BUT - I wanted to gift you with the first episode of When I Was A Disabled Kid - as a thank you for supporting the show DisabilityAfterDark and Cripple Content Creations. This first episode is with my friend; author, disabled activist Carrie Wade. W...

In this episode, I talk with disabled, queer photographer, Robert Andy Coombs. We talk about how he became disabled and how he felt about that, his amazing photography work centering disabled, male sexuality and why he is a badass in the bedroom. This one is funny, raw, sexy, and I definitely spent half the episode flirting with Robert! Enjoy. Links to all of Robert's work can be found at his webs...

In this episode, I sit down with award winning author and journalist, Belo Cipriani as we talk about navigating the world as a blind gay man; everything from how he became blind to the accessibility of gay hook up culture is openly explored. Of course, we have some laughs too. Enjoy! You can follow Belo's work by heading over to his website: www.belocipriani.com.

In this episode, I talk with Jewish sex educator and behavior specialist, Galia Godel. She works as a sex educator around sexual health and intellectual disabilities. We talk about how to talk about sex and sexuality with intellectually disabled people. She shares some experiences working with intellectually disabled clients, we talk consent, intellectual disabilities and so much more. Follow Gali...

In this episode, we sit down with writer, activist and disability badass, Ace Ratcliff. We talk about things dislocating during sex, revealing your identity as an ambulatory wheelchair user, and we talk to Ace about how their use of pronoun they/them is directly related to their disabled identity. You can follow Ace at @MortuaryReport on Twitter, or hit up their website at www.stayweirdbekind.com...

In this episode, we look at tips and tricks for a sexy, disabled sleepover, and how a lot of the tips in popular culture around sleepovers aren't accessible to disabled people. We look at things like phone etiquette, scent needs, bringing stuff in a discreet bag (how inaccessible is that when you have wheelchairs?) and so much more. Follow the show on Twitter at @disaftdarkpod and pledge to the sh...

In this episode, find out why I have "Queer Cripple" tattooed on my chest, and how all my tattoos connect to my sexuality and my disability. Let me know if I should get a sexy pin up tat or not. I tell you the story of when I got a tattoo to impress a boy, and so much more. Enjoy!

In this episode, I sit down with Sara Camps, an autistic queer person whose gender is cat lady. We talk about how autism affects her experience of intimacy. Sara talks about running a queer disability support group at a University, and suggests ways that University groups can engage with intersectional identities better. We talk about her relationship with her cishet husband, and so much more. Enj...

In this episode, I sit down with the hilarious Karolyn Gehrig, creator of the #HospitalGlam hashtag about sexuality, disability, and so much more. Our conversations touch on Karolyn's experience of EDS, her "How Much Blood is Too Much Blood", talking about the right to die and then getting her pussy eaten out with a date, and lots more. Follow Karolyn on Twitter here: @karolynprg Go to K...

In this episode we chat with relationship and sexual wellness coach Kat Nantz. We go into her experience of Charcot Marie Tooth Disease and how that plays into sexuality for her. We also chat about grieving disability, BDSM, Kink and Power with Disability, Parenting and Disability and so much more. You can follow Kat's work at www.katnantz.com

In this episode, I talk with Aspyn Bennett about the intersection of trans and Cerebral Palsy. We also chat about dating, disability and bisexuality and demisexuality. We discuss what it feels like to be fetishized as a disabled trans person and so much more. You can follow Aspyn on instagram at www.instagram.com/aspyn_bennett

In this episode, I talk about how I recently came due for a brand new wheelchair and all that entails. From there, I look at the fuckability of wheelchairs throughout history from wheelbarrows, bath chairs, the farffler and more. Enjoy!

In this episode, I sit down with Go-Go Boy, Chef and Porn Performer Jay Austin as we talk about the possibility of doing a porn scene together, and how my disability might be incorporated into that. We talk about the logistics of having a disabled actor in gay porn, we reveal my gay porn stage name and so much more. Follow Jay Austin's work at www.jayaustin.xxx or on Twitter @jayxaustin

I am SO EXCITED about this episode! On this one, I sit down with some of my all-time favorite podcasters, the gals of the wildly successful show, Wine and Crime. They come on to ask me questions about sex and disability; we share stories, laughs, and have a really funny, honest conversation. You can find Wine and Crime here , and follow them on Twitter @WineandCrimePod

In this episode, I look at popular seasonal sex tips from magazines like "Hot Summer Sex Tips" and look at whether or not these tips incorporate disability, or how ableist some of these tips in fact are, and how they don't work for disabled people. Enjoy!

In this minisode I get a letter about healthcare professionals stuck in the binary, inaccessible sex toy shops with medieval front doors and a person who regained the ability to masturbate after losing dexterity all from an anonymous listener who loves the show. Then we hear from someone who wants advice on how they can express their sexuality. Enjoy. Minisodes are now every two weeks on Wednesday...

In this episode, I take one of my favorite classic romantic comedies from the 90s, "You've Got Mail" and think about how that movie might look if the lead heroine (Meg Ryan) had a disability. How would the movie change? How would the narrative change? What would different scenes be like if accessibility had to be considered? All these things and more are explored in this episode. Enjoy!

Holy fuck, it's episode 100 of DisabilityAfterDark. What???! For this episode, I caught up with one of my favorite all time guests, Amin Lakhani. He reached out to me saying that he had more stuff to talk about including depression, sex, and disability, building a brand, cumming in a glove and so much more. This is a really important interview and it was totally fitting as episode 100!

In this brand new minisode, we get 2 very different letters in the inbox. Korbyn asks how to cope with the onset of a new disability, and asks how to manage this with partners. Then, we get a letter from Anonymous who shares a story of some hot sex they had with a partner, and how dom/sub/puppy play may interplay with their autistic identity. I also ask YOU to submit stories about your childhood/t...

In this episode, I sit down with my good friend and Pleasure Professional Eva Sweeney. She tells about her experiences working in the field of sex and disability through O School. Eva tells us hilarious stories about sex in her teens years; cum, dog hair and so much more. This was a really fun one. Follow Eva's work at crippingupsexwitheva.com Enjoy!

This episode is a really fun, simple episode where I tell you all about some great sex I had recently. I wanted to share because we so rarely hear disabled people telling great sex stories. So often our sexual encounters as disabled people are bogged down with ableism, and I wanted to share a moment that was just some really good sex for this queer cripple. Enjoy!

In this episode, I talk with chronically ill sex blogger Rachael Rose about her blog Hedonish.com . We talk about sexuality and chronic illness, brain fog and sex, why she once named her illness "Fred"; what brings Rachael pleasure as a chronically ill person, our "jewish-ness" is revealed and so, so much more. Be sure to follow Rachael's work at Web: www.hedonish.com Twitter:...