Romaine Patterson

Dildo Whisperer

Health EN ↓ 159 episodes

The Dildo Whisperer is where people go to get the sex education that their schools refused to give them and their parents were too embarrassed to discuss. This is sex education that is inclusive, inspiring and transformative! Listeners have the opportunity to ask questions, hear sex toy reviews and get insight from some of the top sexperts in the country. Hosted by Romaine Patterson and produced by DNR Studios.

Author

Romaine Patterson

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Health

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Latest episode

Jul 8, 2026

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Episodes

A Lesson in Sex Ed with Kim Airs 19.12.2023

Sex Education veteran Kim Airs joins the Dildo Whisperer to school us about the history of sex education and sex retail locations. Kim is a delightful wealth of information with over 30 years in the industry. Her journey in the industry takes her from Harvard and back with a lot of wild tales in between. This is one interview that will have you saying, "Whaaaaat?"  Send the us your sex and relatio...

Sexy Santa 12.12.2023

Tis' the season to do some holiday shopping and the Dildo Whisperer is here to help you make your lists. Ajay and Romaine cover all the best holiday sexy gifting ideas and help you avoid some common pitfalls! Get sexy this season as you play the role of Santa!  Don't forget to send us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have tw...

Talk Dirty To Me 06.12.2023

Talking dirty during sex can be such a turn on. People engage in dirty talk in a variety of ways and this week the Dildo Whisperer and Ajay discuss what makes it so hot. Both hosts are big fans in totally different ways. They walk you through some of the challenges and ways to use talking sexy to enhance your sex life.  Don't forget to send us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will...

Put a Plug In It 29.11.2023

You want to put that where? Butt Plugs go in your butt hole but what do you know about them? The Dildo Whisperer is going to make Ajay get really awkward as they discuss all things Butt Plugs! Together they answer 5 big questions about butt plugs and they even offer a few tips on how best to use them! So bend over and get ready for a very funny episode of the Dildo Whisperer!  Don't forget to send...

The Great Penis Show 22.11.2023

This is the Great Penis Show. While Derek and Romaine were away in Europe the Dildo Whisperer decided to take over their show. She invited the men of the Cookie Jar to stop by the studio and discuss all things: Penis! This episode will test what they know about their junk and what they don't. Be prepared to be shocked and maybe even a little bit scared!  Don't forget to send us your sex and relati...

A Little Bit About Blowjobs 15.11.2023

This is a very special episode of the Dildo Whisperer show because it is also a Derek and Romaine take over show! For the next two weeks Derek and Romaine are away on a trip to Europe so Romaine decided to make some extra special episodes of the Dildo Whisperer show to share with her daily audience. This episode is all about blowjobs and Romaine has brought in some big guns to help her discuss thi...

Sex Furniture 08.11.2023

Sex furniture is a thing. Romaine will walk you through all of the various types of furniture out there to help enhance and elevate your sex life! Learn which sex furniture blends right in to your home decor and which furniture will give away your kinks. Most importantly though the Dildo Whisperer will help you find the best places to shop for your sex furniture needs!  Don't forget to send us you...

Put a Ring On It 25.10.2023

If you have ever had a desire to put a ring on it gentlemen then you are going to want to tune into this episode of the Dildo Whisperer. No, not that kind of ring! We are talking about rings designed for your penis! We will go over the benefits and what to avoid when trying them out for the first time. Ajay has questions and Romaine has all the answers! Send the us your sex and relationship questi...

Let's Eat Cake 18.10.2023

It is an often taboo subject but sometimes those are the most important topics that we will cover on the Dildo Whisperer. This week Ajay and Romaine are talking analingus. That's right, the art of rimming. They cover everything you need to know about doing it safely and making sure all parties are having a great time. So if you want to give it a try or are just interested in learning more the Dild...

Awkward Essentials 11.10.2023

Men of the world. Do you know what happens to your cum after you deposit it inside your girlfriend? On this episode we are going to get really awkward and talk about that and so much more! This is part sex education, part sexual anatomy and a whole lot of important self care for the ladies in our audience. Prepare yourself as we talk about Awkward Essentials with founder, Frances Tang!  Don't forg...

Resetting Your Sex Life 11.10.2023

We have all been there. Sometimes your sex life just takes a nose dive but what can you do about it? In this episode the Dildo Whisperer and Ajay discuss the killers of your sex life. They also go over ways you can reset your sex life. So if you have been in a sexual slump then you are going to want to tune in for a lesson in initiation!  Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe y...

Working Out Your Pelvic Floor 04.10.2023

What is a kegel? This week the Dildo Whisperer breaks down the importance of keeping your pelvic muscles toned up and in shape. Her and Ajay discuss where your pelvic muscles are for both men and women and the steps to keeping those muscles in shape. If you want stronger orgasms, better stamina, and better ejaculation then this is the episode for you!  Send the us your sex and relationship questio...

House of Three 27.09.2023

The Dildo Whisperer discusses the etiquette of the 3 way in this week's episode. Both Romaine and Ajay have embarked on a three way adventure or two and have some good insight into how to avoid conflicts and problems when engaging in play with or without your partner. If you are thinking about trying a threesome you don't want to miss this episode.  Send the us your sex and relationship questions...

Dildo Whisperer- Scruba Dub Dub 20.09.2023

The Dildo Whisperer learned a shocking statistic about how many people don't clean their sex toys after sex. So this week's episode is dedicated to sharing the best methods for cleaning and storing your toys. Protect your toys and your body with good cleaning habits.  Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two way...

Dildo Whisperer- Sex Shopping 13.09.2023

The Dildo Whisperer is going shopping this week. Romaine takes us on a tour of her local sex toy store before answering some Dear Dildo Whisperer questions. If you are looking to buy sex furniture or body safe toys the Dildo Whisperer has you covered. last but not least Romaine talks about a recent purchase she made based on an episode of this show! Find out what it was and what she really thinks....

A History Lesson with Metis Black 06.09.2023

This week's show is a history lesson from the world of sex toys. The Dildo Whisperer is joined by Tantus Inc founder, Metis Black. Together Romaine and Metis take a look at the history and evolution of the sex toy industry. This engaging conversation covers everything from why sex toys are called "novelty" to how sex toys became healthier for the user. For more information on Metis you can follow...

Sex In The Water 30.08.2023

Sex can happen anywhere including in the water. This week Ajay asks the Dildo Whisperer to deep dive into the world of sex in the water. She covers everything you need to know about the safety of sex in the water. Plus,  she discusses some of the best waterproof sex toys! Splish Splash this week's episode will have you ready to get wet and wild!   Send the us your sex and relationship questions an...

WireCutter's Best Vibrator List 23.08.2023

This episode was inspired by a Dear Dildo Whisperer question. Tune in to find out what the Dildo Whisperer thinks of a recent article in the New York Times WireCutter. Plus, you will find out where Ajay has been hiding!  Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show...

Sex Toys In Disguise 16.08.2023

Inspired by good friend's jewelry the Dildo Whisperer takes a look at sex toys in disguise. From super beautifully designed toys to playful toys you would never guess they have a hidden use. Learn about some of the amazing brands out there designing sex stuff that look like every day items. Send the us your sex and relationship questions. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our s...

Road Sex 09.08.2023

The Dildo Whisperer tackles sex while traveling in this episode. Having recently returned from a cruise she decides to share some of the best ways to enjoy sex while traveling. Plus she goes over some of the pit falls to avoid while hooking up on the road. Before you take a vacation you will want to take a listen to this sage advice from your Dildo Whisperer. Send the us your sex and relationship...

One Night Stands 02.08.2023

On this episode Romaine and Ajay delve deep into the world of one night stands! They cover everything from facts, to rules and even some tips. Find out how one listener used one night stands to gain access to some of the hottest pools in town!   Send the us your sex and relationship questions. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Ask...

Sensation Play 26.07.2023

The Dildo Whisperer schools Ajay on the world of sensation play. They go over everything from what it is to household items that can help you discover new ways to be intimate with your partner. Plus they answer listener questions.    Send the us your sex and relationship questions. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail....

Emma Rose 19.07.2023

Now a warning! This episode of the Dildo Whisperer is going to cause some discomfort. This week we sit down with the top transgender adult performer in the country, Emma Rose. Our discussion will cover a lot about Emma's transitioning process and it gets graphic! But you will get a real sense of some of the most pressing issues facing the transgendered community. This isn't just another porn start...

Anal Sex 18.07.2023

Ajay and Romaine take a deep dive into the subject of anal sex this week. They answer your pressing anal sex questions and review a set of anal beads. Don't forget you can participate in the show by emailing your sex and relationship questions to askthedw@gmail.com or leaving us a voicemail at 844-695-2766.  Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios....

Ducky Doolittle Pt. 2 18.07.2023

Last week your Dildo Whisperer sat down to chat with her favorite sexpert Ducky Doolittle. When these two get together they could talk for hours which is why this week we have the second half of their conversation. No topic is off limits with these two as you are about to find out.  Send the us your sex and relationship questions. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 8...

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