Dieke ter Weel

DIEKE - The Podcast

Society EN ↓ 52 episodes

I give you a look into my life as former business consultant now tantra teacher and speaker. If you are interested in self-development (and receiving the kind of education you should have growing up), specifically around femininity, sexuality, love and relationships, than you found the right place! www.dieketerweel.com Instagram: @dieketerweel

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Author

Dieke ter Weel

Category

Society

Podcast website

dieketerweel.com

Latest episode

May 12, 2025

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Episodes

#27 How to bridge him needing space, you needing connection 09.08.2023

In this episode I talk about:  The classic dilemma between freedom and love or space and connection that comes up in every relationship and how to find the balance  Becoming anxious about separate time as me and Modestas (my partner) would only take space after an argument and/or when feeling disconnected  How to avoid a negative imprint on taking space and spending time separate How naturally men...

#26 How to bring out the best in men 12.07.2023

In this episode I talk about:  How Tantra teaches us how to bring out the best in both men and in women and how to create the bridge between the two How to bring out the worst in men and the unhealthy patterns we step into as women Emasculation and how this leads to unfulfillment in both men and women  Male sexuality and honoring the masculine power centers  Resentment being one of the biggest rel...

#25 How to not loose your shit - my 8 favorite feminine tools 22.06.2023

In this episode I talk about:  Whether I miss having structure in my life when being on the road and traveling so much  The horizontal and vertical path Tantric principle and why this is essential to create a healthy routine  On how your menstruation cycle can keep you grounded and anchored in your femininity  Regulating your emotions in an efficient, quick and easy way  Why your anger is essentia...

#24 With Shaman Dayzah: From physical therapist to Shaman (in Dutch) 12.06.2023

Meet Marie-Louise/Shaman Dayzah, aka my mom, who after 30 years of running her own business as a physical therapist got initiated as a Shaman and now guides and connects people with their most natural self and their soul calling by using nature as a tool and mirror.  In this episode we talk about:  How she went from being a physical therapist to becoming a Shaman  Her journey through depression, d...

#23 Personal update: from Bali luxury life to European van life 05.06.2023

In this episode I talk about:  Why I decided to give up Bali as a home base  How embracing my menstruation cycle and my own inner seasons inspired me to make this change  The vision for this Europe adventure  How van life has really been and whether I like it or not  Differences between the male and female brain and how they impact the van conversion project  Feminine leadership and how it was ess...

#22 About our wedding on an active volcano - part 3 29.05.2023

In this episode we talk about:  Why we decided to get married on top of a volcano in Bali and who came up with the idea  The importance of symbolism in our relationship How I needed to let go of the way I thought a wedding was supposed to look  The meaning of marriage in combination with commitment and surrender  What are the benefits of being married for us How we experienced the actual wedding e...

#21 With Ma Ananda Sarita: Tantric solutions to the top 3 most common relationship challenges 16.05.2023

Meet Ma Ananda Sarita, world-renowned Tantra Teacher, who has been teaching Tantra for over 30 years and who has been working with couples for over 25 years and created the Soulmate training; a seven level Tantra training for couples.  In this episode we talk about:  How Sarita found Tantra and what Tantra is really all about  Why she created the Soulmate training for couples The three most common...

#20 Five Tantric tools to easily come back to connection with your partner 10.04.2023

In this episode I talk about:  Five Tantric tools me and Modestas (my husband) use on a daily basis to easily come back to connection with ourselves and each other  Mind-based vs body-based connection tools and exercises The energetic principles and theory of connection  Two important characteristics of feminine biology, essential for women to understand and love themselves more deeply  Three key...

#19 About our wedding on an active volcano - part 2 20.03.2023

In this episode we talk about:  Our wedding vows; how and why they are different from the traditional wedding vows  The limiting beliefs we had about marriage The process we used to let go of this conditioning and limiting beliefs about marriage so we could do it our own way  The feminine and cyclic approach to relationships and marriage  How Tantra supports the aliveness of relationships and offe...

#18 About our wedding on an active volcano - part 1 06.03.2023

In this episode we talk about: The imprint we had about marriage from our own upbringings How I never thought I would get married My parents divorce and how it effected my view on marriage Monogamy vs polyamory and how it effects societies Commitment and how this is becoming a lost quality/principle in life The principles our relationship and marriage are based on Letting go of preconceived ideas...

#17 With Celine Charlotte: Why she goes to a Tantra retreat twice a year 27.02.2023

In this episode we talk about: What Tantra means to Celine and how she discovered and started with it One of the biggest lessons she learned through Tantra Why she goes to Tantra retreats twice a year and what she loves about it so much How Tantra changed her daily life, relationships and business The Tantra tools she uses to move big emotions How Tantra helped her to overcome the shock of her div...

#16 The one essential skill for long term relationships - about conscious fighting 20.02.2023

In this episode we talk about: Mind based vs body based conflict resolution How to have fun while having an argument Using fights and challenges in your relationship as a portal into healing and transforming old patterns forever Our favorite conscious fighting tool How your difference are actually a superpower and necessary for long lasting passion and attraction Book tip: the Male brain, the Fema...

#15 How to have full body orgasms - the concept of Kundalini 13.02.2023

In this episode I talk about: My own orgasm journey; from not being able to have orgasms, to faking orgasms, to reprogramming the way I orgasm, to experiencing full body orgasms My past addiction to vibrators and porn How your menstruation cycle and sexuality are connected Your instinctual and biological nature and how it impacts you Kundalini energy and kundalini awakening How orgasms are program...

#14 How to make change easy; about daring to quit at the top of success 06.02.2023

In this episode I talk about: My background in Innovation Management and how it is very connected to Tantra and the feminine work I do these days How I see change and how I have learned to surrender to it The 3 characteristics that are essential to be able to enjoy change The concept of learning to quit at the top How emotional alchemy and fluidity are necessary to let go easily The big change tha...

#13 His side of the story: How I met my Soulmate 30.01.2023

In this episode we talk about: The story of how me and my partner, Modestas, met, but now shared from his perspective His relationship history; from monogamy to polyamory and all things in between His relationship struggles; how he felt attracted to other women while being in a relationship Sexuality and biology differences between men and women which influence the way we relate The tantric way of...

#12 How I met my Soulmate 23.01.2023

In this episode I talk about: My personal relationship history, the struggles I faced, and how it made me close my heart The three lessons/steps that were key in attracting and meeting my Soulmate Whether it was love on first sight or not Acting from pain vs acting from love and how to feel the difference How connecting to your body and ability to feel is essential for a healthy relationship life...

#11 The sex pose you didn't know you needed - the concept of tantric sex 16.01.2023

In this episode we talk about: - Why sex becomes and feels like a chore, especially in long term relationships - How to create a balanced and sustainable sex life - The feminine/yin vs masculine/yang approach to sex and sexuality - The sexual energy framework; the five intentions - How sex can become healing and transformative - What tantric sex is all about - Ejaculation mastery for men - The con...

#10 Why you are NOT co-dependent, needy or too attached 20.10.2022

In this episode I talk about: - How to not loose yourself in relationship/connections - How to find the balance between freedom and connection - My vision on co-dependency and Tantric wisdom around the topic - Women’s psychology and biology and how your instinctual nature is more powerful than you think - Why your feminine hearts always longs for love, intimacy, and relationship If you loved this...

#09 On practicing and teaching naked yoga, ditching shame & learning to love my body 07.10.2022

In this episode I talk about: - How I went from graduating and getting my Masters in Innovation Management to teaching naked yoga and moving to Bali - How I got the idea of practicing and teaching naked yoga - The power of practicing yoga naked - Shame and my own shame stories - The two ways in which naked yoga changed my life - Why loving your body is essential for reclaiming your feminine wisdom...

#08 What really happens at a couples tantra retreat - about the Soulmate training 29.07.2022

In this episode I talk about: - The Soulmate tantra training for couples - The most commonly asked questions: Do we exchange partners? Do you have to be naked? What if I am single? Where to get started with tantra? - Why tantra gets confused with sex - How I ended up doing this training with my partner - Projections and how they block true intimacy in a couple - Differences between men and women -...

#07 How to trust men and feel safe; so you can surrender more 18.07.2022

In this episode we talk about: - What surrender means from a masculine viewpoint - The difference between surrendering and being submissive - How the body always tells the truth - The difference between feminine and masculine power - How to feminine invites the masculine to grow up - How surrender and speaking your boundaries go hand in hand - Competence of men - The fierce, feminine goddess Kali...

#06 Why he isn’t leading you - the art of surrender 14.07.2022

In this episode I talk about: - The three unhealthy patterns we activate as women that make him unmotivated to lead you - The downside of the feminist movement - The strong, independent woman syndrome - How you are taught to distrust men - The difference between surrendering and being submissive - How to connect and interact with men so they will naturally want to lead and support you - Plus the a...

#05 Five tips to flow through your pre-menstrual phase with ease - the concept of cyclic nature 18.05.2022

In this episode I talk about: - The concept of cyclic nature and the different seasons of your menstruation cycle - Why PMS (pre-menstrual syndrome) is common but not normal - How to work with your cycle instead of fight against it - The connection between your emotions & your cycle - How to move yourself out of a down, heavy mood with ease - The healthy feminine and healthy masculine expressi...

#04 How to keep the spark alive in your relationship - the concept of polarity 04.05.2022

In this episode I talk about: - The Sunday rule; every Sunday, Modestas (my partner) and I sleep apart.  - How to keep your relationship passionate and healthy - The concept of polarity - How to not loose yourself in a relationship - The benefit of being proactive vs reactive in life - How to get a man to lead you and take control - Why you need your feminine energy in keeping the spark alive in y...

#03 If you can't be angry, you can't have great sex 29.12.2021

In this episode I talk about: - How I was wasn’t feeling a lot of pleasure during sex last week - Why emotions and pleasure are connected - Why my tantra teacher says ‘If you can’t be angry, you can’t have great sex’ - How unexpressed emotions kill the spark and passion in a relationship - The life changing realization I had after a conscious sex party - The connection between your pussy and your...

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