Did You Say Something? The Podcast

Wedding planning can easily become your whole world. But when the day is over, the dress is hung up, and the spotlight fades… who are you? In this reflective episode of  Did You Say Something… , Tamesha Kinloch Carter explores identity during engagement and the emotional shift that can happen after the wedding. From the “bridal personality” effect to the quiet reality of marriage, this conversatio...

Contracts aren’t just paperwork — they’re protection. In this episode of  Did You Say Something… , we’re breaking down the parts of wedding contracts couples skip, misunderstand, or don’t read closely enough until it’s too late. From payment schedules and overtime fees to cancellation policies and liability clauses, this episode will help you avoid costly surprises and set realistic expectations b...

Weddings don’t just change timelines and budgets , they can change friendships too. In this episode of  Did You Say Something… , we’re talking about the friendship shifts nobody warns you about: the people who show up quietly, the ones who perform online but disappear in real life, and the awkward moments when support doesn’t look the way you expected. I’m sharing how to set bridal party expectati...

Date Night While Planning a Wedding Wedding planning can turn your engagement into weekly meetings, decision fatigue, and unnecessary tension. In this episode, we’re keeping it real about how to protect your relationship while planning your big day — without guilt. I’m sharing my “3-Date Rule,” a simple connection checklist, and the boundaries that keep love at the center of the season.

Booking your wedding venue is exciting, but it’s also one of the most misunderstood parts of wedding planning. In this episode, wedding planner Tamesha Kinloch Carter sits down with Anisha Taylor, Hospitality Director at Bella House 1873, to talk about what every couple should know before signing a venue contract. From understanding what venues actually provide, to asking the right questions about...

The New Year doesn’t always come with clarity, and that’s okay. In this fireside episode of Did You Say Something? , Tamesha invites you into a quiet, honest conversation about releasing pressure, letting go of what no longer serves you, and choosing intention over resolutions. This isn’t about fixing yourself or rushing into goals. It’s about alignment. It’s about grace. And it’s about entering t...

Fresh off co-hosting A Sippin’ Christmas , Tamesha shares real-life holiday hosting tips rooted in confidence, intention, and grace. In this Holiday Sip episode, we talk about creating meaningful moments without the pressure of perfection, because hosting is about presence, not performance. Pour a drink, settle in, and let’s sip into the season together. Key Takeaways • How to plan intentionally w...

Podcast Show Notes: EP 15 – Midlife Glow-Up: Confidence, Clarity & Clean Boundaries Subtitle: Because 50 Isn’t a Finish Line — It’s Your Next Evolution Host: Tamesha Kinloch-Carter Podcast: Did You Say Something… Episode Summary In this deeply personal and powerful episode, Tamesha opens up about entering a new chapter of life with confidence, intention, and peace. Turning 50 is more than a mi...

Season 4: Episode 14 We’ve all been there. Everything’s rolling smoothly, contracts signed, vision boards in place… and then suddenly, your vendor goes quiet. Like crickets quiet. In this episode, Tamesha Kinloch Carter — Editor-in-Chief of The Planner Wedding Magazine and the creative force behind FMTY Weddings & Events, gets real about what to do when vendors disappear and communication brea...

Title: Redefining the Soft Life: Peace with Purpose Season: 4, Episode 13 Host: Tamesha Kinloch Carter Description: In this episode, Tamesha Kinloch Carter , wedding/event planner, lifestyle creator, and Editor-in-Chief of The Planner Wedding Magazine , opens up about what the soft life really means beyond the hashtags and aesthetics. After turning 50, she’s learned that peace isn’t always quiet,...

Episode 12: Luxury Starts in the Details: Why the Small Things Matter Most Did You Say Something… with Tamesha Kinloch Carter Luxury isn’t about a big budget or flashy brands, it’s about intention, consistency, and the small details that create unforgettable experiences. In this episode, Tamesha shares why attention to detail is the true mark of elegance, both in weddings and in everyday life. Fro...

Episode 11 — You Didn’t Hire a Vibe — You Hired a Business It’s time for some real talk. In this episode, Tamesha breaks down one of the biggest misconceptions in the wedding and events world — mistaking personality for professionalism. From contracts and boundaries to payment schedules and respect, she’s unpacking why your vendors aren’t just “a vibe” They’re businesses built on structure, accoun...

Everyone wants the dreamy Pinterest-worthy wedding, but can your budget actually match your vision? In this episode, Tamesha Kinloch Carter breaks down the truth about planning a luxury wedding, why trying to do “the most” on the least always leads to stress, and how to scale wisely so your day still feels elevated. Expect: ✔ What “luxury” in weddings really means (hint: it’s more than pretty déco...

Welcome back to Did You Say Something… , where wedding planning is real, relatable, and a little rebellious! I’m Tamesha Kinloch Carter, your guide through Pinterest boards, family drama, and vendor chaos. Raise your hand if you’ve fallen down a Pinterest rabbit hole, dreaming of a “perfect” wedding only to realize your backyard budget can’t handle it. In this episode, I’m spilling the tea on why...

🎙️ Bonus Episode: Turning 50 – A Celebration of Meaning, Not Magnitude For my 50th, I didn’t want a big event. I create those for others daily. I wanted intimacy and meaning. My sisters and I kicked things off with an unforgettable lunch at Farley in San Francisco with our waiter, Janero who was absolutely amazing. Then we celebrated in Sonoma and Napa with music, brunch, wine tastings, and soul-f...

No timeline? So you’re just… vibing through your wedding day? Cool. Let me know how that works out when your makeup runs over, your DJ’s confused, the photographer misses golden hour, and you forget to toss the bouquet because nobody knew what was happening. This is your friendly reminder: A real wedding needs a real timeline. And no, that little venue schedule isn’t it. Need help? We've got y...

  Let’s Get Honest You’re engaged. You’re excited. You’ve got a vision. But the second you start sharing it, here comes Auntie Jean with her opinions. Your mama has a Pinterest board from 2008 and thinks she’s your creative director. Your dad says, “You know we don’t need all that.” And your cousin who’s never planned a thing wants to know why he’s not a groomsman. Let me say this clearly: Their o...

Let me just go ahead and say it: Some of y’all didn’t pick a wedding party — You picked people who wanted to play dress-up and be in the pictures. You’ve got folks showing up late, forgetting their suits, arguing over hair appointments… and you wonder why your stress level is on 10? This is not prom, baby. It’s a wedding. And your wedding party needs to be real grown about it. I’m breaking it ALL...

Let me say this real clear…It’s not the big things that wreck your wedding day. It’s the little things you didn’t think mattered. Like not feeding your photographer. Like assuming your cousin will “help with setup.”Like printing a timeline but never giving it to anyone. Yeah. That’s the stuff that blows up your day. If you don’t want your wedding falling apart while you’re getting your makeup done...

So you’ve got a friend who takes great videos on their iPhone, cute. But if you’re expecting them to capture the full essence of your wedding day, post it in real time, and make it look like a luxury brand’s launch party? Let’s talk. In Episode 3, Season 4 of Did You Say Something… , I’m breaking down the difference between helpful friends with phones and actual wedding content creators . Spoiler:...

Hey y’all ! Welcome back to Did You Say Something… , the no-fluff podcast that helps you plan your dream wedding and manage your real life while doing it. I’m your host, Tamesha Kinloch Carter — Editor-in-Chief of The Planner Wedding Magazine , wedding strategist, and the one who’s always gonna give it to you straight. If you tuned into Our 1st Episode of Season 4 , then you already know we came o...

Welcome to Season 4 of Did You Say Something … the podcast where weddings meet real life, and I say the things others won’t. We’re kicking off this season with a hot one: You really think you don’t need a wedding coordinator? Let’s talk about that. In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on what actually happens when couples choose vibes over vision and let unqualified “helpers” run their we...

Episode Description: In a world filled with endless choices, decision overload can often feel like a mental minefield. Join Tamesha Kinloch Carter in this episode of "Did You Say Something?" as she dives into the art of mastering decision overload without losing your mind. Drawing from her expertise as a certified planner and the Editor in Chief of The Planner Wedding Magazine, Tamesha o...

"Did You Say Something" is the go-to podcast for anyone embarking on the journey of planning their dream wedding while nurturing a healthy married lifestyle. Join your host, Tamesha Kinloch-Carter, a Confidence Pusher, Certified Wedding Planner, and the creative force behind The Planner Wedding Magazine, as she guides you through the intricate world of weddings and matrimony. In each epi...

Selecting the Right Vendors - Tips for a Dream Wedding Team! Join Tamesha Kinloch-Carter, your Confidence Pusher, Certified Wedding/Event Planner, and Editor in Chief of The Planner Wedding Magazine, in this captivating episode of "Did You Say Something, Wedding Planning and Lifestyle." Embark on a journey as Tamesha delves into the crucial process of selecting the perfect vendors for yo...