Diary of a Swinging Couple

In this episode, we’re breaking down exactly how we get ready for a hotel takeover. From the practical prep to the social side, we walk you through our step-by-step approach so nothing gets left to chance. We talk about making connections beforehand, engaging in the event chats, and building a little familiarity before you ever step foot in the hotel. Showing up already knowing a few faces can com...

Halloween 2025 did not disappoint. In this episode, we recap a wild and wonderful night out, including hitting a club for the first time in years, rolling deep with some amazing friends, and reconnecting with that carefree, electric energy that only comes from dressing up and letting loose together. From dancing and laughing to late-night adventures, we break down what made this Halloween one for...

We’re back! After a bit of a hiatus, we’re finally back behind the mic and catching up on everything that’s been going on. In this episode, we talk about where we’ve been, what we’ve been up to, and why life pulled us away for a bit. It’s a relaxed, fun check-in as we ease back into things, share some laughs, and reset the tone for what’s coming next. We also dive into M4’s Not New Year’s event ho...

This time Mike takes us back to one of his favourite memories: The Gatsby Party. Think glitz, glam, and a night full of surprises that didn’t exactly end the way we imagined. Between the energy of the party and the unexpected twists, it’s one that definitely left its mark on us. We also share how Chloe faced down some of her fears that night and what we both took away from the experience. It was f...

We are heading back to one of Chloe’s all-time favourite memories: The Cancun Boobs Cruise. This episode is all about revisiting the sun, the fun, and the absolute chaos of that wild day on the water. From who hops on board to what actually happens once the drinks start flowing, we dive back into the details that made it unforgettable. Whether you have been curious about what really goes down or j...

In this episode, we let you peek into what a date looks like for us, from the butterflies before to the fun while we are out and everything in between. We share our little rituals for getting ready, the vibe we like to set once the date starts, and the moments that turn an ordinary night into something unforgettable. We also talk about how we decide if we want to see someone again. Do they spark t...

In this episode, we spill all the details from a recent house party that turned out to be way more than just drinks and small talk. From meeting some amazing new friends to jumping into games that had everyone laughing (and blushing), it was the kind of night that reminds us why we love the lifestyle community so much. Of course, no party recap would be complete without a little playful embarrassm...

In this episode, Mike and Chloe dive into the topic of reclaim sex, what it is, how it shows up in the lifestyle, and why the name doesn’t quite sit right with them. They break down the common definition, unpack the emotions behind it, and explore how couples use it to reconnect after an experience with others. From sharing when they feel their best sex happens, to telling real life stories of tim...

Mike and Chloe are back at Sandy Bottoms for one of the wildest, busiest weekends of the year. The campground was buzzing with energy, laughter, and just the right amount of chaos. From outrageous blow-up doll races to magnum condoms making surprise appearances, it was a weekend where nothing was off-limits and everything was on the table. In this episode, they dive into the hilarious highlights,...

In this episode, Mike and Chloe take on Hollywood’s wildest takes on swinging and non-monogamy. From Friends and Seinfeld to Eyes Wide Shut and Wanderlust, we break down how movies and TV shows have portrayed the lifestyle over the years. Some scenes had us laughing, others had us rolling our eyes, and a few actually hit pretty close to home. We’re diving into the sexy, the strange, and the totall...

The long-overdue birthday episode is finally here. We’re catching you up on how we each celebrated our big days, from sweet surprises to spicy adventures. Whether it was intimate moments, unexpected gifts, or just the chaos that seems to follow us around, we’re breaking it all down and laughing our way through the memories. Of course, it wouldn’t be one of our celebrations without at least one shi...

In this episode, Mike and Chloe explore the idea of one night stands through a lifestyle lens. Do they really exist, or is there always some kind of connection? They break down what counts, what doesn’t, and how their perspective has shifted over time. Plus, they share whether they’ve had a one night stand of their own. They also dive into the question of satisfaction—can a one night stand really...

In this episode of Diary of a Swinging Couple, Mike and Chloe are going full mythbuster mode. From “swingers clubs are dirty” to “swingers don't love each other,” they’re diving into the biggest misconceptions and myths about the lifestyle. Are they real? Are they fake? Are we just here for the snacks? Whether you’re new to the scene or a seasoned vet, this episode brings some laughs, real talk, a...

We got banned on Instagram! In this episode, we share the full story of why our account was taken down and what it taught us about censorship and community guidelines when it comes to lifestyle content. We also dive into some of the most popular social media platforms—like Instagram, Reddit, Facebook and Twitter/X—and talk about how (and if) they can actually be used to meet other lifestyle couple...

In this episode, we sit down with Veronica (aka Smooshprints) and Ethan to dive into their journey in the lifestyle. We explore how their love for art and creativity led them to express themselves in new, exciting ways—eventually evolving into creating spicy content. From their first steps into the LS to blending passion with business, they share their experiences, challenges, and what it means to...

In this episode of Diary of a Swinging Couple, we’re joined by the incredible Kim Lee, author of The Swinger in the Mirror. Kim shares her personal journey into the lifestyle, the inspiration behind her book, and the lessons she’s learned along the way. We dive deep into key topics like handling jealousy, the importance of open communication, and the big question many people ask: Is the lifestyle...

In this episode, we sit down with Matt and Amanda, the dynamic duo behind TABOTA—the masterminds behind unforgettable events like VIN and Sandy Bottoms. They take us back to their early years, sharing the challenges they faced in building a thriving lifestyle community. From overcoming obstacles to curating some of the most sought-after experiences, we dive into their journey and what drives their...

In this special episode of Diary of a Swinging Couple, we take you along on our exciting trip to Valentine’s in Niagara! From the electric atmosphere to the unforgettable connections, we dive into all the fun and experiences that made this getaway one for the books. This time, we brought our traveling mic's along to capture the heart of the event. We had the pleasure of interviewing five different...

In this episode, Chloe and Mike dive into the wild and wonderful world of bisexuality in the swingers' lifestyle! We share our experiences meeting bisexual couples, the spicy encounters we've had, and why bisexual women seem to be everywhere—while bisexual men are harder to find. Is it stigma? Social norms? Or are guys just missing out on all the fun? Join us as we unpack the double standards, sha...

Happy New Year! We’re back and ready to spill all the steamy details from this year’s holiday house party! If you’ve been with us for a while, you know this party was where our love affair with house parties began. But this time? Oh, it was bigger, bolder, and way sexier.  Let’s just say Chloe brought her A-game and did a few things that left Mike—and the rest of the room—absolutely mesmerized. Ma...

She's back! You asked, and we delivered. Angelique is back on the podcast! In this episode, Angelique discusses her experience with sex work. As you may recall, she spent some time as a stripper and in this episode we learn more about that experience. We discuss how she started, what her favourite memories were, what her first lap dance was like, and much more. You're going to love this episode! M...

It's finally here! Our review of Secrets Hideaway. Join us as we review our stay at Secrets Hideaway Resort. We dive in to the look, the cleanliness, the entertainment, the playrooms, and (most importantly) the food! Would we recommend Secrets to our friends? Would we go back to Secrets? Did Chloe finally get her 30-person orgy?! All these questions, and more, are answered in this episode! Make su...

We're back with another special episode, live from Secrets Hideaway! In this episode we sit down with Fredrick & Barbie and talk everything Secrets Hideaway. We dive into Secrets origin story, the troubles they ran into at the start, how they overcame them, and the work that has gone into making Secrets Hideaway what it is today. We really enjoyed this interview and we know you will as well! M...

We finally made it! We're live from secrets! Follow us in this very special episode where we give you the live play by play from Secrets! We made so many new friends and got the chance to hang out with old ones! Hope you enjoy! Make sure to follow us on our social media: Instagram: @DiaryofaSwingingCouplePodcast X: @DiaryofaSC If you want to learn more about Secrets Hideaway you can go to www.secr...

It finally happened! We had our very first house party. In this episode we look back at how we prepared for the house party, who we invited and, most importantly, how the night went. Was Chloe nervous for no reason? Did we have enough space for everyone? Was there a 30-person orgy?! Listen in as we answer all these questions and more! Make sure to follow us on our social media: Instagram: @Diaryof...