Destroy The Hairdresser

Is your Instagram aesthetic on point but your books still empty? In this solo episode, Cyd pulls back the velvet curtain on the content circus and teaches you how to stop performing and start converting. With hard-earned wisdom, real strategies from the Social Circus course, and five actionable ways to build your books using social media—this episode is your wake-up call. Spoiler: You don’t need t...

In this punchy and painfully honest episode, Cyd and David call out one of the most addictive drugs in the salon industry: overworking. From idolizing burnout to using busyness as a badge of honor, they unpack how overworking gives salon owners and stylists a temporary high and a long-term crash. This isn’t about productivity it’s about control, validation, and fear. Whether you’re addicted to the...

In this powerful and unfiltered episode of  Destroy The Hairdresser , Cyd and David unpack the glamorization of queer stylists in the salon industry—and the exploitation that often hides underneath. From being celebrated for their “fabulous energy” to being overlooked for leadership and pay raises, queer hairdressers are too often stuck in a glitter-covered box. This episode explores the emotional...

A listener drops the tea on a messy rental salon situation: rent hikes, commission assistants in a booth rental space, unclear policies, and a salon owner watching everyone on motion-sensor cameras. Cyd and David unpack why hybrid models get chaotic fast, how leadership confusion breeds distrust, and why booth renters need to understand they’re glorified tenants—not team members. Oh, and if you’re...

A stylist is booked out for six months, making great money, and still  refuses  to raise their prices. Sound familiar? In this episode, we break down why being fully booked isn’t the goal—it’s a trap. Cyd and David tackle the emotional, spiritual, and strategic reasons stylists resist raising prices, and why doing it when things are  good  is the real power move. From guilt to burnout to hostage s...

It’s the final part of the series salon owners  can’t stop texting their therapist about.  In this episode, Cyd and David drop the last four reasons your team is bouncing—fast. From staying delusional about what your stylists actually want, to ignoring modern tech and holding your entire business together with duct tape and lash glue—this is the episode that’ll make you laugh, cringe, and hopefull...

In Part 2 of  How to Lose a Stylist in 10 Days , Cyd and David are back with baby co-hosts, Benz shade, and some brutally honest salon truths. They break down more of the subconscious—and not-so-subtle—ways salon owners sabotage their teams, including turning every meeting into a therapy session, offering fake "growth paths," and trying to prove how broke they are as a leadership flex. Y...

Welcome to a special chaos-filled episode—featuring baby co-hosts, N*SYNC debates, and the cold, hard truth about why stylists keep quitting. Cyd and David dive into the viral TikTok trend that exposed why hairdressers  really  leave commission salons—and it’s not just about the money. From love-bombing leadership to micromanaging madness, they break down the toxic behaviors that cause walkouts, b...

In this astrology-meets-business episode of  Destroy The Hairdresser , Cyd is joined by professional astrologer and longtime friend Josh Robbins (formerly Astral Above). Together they unpack the  real  reason your business might be stuck—and spoiler—it’s written in the stars. Josh breaks down the 4 business elements (Earth, Air, Fire, Water) based on your  rising sign  and gives tactical advice fo...

“I finally made money… now I’m scared to spend it.”  Welcome to the emotional rollercoaster of financial growth. This week on  Destroy The Hairdresser , Cyd and David tackle the  deep money trauma  hairdressers carry—and how it shows up in business through hoarding, guilt, emotional discounting, and self-sabotage. From the fear of being perceived as greedy to the chaos of financial illiteracy, the...

Is it leadership or is it a cult? Salon owners keep asking how to get their team to care without sounding like they’re recruiting for a high-control group, and we have thoughts. In this episode, Cyd and David unpack  salon “buy-in” culture , the toxic love-bombing that happens in hiring, and why your team doesn’t need to care about the business the way you do. From dramatic walkouts to petty rumor...

Cyd’s back on Threads and back on her bullshit (the good kind). In this episode, she and David talk about how social media became a space for truth bombs during maternity leave, the unexpected power of Threads, and why  every hairdresser needs a place to say what they really think. Then they dive into a Hairdresser Hotline question about time-based pricing, why your clients don’t get to run your b...

Trigger warning: discussion of child loss and medical complications. Cyd returns to the mic with a powerful and personal episode revealing the secret she's been keeping: she had a baby—again! In this raw and emotional conversation, Cyd opens up about navigating IVF, experiencing a devastating pregnancy loss, and the toll social media took on her mental and physical health. She and David dive deep...

In this episode of Destroy The Hairdresser, David sits down with Lori Obiedzinski from Aura Salonware to discuss how technology is transforming the salon industry. They dive into how Aura is disrupting outdated salon management systems, making it easier for stylists and owners to streamline their businesses. They talk about station sharing, AI in salon software, and why commission salons aren’t de...

In this episode of  Destroy The Hairdresser ,  David and Kris  dive deep into  the broken system of cosmetology licensing , the  flaws in beauty school education , and how the industry needs  radical change . They break down why  licensing doesn’t guarantee skill , why  schools aren’t preparing hairstylists for real-life salon work , and how  artistry should take center stage over outdated systems...

In this episode of  Destroy the Hairdresser ,  David Bosscher  sits down with  Megan Harvey , a longtime hairdresser who transformed her career through  Destroy The Hairdresser  coaching. Megan shares her journey of overcoming imposter syndrome, shifting to hourly pricing, and going gratuity-free—plus the  huge  mindset shifts that came with it. She dives into how coaching helped her build confide...

In this episode of  Destroy the Hairdresser , David Bosscher interviews longtime coaching client and salon owner Natalie Kalae. Natalie shares her journey from working in structured corporate salons to taking the leap into entrepreneurship with the guidance of DTH coaching. She discusses the challenges of moving to New York City, starting her own salon suite, and scaling her business into a micro-...

In this episode of  Destroy the Hairdresser , David sits down with Coach Bek Sanders to unpack their wild ride through social media—from viral TikToks and trend predictions to internet backlash and the misunderstood nature of Destroy the Hairdresser. They dive into the emotional rollercoaster of managing online reactions, the fear of being misunderstood, and the freedom that comes with letting go...

In this episode of Destroy the Hairdresser, David is joined by Coach Jennessa Couture, who dives into the complexities of leading a salon team and running a business with confidence. From addressing team resistance and the constant need for feedback to balancing authority and approachability, they explore the challenges salon owners face when trying to be liked versus being effective leaders. With...

In this episode of the  Destroy the Hairdresser Podcast , Coaches Kat Scott and Kyle Huntsberry take over the mic to answer questions from the Hairdresser Hotline and share insights about their podcast,  You CAN Sit With Us.  The duo dives into crucial industry topics like hourly pricing, the realities of salon culture, and the importance of inclusivity and autonomy in modern salons. Packed with p...

In this lively and insightful episode of Destroy the Hairdresser, David Bosscher sits down with Coach Rachel to tackle salon owners' most pressing concerns, including navigating team resistance to change, the pitfalls of booth rental, and building a sustainable, innovative commission salon. Together, they share personal stories, hard-earned lessons, and hilarious anecdotes about the challenges and...

In this episode of Destroy the Hairdresser, Cyd and Wes Sharpton discuss the evolution of the hairdressing industry, focusing on the importance of community, investment, and the changing landscape of retail. Wes shares his extensive background in hairdressing and his role at Hairstory, emphasizing the need for hairdressers to build wealth beyond their services. The conversation also delves into th...

In this thought-provoking and hilarious episode, Cyd and David dive into the hot topic of tipping in the salon industry. They explore the origins of tipping, its outdated implications, and why it’s time for stylists and salon owners to let it go. The hosts share insights on how tipping perpetuates inequality, hinders financial growth, and keeps the industry from moving forward. They encourage list...

In this heartfelt and inspiring episode, David sits down with Beth Bradley, a former DTH student and owner of The Collective Hair Studio in North Palm Beach, Florida. Beth candidly shares her rollercoaster journey from leaving a high-profile salon, opening her own business, and navigating life’s biggest challenges—including a lawsuit, a divorce, and the loss of her mother—all while building a thri...

In this lively and sarcastic episode, Cyd and David dive into a  Hairdresser Hotline  submission from a stylist who shares their tumultuous experience working at an Ulta salon plagued by Groupon clients, unqualified hires, and dysfunctional management. The hosts break down why discount schemes like Groupon ultimately harm salons, stylists, and their reputation. They discuss the importance of susta...