Destined To Be

In a world where we can get just about anything we want delivered in 24 hours or less, it's tough to remember that achieving big goals doesn't work the same way. You can't build a business or transform your health by clicking a button and waiting on the Amazon truck. But there are two key traits that you can cultivate to build success in any area of your life. On this episode of Destined to Be, we...

There are two ways to look at the word 'try.' Most of us use it when something's not really a priority. We'll 'try' to get to the gym today… But if we don't make it, no big deal. But what if you ONLY used the word 'try' in the context of trying again and again—until you reach your goal? On this episode of Destined to Be, we explore how we use the word 'try' as an excuse to show up less-than what w...

If your goals are big enough, you're going to feel frustration and overwhelm. So, how do you handle those moments without giving up? On this episode of Destined to Be, we share our best strategies for persevering through challenging times, describing the benefit of getting into meditation when you feel like you're in over your head. We explain how to recognize when you're in grind season and keep...

Are you struggling to make progress on your big dreams? Is it because you're waiting for a more convenient time to get started? Or because you don't want to ask for help? Or maybe you're telling yourself it's easier to just to keep doing what you're doing. On this episode of Destined to Be, we share three simple rules in life that will propel you to go after what you want right now—and keep moving...

You can't win 'em all. But you can change the way you think about losing. In fact, you can frame up your failures in a way that builds a new reality. A reality of winning for the long term. On this episode of Destined to Be, we explore how to let go of failure rather than letting it fester, describing the role daily habits play in cultivating a winning mentality. We explain how small, consistent w...

Are you ready to take your life to the next level? Then you have to be willing to grow as a person. Otherwise, you'll be living the same year over and over and over again. On this episode of Destined to Be, we explain why getting to the next level of your life demands a different version of you, exploring how the journey (and who you become in the process) is even more important than reaching a ce...

Yes, it's important to stand up for what you believe in. But when you're triggered by someone who has a different opinion and you get combative, you're creating turbulence that doesn't serve anyone. On this episode of Destined to Be, we explore how to deal with people we disagree with, explaining how we adapt our own opinions as truth based on the information we have. We discuss why we make an eff...

Most people think that happiness is something that happens TO us when things work out just right. But the truth is, happiness is a CHOICE. And it's up to YOU to opt in. But how, exactly, do you cultivate a sense of joy and fulfillment? How do you choose happy? On this episode of Destined to Be, we explore the relationship between gratitude and fulfillment, explaining how to avoid getting sucked in...

When you're navigating trauma, it feels like the worst thing in the world. But time after time in our lives, bad situations have turned out to be some of the best things that ever happened to us. And the most difficult circumstances taught us to be more intentional about the life we want to create and put us on the trajectory to build Destined to Be. On this episode, we're sharing our conversation...

When we compete, only one person can win. And while this is fine for games, sports and other kinds of contests, it's not the best approach to business or life. So, how do we shift out of competition mode? And what can we do to cultivate the positive energy of creation? On this episode of Destined to Be, we explain why you can't compete and create at the same time, describing how competition fuels...

How is it possible to have $100M and still feel middle class? Most of us have a hard time perceiving the truth of how far we've come or what we're capable of. We forget that we've already beaten the odds, simply by being alive. And we waste time wishing for what other people have and questioning their qualifications. On this episode of Destined to Be, we're discussing the role comparison plays in...

Without passion, nothing happens. Without compassion, the wrong things happen. In the memoir Into the Magic Shop , neurosurgeon and Stanford professor Dr. James Doty shares his story of learning to harness the power of both the brain and heart. And he contends that we cannot enjoy true wealth or live our best lives in the absence of compassion. But what does it look like to practice compassion in...

When you're overwhelmed, do you work through it? Or do you push it down and tell your partner you're fine? It's scary to be vulnerable and communicate what you're really feeling. But it's absolutely necessary if you want to find solutions. And if your partner has your back, it's much easier to navigate overwhelm (or any other negative emotion) and come out better on the other side. On this episode...

Tony Robbins reminds us that if you want to change your life, you have to raise your standards. But how, exactly, do you set the bar higher? And how do you follow through and live up to these new standards you set for yourself? On this episode of Destined to Be, we discuss the value in surrounding yourself with people who will push you to the next level, explaining how couples can serve as extreme...

We hope you never figure out what you want to be when you grow up. That's not to say you shouldn't get clear on what you want to be NEXT. Vision is key in manifesting the life you want. But we hope you never stop growing up. That you keep striving for the next thing and evolving into a better person than you are now. On this episode of Destined to Be, we're explaining why it's crucial to set an in...

In a perfect world, we would only go where we're celebrated—not tolerated. But sometimes we can't avoid being around people who gossip, judge or complain. People with the potential to bring us down. So, how do you keep your vibe high in that situation? And what can you do to spend LESS time with Debbie Downers and MORE time with people who lift you up? On this episode of Destined to Be, we're disc...

To have a healthy relationship, you need to communicate your wants and needs and then make compromises to support each other's growth. But most importantly, a fulfilling partnership requires dedication. It's about working through challenges and making time to work on your relationship. It's about growing together. On this episode of Destined to Be, we're exploring the third and final C of a strong...

We tend to see compromise in a relationship as a bad thing. It makes us think of giving something up and feeling resentful toward our partner as a result. But what if compromise in a relationship isn't about winning or losing? What if you can BOTH benefit from supporting each other through individual seasons of growth? On this episode of Destined to Be, we're exploring the second C of a strong rel...

A strong relationship requires communication, compromise and commitment. But what does that look like in practice? On this episode of Destined to Be, we're exploring the first C of a strong relationship, communication. We discuss the power in knowing your partner's love language and showing them love in that way, challenging you to identify what you are feeling and clearly communicate what you nee...

Why do so few of us follow through on what we say we're going to do? What's getting in our way? Are you worried that no one will want what you have to offer? Or that you're not 100% ready to move forward? What's behind this failure to launch? On this episode of Destined to Be, we're inspiring you to take action on your dreams, explaining how imposter syndrome keeps so many of us spinning our wheel...

A lot of ambitious entrepreneurs are all about the hustle. But the truth is, that kind of grind is not sustainable for the long term. So, what can we do to manage stress before it becomes an issue? How do we build a wildly successful business but avoid burnout? Courtney Peacock is the Founder and CEO of Pinecone , a coaching practice designed to help entrepreneurs ditch overwhelm and create a busi...

Want to give your partner something truly meaningful this Valentine's Day? How about the gift of growing together as a couple? On this episode of Destined to Be, we share what inspired us to build our upcoming virtual event for couples, explaining why it's crucial to make time to reconnect and put your relationship first. We describe what you will learn about our communication process, discussing...

Think you have to be rich to invest in real estate? Think again. No matter how much money you have (or don't have), there is an investing strategy for you. And owning tangible assets like real estate is the BEST way to build true wealth for yourself, your family and future generations. Brandon Thompson is the Real Estate Investor and Coach behind REI Society , the education platform and podcast th...

Have you given up on meditation because you just can't shut your brain off? What if meditation is NOT about turning off your thoughts but letting them pass without judgement? On this episode of Destined to Be, we explain how meditation helps us cultivate the emotions associated with achieving our goals and attract the things we want in life. We discuss why it's so challenging to sit without yourse...

One of the few things we're guaranteed in this world is change. But it's up to us how we respond. And while we can't predict how things might unfold in 2021, there are things we DO have control over. Things that have helped us level up and take action to create a life we love. On this episode of Destined to Be, we share the things we know for sure in 2021, beginning with our hunger to keep growing...