Desire on Fire

From good girl to free woman, from pastor to getting paid to take her clothes off - on today's episode, I have a deep conversation with life coach Nikole Mitchell about her incredible awakening journey. We discuss her path from her early conservative upbringing, to finding sexual freedom and liberation through the realization that sexuality and spirituality go hand in hand and embracing the sacred...

Why do we keep it a secret when pleasure is so fucking beautiful? Following your pleasure and allowing others to witness it can be so healing. Over the weekend, I attended a Play Party with my best friend and roommate Kelley and on today's episode, we dive into the sacred and loving experience of attending a Temple Night. Join us as we talk through our shared journey with the intimate practices an...

Dealing with resistance to being in your own body? Maybe your body just doesn't feel like a safe place to be? On today's show I invite Nitika Chopra, chronic illness advocate and creator of Chronicon, to talk about her personal journey to healing and the passion she has for her mission to inspire self-love and help others learn to thrive with chronic illness.   We get deep into: Nitika's journey t...

Your pleasure benefits the pleasure of ALL. The journey to pleasure looks different for everyone and on today's show I talk to The Pussy Priestess™ Josefina Bashout about her path to pleasure and how she holds space for women to become strong, confident and sexually liberated. We get deep into the alternative path to healing she found through Eastern holistic medicine and finding our power and ple...

What happens when we combine pursuing pleasure with our true purpose? Everything. Every juicy, little thing you desire can happen for you. On today's episode, I have a powerful conversation with happiness and purpose expert Carin Rockind about her passion for helping women find their purpose so they can lead empowered lives and how trusting your truest desires can benefit you and everyone in your...

How do we erase the stigma around sex workers, around our own desires and the way we interact with the world? On today's show, I dive into a juicy conversation with Jimmy Clabots about his journey as a creative and escort and what came from following his intuition and healing his core wounds to get sober and allow his true self to be shown to the world.  We get deep into: Jimmy's journey from musi...

Sometimes the journey to discovery can be long, but the more we surround ourselves with the light, the faster the process. On today's episode, I dive in with yoga and meditation teacher Shayna Hiller about her own journey to self discovery and her passion for reminding people of their inherent capacity to bring their deepest desires to life. We get into how we can honor and own who we truly are as...

Do you have the relationship you truly desire? On today's show, I invite relationship and intimacy expert Alexandra Stockwell to talk about building stable, long lasting and sexy relationships through the uncompromising commitment to show up fully free and authentic in your life and partnership. Join us as we dive into all the juicy pleasure that you can find in your committed relationship and how...

When we allow our desire to take the lead, beautiful things can happen! On today's show I talk with the amazing LA based coach Cailin McDuff about finding the permission to explore her sexuality and feeding the hunger she felt to connect more and push her sexual edges. Dive in with us as we talk through surrendering to the masculine and what it can look like when you strip down the layers of shame...

Do you have a desire to unleash something within that feels untapped? Our identity and ways of being can be very tied to our early conditioning and today I talk with my new friend Abigail Gazda about tapping into our truest identity. We dive into her journey as a clarity coach and unraveling our authentic selves by releasing our conditioning with patience and surrender so we can have all the thing...

What does it look like or feel like when we are unfulfilled? It can be easy to fall into the trap of our conditioning and end up in a place where we may feel stuck or dissatisfied. On today's show I talk with my best friend, amazing coach, and new mama Victoria Carmel. We dive into the choice to live intentionally and purposefully in our relationships with ourselves and others and how to release l...

Finding the permission to express, explore, and expand our pleasure and the sensation in our bodies is such a powerful discovery. My guest today, Demetra Nyx, is a beautifully connected writer and coach who shows women how to be shameless and fully expressed so they can realize the full range of what's possible in their lives. Join us as we dive into exploring our own liberation and learning to fu...

Learning how to identify our feelings and unhealthy patterns can be very confronting and push many edges, but it can lead to more connection and a deeper truth (and that is so worth it!) On today's episode, I invite my friend Molly Godfrey to come talk about her profound journey to sobriety, her sexual awakening, and finding herself through deep healing. We dive into the importance of doing the vu...

We are told a lot of stories about our own sexuality. And no matter what you've been told or how that is manifesting in your sex today, it is possible for you to live a fulfilled and orgasmic life! Today I talk with sensuality coach and one of my best friends, Carli Jo. She is the founder of Queen of Pleasure, a 12 week coaching program to help empower women and couples to tap into their true, ero...

Freedom in communication, in relationships, in life - we are conditioned to reject this idea. One partner, for the rest of our lives - that is the only option, right? On today's episode I welcome Lydia Billings, photographer, teacher, and director of programs for 100cameras. We get deep into how freedom translates into her love life, where her curiosity about polyamory led her, and the true power...

All of us have the potential to live fully in our pleasure and to find the joy and peace of living in our integrity and deeply connecting with the world around us. Today I welcome speaker, author, and yoga culture advocate Susanna Barkataki to share her passion for unity and transcending our own limitations through the honored practice of yoga. Join us as we discuss the value of preserving traditi...

6 years ago I asked Geena a question, "Do you want an ordinary life or an extraordinary life?" On today's episode, I talk with Geena about the personal development journey that sparked from that question and the passion this social justice queen has for ALL people. We dive into Geena's experience as a queer womxn and how gender constructs, sexual identity and conditioning, and self-acceptance have...

The disconnection from our truest selves is often disregarded in our society. The impact this can have on our relationship to our bodies, to ourselves, and to our sexuality can be life-altering. On today's episode I invite Paola Ucelo, yogi and breath and movement teacher, to get deep into her journey of self-discovery and finally giving herself the permission to follow her pleasure. Join us as we...

On today's episode I'm sharing my journey of when I sat in ceremony, for the first time, with the plant medicine, Ayahuasca. This ritual, when done with intention and gratitude can be SO life-changing and was an immensely profound and deeply healing experience for me. It highlighted a lot about my relationships and guided me to some strong realizations about the importance of feeling chosen, conne...

Let's drop into desire today as I share space with my new Bali beau, Jan! We get deep into all the juicy details about our new relationship, how he has been crowned "boundary daddy" by my friends, and how our differing desires in the bedroom play out in our sex life. Join us as we discuss how we stay in a place of honesty, growth, and pleasure with each other and how we give to each other without...

Can we show up even if it's a little bit messy? Have conversations about race, ask ourselves if we are truly enlightened, leave space for necessary growth? In today's episode, I welcome the inspirational self-love coach and yoga teacher Sabi Kerr as we learn about her journey, of following her curiosities and using her voice in a new way. We talk about the declaration of self-worth by accepting wh...

On today's show, I invite you to drop into some romance as I speak with new friends Jaymin and Eri. This beautiful couple walks us through their journey as speakers, coaches, and authors and their passion to help people create more authentic and connected lives. We go deep into their conscious partnership and the quality of connection that they have committed to with each other. Join us as we talk...

On today's episode, I go deep with the inspiring Haifa Beseisso, travel vlogger and ambassador for change. Haifa travels the world, creating meaningful content to help bridge the gaps of cultural understanding. She brings such an authentic, beautiful heart to the topic of diversity and challenging the norms that we live inside of today. Come join us as we talk through celebrating our wins, transfo...

After an attempt at suicide at the early age of 25, Naomi Cambridge took a journey to self-actualization. With some initial resistance, she went on to surrender to her calling and has been coaching men and women to create successful, healthy relationships ever since. On today's show, we talk through her journey with intimacy coaching, surrendering to the greater things holding us, and the knowing...

On today's episode, I speak with two powerful voices in the sexual healing space, Lidia Bonilla and Devi Maisha. We get into big topics like trauma healing, anti-racism, the transformation that comes from chaos, and their personal experiences as black women in this industry and in this country. We dive into: Finding opportunity for growth amidst chaos and discomfort. Shadow Work and how especially...