Desire on Fire

Were there dysfunctional dynamics in your upbringing? Maybe you experimented in nightclub life, drinking and drugs, or felt stuck in unhealthy relationship dynamics? If so - then tune in for this week's episode! Emily DeBouver comes on the show to share her powerful story of transformation. We discuss her journey from her gogo dancing club days to the magical healing she found when she said fuck y...

You are in for a treat this week as I invite another powerful couple on the show! In today's episode, I speak to women's rightness expert, Ana Del Castillo, and connection and intimacy coach for couples, Ken Blackman. They share their wisdom on how to show up powerfully in your relationships, how women's empowerment intersects with intimate coupledom, and the transformative experience of sharing y...

Imagine if you had all the answers to life's big questions - inside of you. In today's episode, I invite my dear friend Vicky Aldana, coach and guide, to talk all about the special journey that we've shared together and her path to healing. We discuss our first meeting and the profound practice of orgasmic meditation, how our friendship changed forms over the years, and the many gateways and porta...

Having challenges in the bedroom? If you and your partner are struggling with sex - you are not alone! In today's episode, we are diving in with sensuality coach Carli Jo and her husband Jose Cabrera, to talk all about their sexual partnership. They get vulnerable about the challenges they have faced in the bedroom, honoring each other's process for healing, and finding their true path to pleasure...

When you think about dropping into healing work, transforming your life, embracing your feminine - is there some resistance there? In today's episode, I invite my beautiful friend of 15 years, Ilana Seewald, to share her journey from resistance to finding true healing and powerful growth. We get into some juicy stories from our younger years, the transformation that can come from saying the deeper...

I have had many adventures and magical moments with today's guest, Kendall Wallace, and in this week's episode, we share some juicy, heartwarming (and hilarious!) stories from our years of friendship. We discuss Kendall's passion for adventure and the founding of her travel adventure company, how our relationship to pleasure has evolved our lives and sex, and the impact that sisterhood can have on...

Ready for the reckoning? In today's episode, I invite Monica Jayne - certified erotic blueprint™, accelerated evolution, and queer competency coach - to talk about her work helping others reckon with everything they are taught so they can live in their authenticity. We dive into her upbringing as a Catholic in a Mormon area, the conditioning she had to release to live as her authentic self, and th...

Not sure where to start with a conscious sex conversation? Naming your desires, communicating boundaries, asking a lover to get tested - you are not alone if you feel some resistance or fear around talking about these things with a partner. In today's episode, I invite Kevin Hart - my dear friend, former lover, and sex and intimacy coach - to talk about conscious sexuality. We discuss the role it...

Do you feel empowered in the bedroom? Are you getting everything you desire with your partner or in sexual play with a new person? Altering that connection in the bedroom and understanding each other's bodies can be confronting, but there are tools to help! In today's episode, I dive into my TOP THREE practices to enhance the pleasure potential in the bedroom and get you the sex you truly desire. ...

What does it look like to run a business and grow in sisterhood with your best friend - all while prioritizing pleasure? Well, in today's episode, my business partner Ellie and I give you a peek behind the scenes of our partnership and intimacy work. We share our experiences as we've grown and transformed our business and the inner guidance that informs our programs and teachings. Join us as we ge...

What does living a desire-led life really look like in practice? In today's episode, I get real and vulnerable about relationships - how I move through them consciously, ALL the juicy details of my recent Bali lovership (I share some super intimate stories), and what it really looks like to stay grounded while exploring intimacy and desire. I get deep into: The conditioning we have around monogamy...

You can be single - and happy. You can be married - and happy. But if you are still wondering why you haven't found the right person or why neither of these identities has led to true happiness for you - then tune in for this week's episode! On today's show, I talk to corporate lawyer turned self-love expert, Fabi Dorea, about her journey to healing, leaving a relationship that wasn't serving her,...

What if you could have the best orgasm of your life from one simple touch? What if I told you this is not only possible for you, but that you already have everything you need to get there - you just have to tap into it? In today's episode, I invite my dear friend and connection expert, Stephanie Dickinson, to talk about how she embodies authentic relating and spiritual practices in her life to exp...

How would it feel to be multi-orgasmic? To feel connected to every part of your body? Truth is - YOU are orgasmic. You get to be free in your body - you just have to follow the call! In today's episode, I talk to my Bali roommate and Divine Sensual Awakening Coach, Yani Kramer, about her journey to divine sensual awakening and her work in helping others step into their more connected and orgasmic...

Have you ever had trouble relating to the women in your life? Or maybe you've always had a lot of female friends, but something tells you those relationships could go deeper? In today's episode, I talk ALL things sisterhood - communication dynamics, acknowledging and healing sisterhood wounds, and some advanced practices to help you go deeper with the women in your life. We get deep into: Some of...

Your body has the answers, the wisdom is within you. In today's episode, I invite doula coach and educator Ivy Joeva to share her experiences and wisdom about the journey to parenthood and her passion as a guide for fertility, vitality, and empowered births. We dive into topics of how to baby-proof your relationship, dealing with changes in libido during and after pregnancy (for both the women and...

We have a special episode for you this week! Tune in for a double dose of pleasure as I am joined by "The Best You've Ever Had" podcast host, Kelley Bode - my Bali roommate, best friend, and fellow intimacy coach. We share all the juicy details of how we integrate our pleasure practices into our daily lives and how you can live a more turned-on and desire-filled life by adopting daily practices of...

We can hold a lot of trauma and conditioning around the concept of masculinity. But what would be possible if we released those limiting beliefs and instead began to do the work of healing our relationship to the masculine? In today's episode, I talk with coach and expert in radical courage, Tanja Diamond, and co-founder of Rising Kings Movement, Robert Schwenkler. We discuss their shared passion...

Are you a spiritual seeker? Do you have a desire to find the key to true health and happiness? In today's show, I talk with the incredible Jerome Braggs, gifted and intuitive channel and self-love teacher, about his journey from being given 48 hours to live to ultimately finding true healing. We dive deep into all things self-love - what it really takes to love ourselves, why it's the greatest med...

On today's show, I invite the hosts of Clit Talk - Lindsey, Katie, and Sugar - to talk about their pleasure positive work. We dive into all things pleasure - slowing down to drop into our desire, finding time for a self-pleasure practice, and curating a pleasure positive lifestyle by dropping the walls and conditioning we have around our sex, our CLITS (this is not a bad word!), and our own erotic...

We all have the privilege of choosing where we put our attention - it can drastically transform our lives! In today's episode, I have a powerful and awakening conversation with Orgasmic Meditation and relationship coach Shareeah Woods about where she chooses to direct her attention and energy in her life. We get deep into the constructs of race and its effect on the individual and the collective,...

Today is a very special day on the podcast - I invite my mother, Shellie Batuski, to share her powerful and unique transformational story! As a student of communication and personal development since the 1980s, Shellie shares how that journey to inner work and healing led to manifesting her truest desires and creating a happy, empowered, and fulfilling life.  We get deep into: Shellie's upbringing...

The world is not focused on uplifting women, we have to do the work ourselves! In today's episode, I talk with champion for women and creator of Revelle, JoAnna Hartzmark about her mission to reshape the future of retail by putting women's needs at the forefront of the conversation. We discuss the inconsistency of women's clothing sizing, the attempt to ignore our complex bodies, and the power of...

Do you have a self-pleasure practice? Do you feel sexually fulfilled (without a partner)? In today's episode, I dive into this juicy topic by revealing how I incorporate a self-pleasure practice into my life, how it has evolved over time, and how you can release any resistance you have around it so you can start to explore the powerful healing, beauty, and magnetism of a self-pleasure practice in...

There are many ways addiction can show up in our lives and this can keep us trapped in an existence that isn't aligned with our truest self. But we can find deep transformation in the acknowledgment of our addictive patterns. On today's episode, I talk to coach and author Dean Powell about his powerful journey with addiction, finding a path to healing, and his passion to help others to not only br...