Desire Different Podcast

This one’s tender. After 67 episodes of pouring my heart into this podcast, sharing stories, teachings, and raw truths that have moved so many of you...I’m feeling a shift. Not a goodbye…but a sacred pause. In this short episode, I open up about why I’m stepping back from this space for now. Not from the mission, not from the work. But from this particular container, so I can go deeper behind the...

What if the deepest intimacy had nothing to do with sex? In this episode we explore the often overlooked power of non-sexual intimacy: the emotional, spiritual, physical, and energetic bonds that deepen connection without relying on erotic touch. From eye contact to emotional presence, we unpack how practices of creative intimacy, intellectual intimacy, & emotional intimacy can expand your cap...

Yes, I SAID IT!!! This is without a doubt the time WOMEN TAKE THE STAGE! For SO MANY reasons, we need our men to enter into our depths when it comes to intimacy , without it the mindset for men is quite similar to lacking ass, animalistic mating (sowwy fellas). The only way they can connect to our depths inside of sex is if we first, REMEMBER what that means, and then, show him. The way we show hi...

Are you "thrill fucking" or are you REALLY turned on? Let’s talk about the kind of sex that grabs you by the throat VS the kind that whispers you open, and then more open. Adrenaline sex thrives on thrill, drama, and the dopamine crash that follows. Dopamine sex? It’s the art of slow seduction, safety, and being fully seen. In this episode, we unpack the difference, how to spot your patterns, and...

(Content Warning: There is discussion of revisiting our first encounter with sex. If you are not comfortable with this, please skip this episode) And who else? Because manifesting a broken G-spot was a crazy set up! I was having sex out of routine, in hopes to not be cheated on. And on top of that offering no energy in sex-per my broken pleasure system. How many more of us have manifested broken G...

Most of us never got real sex education…just fear, shame, and silence. The whole "just don't get pregnant bit"! Well, I created a breakdown, a cheat sheet, if you will, for WOMEN EVERYWHERE! I grew exhausted with the ridiculous line about women not being orgasmic, with the concept that we weren't experiencing OUR PLEASURE inside of sex. I changed my orgasm story, you can too! It's simple a lack of...

Instead try SPIRIT LED!! Here's why... Having a sex practice as women, where we are being used as a tool is not going to sustain longterm happiness. Period. Having a sex practice that is theatrical and performative, is not going to create a feeling of connection, true desire or satisfaction. This does nothing for opening our portal. We desire an open portal during sex! Why?? As women, we have a se...

My pleasure/orgasm story changed completely when I told the world, "I DON'T BELIEVE YOU". I stopped being willing to accept lies like: "the g-spot is a myth" - A CNN Debate "it's difficult for women to reach orgasm from sexual intercourse" -Sex therapists all over The information was too wide spread and way too accepted as normal for me! I told them ALL, "I don't believe you" and I changed my plea...

As we close out this season, I want to give you something super important to ponder... Whose design of sex are you having?  How much are you paying attention to literally EVERYTHING? Especially what's inside you?  Are there still parts of your system that you haven't come to understand yet? And if you're dealing with this sort of disconnect.....whose doing is this? Is it some teaching you stumbled...

THIS IS HELLA IMPORTANT!!! The less feeling or reason he attaches to sex, the less boundaries he will have when it comes to choosing to have sex. This makes temptation run higher and sometimes means anything might go, and we don't want that. And we have an obligation to “show up” in sex too, we’re not off the hook just because men are “horny”, we can bring a lot to this experience. What has your r...

What do the feminine women do for VALENTINES DAY? We find out what sex means to our man…we find out what motivates our guy to want to slide inside of us! We are gaining CLARITY and UNDERSTANDING in order to connect more deeply and learn what else we can bring to the table aka bed!  And we will teach him, through our new energetic sex practice, how to have even more reason to connect with us in sex...

If we can beautifully use our imagination to visualize and fantasize, creating our desire for our ideal husband and our ideal wedding day……why are we not using our imagination to visualize, fantasize and create a BETTER SEX PRACTICE?! In this episode I give free tips on how I manifested, via imagination, a more thirst quenching ORGASMIC sex practice….and I offer you a writing prompt on how to do t...

Why are we still walking around in bodies we don't understand? How does this add to us showing up strong for ourselves, our lovers and our mission? How can you adore and properly pour into a project of your very own, if a HUGE part of it is "greyed out" and you haven't given yourself full access to it? In this episode I explore the concept of our lack of sex education being a hinderance to our liv...

What does "horny" mean to you? Do you feel like you have a connection to understanding what it is that makes you "horny"? Could your understanding of this be limiting your sex practice? I wonder more and more, if being "horny" is an animal instinct...I also know that we must look deeper, when we seek to engage in intimacy and sex, in order to reach the depths of our souls desire.........let's chat...

MY FRIENDS!!! In 2025......Indulge in SELF CARE (sex care) on a SEXY, NECESSARY level.... In 2025...Theres more than just FOUR BASES, please!! In 2025, we need less: -starting sex dry -foreplay without arousal -empty foreplay -erections that only include the penis -feminine arousal that includes unintentional lubrication -erectile issues & mishaps And "fucking" MORE..... -willingness for sex educa...

Why is it that "DEAD BEDROOM" seems to be at an all time high? And how learning to be properly orgasmic as a woman can put a stop to all this "dead bedroom" nonsense. Gate keeping sex happens, respectfully, when your sex isn't sexing Lol lets make the sex and the orgasms both SEX! How connecting in sex and intimacy can be healing and how that places us in a beautiful space that exceeds "make-up se...

Are we taking accountability or just licking wounds?! Okay, okay, okay…I used to be ferocious, a little bit this decade but alotta bit in my 20s. So I understand the transition of this “accountability” thing. I understand the fuel, the boil, the premeditation, the flames, the coal, the cleanup…you name it! I also understand how much “attack mode” hurts and how sexy and effective “non-attack mode”...

A wee bit nineteen year old sweetie pie asked me, "Miss Nikki, how do I connect to my Energetic signature, what even is it?" So, here's the rundown! Because this is the root of our conscious level, confidence. Anybody in the mood for some Wilderness Therapy in December?! :) Get in here!!! If this leaves you wanting more, work with me one on one - link below. oh.......ummmmmm....super cute PS & FYI...

No, this isn't an audio clip of me having sex..............although that would kinda be fire! LOL This is an exclusive scoop, 411, rundown, on what the essence, vibe, and collaborative design is striving to be when you connect in deep intimacy. And some information on why there are 'Rules of Engagement' when it comes to women that practice sacred sex/orgasmic sex. It seems that men don't understan...

And, just like that, we're back!!! And instead of me, society and us, always talking about and checking in with the women...it is time to check in with the men! We don't fail to get the scoop on whether or not women are enjoying sex. It's time that we consider if men are enjoying sex! Are men still having the same experience from sex they were having 10 years ago? What are some of the makings of a...

It's "giving" curious food for thought.....while I go away for my hiatus for the end of this segment at Desire Different. Get caught up! And Desire Different is now recruiting team members! Not sure if you should binge listen to Desire Different Podcast? This short episode will give you the nudge you need and some new encouragement to keep expanding your sexual energy and your ability to "know thy...

Let's drop this GENDER WAR CRAP!!! And use this list!!! We’ve graduated when it comes to getting to know women, so ask her these questions!! Fellas, get some clarity when you are getting close to a new woman, or when you are wanting to get closer to a current woman. Ask MORE questions! Ask the questions that will help you LOGICALLY feel the vibe! Do a proper vibe check my friends :) I have a list...

Allow the Sacred Sex Educator to explain, come hither! And no, this isn't about threesomes LOL Are you ready to level your sex up from "just intercourse"? Are you ready to level your sex up from only being "primitive"? It's going to require flipping the switch and turning off what you think you understand about the potential surrounding sex and pleasure. Want more??! Book a session for Leveling Up...

When we go in and connect with and attempt to heal our inner child, that inner child tends to be the version of us our parents controlled....hence the reason we need to re-parent, heal, etc. That was a version of us that was not quite "conscious yet", we were not very inclined to "self thinking". Why not go in and heal the FIRST VERSION of us that tried life??!! The teenage us, the one that was co...

This newly in, per BlueCentric on Instagram on The Mamas Den Podcast (I need to connect with them!), we should be operating from a SPACE OF WETNESS!!!! LOVE THIS!!! Ladies, its safe to stop pretending you have to be like the men. Your core isn't masculine, if it was you would have more testosterone, and you would have a D***! Don't force yourself to operate below a neutral consciousness in this ar...