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#relationshipadvice #detachment #thewizardliz   TheWizardLiz claims to live a life of detachment -  Where she puts up boundaries between herself and anyone else - Especially relationships so that she does not get hurt. Is this the best way to approach a relationship?

It's easy to blame others and not take personal accountability.  Relationships that do not prioritize values 3 and 4 are destined to fail.   3. No Introspection A lack of desire for self improvement is usually associated with closed-mindedness. Be open to new ideas - and this starts with not jumping to conclusions. Jumping to conclusions is all too familiar in today's society, especially...

0:00 Is being detached the way to go?  0:35 thewizardliz  1:31 Be aware of Pros and Cons  3:10 I am Detached  4:10 Reaction  5:00 Are You Avoiding Rejection?  6:15 Attach in Stages  6:46 Relationship as Business Transaction  7:30 Defense Mechanism  8:52 Not Benefiting Me, I Leave  13:10 Flaking on a Date  16:09 Take it With a Grain of Salt&nbs...

5 Values / Traits That Set A Relationship Up For Failure  1. You value sensitivity, rather than tolerance  2. You judge others, assume the worst in others, demand apologies  3. You have no desire for self improvement or introspection  4. You have unrealistic expectations  5. You choose to escalate even on little things that don't actually matter. 0:00 5 Values Ruining Your...

15-year Couple who helps advise other couples points out 5 common values that mess up a relationship. Many of these values overlap with the values of cancel culture - holding the other side accountable at all costs, without a desire for self introspection.   1. You value sensitivity, rather than tolerance  2. You judge others, assume the worst in others, demand apologies  3. Yo...

Join us as we explore the values that drive our big decisions in life - career, relationships, and life choices. What happens when these values clash with other people's values? Do we cancel the other side or do we try to understand one another?