Design Your Life

In a relationship, you may expect more from your partner. And when your partner doesn't deliver it can build #resentment.  It is your job in selecting this partner to assess whether there is a strong enough foundation there for the things you care about. If ambition is one thing you care about, you should recognize that pushig your partner too much outside their comfort zone may not yield goo...

#modernwomen #narcissim #selfish #compliments #feminism   Modern woman receive exponentially more compliments in today's society than they did 50 years ago because of globalization and visibility. This is driven the ego and made many modern women selfish.

Kelsea Ballerini has revealed she is going through a divorce from husband and fellow country artist Morgan Evans.  She cites in a podcast the reason is because the glitter disappeared in her marriage and it didn't come back.  This was her way of "following her heart" - something shes sings about her award-winning songs.  But is this really following your heart? Or is this a symbol o...

#controlemotions #listening #triggering #andrewtate #masculinity #feminity  Many listeners will get triggered by the tone and delivery of generally positive or truthful messages from Andrew Tate. This delivery is done purposely to game the algorithms and get more views. The onus is on us as listeners to properly control our emotions and distinguish what he's actually saying from how we might...

#lifechoices #wisdom #icecream #dating #men #women #relationships  Extravagant experiences and lifestyles can lead you to a decadent downward spiral. Everybody loves these luxuries - but keep yourself in check and moderate. Too much ice cream will rot your teeth.

A TikToker was asked by her father-in-law to clean the house. She felt disrespected and proceeded to go to TikTok to complain. After expressing her discontent, she did not clean the house. Instead, the father-in-law and husband cleaned the house. But what also happened was she got a divorce. What exactly happened here and what could she have done differently to better handle the situation - other...

#chasinglove #loveandwar #valuesinlife #lifechoices #competition #loveoptions #relationshipadvice    Many Women are going after same High Valued Man that are not wanting to commit but there are plenty of men that are ready and open to commit but the women are not giving them any attention.

#belief #changeyourlife #relationshipadvice #lifechoices #frameofmind #valuesinlife    Many ladies believe that changing a guy leads to a better relationship.  Instead it leads to distrust, resentment, and hostility thus being detrimental to the foundation of a solid relationship.

#tatespeech #andrewtate #relationshipadvice #lifechoices #valuesinlife #jealousy #insecurity    Ladies are worried that their BF would be too heavily influenced by Andrew Tate and not be trusting in them to be able to make decisions on their own.  Don't be overly controlling and let the emotions get the best of you.

#selection #selectionprocess #relationshipadvice #lifechoices #valuesinlife #accountability    Don't share your life experience with just anybody.  Be selective and mindful so that when the right guy/gal comes along you can connect and build a beautiful experience as a couple.

#beentheredonethat #bored #lifechoices #valuesinlife #accountability #relationshipadvice     Shared experiences are important for the foundation of a relationship.  If one person has experienced a lot of things in life it reduces the pool of experiences for the other person to be able to connect with you.  Be selective with whom you share important life experiences with.

#netflixandchill #relationshipadvice #valuesinlife #accountability #choicesmatter #choosewisely    Watching movies is a foundation on building connection and shared experiences with your partner.  If you choose to watch everything by yourself you lose out on those nuggets of adventure as a couple.

Messi #lifechoices #awkward #metoo #cancelculture #supermodel Soccer sensation Messi is pictured here with a supermodel cowering to avoid being me tooed and cancelled by the public. No woman or rumors is worth the risk of loosing his career over.

#acceptance #flaws #relationshipadvice #accountability #valuesinlife #improvement #selfdevelopment    If you truly love someone, will you accept them for their flaws? Or constantly nag them to get rid of them? Striking a balance between improvement and acceptance is tricky. Are you willing to put in the work and have the patience that the relationship needs.

#secondchances #relationshipadvice #lifechoices #valuesinlife #decisions #mistakes #error    Mistakes help make you discover who you are and strengthen relationship with yourself and other's over time.  Passing judgement and being very critical stunts your growth in life.

#failureispartofsuccess #relationshipadvice #lifechoices #judgingothers #accountability   When a relationship ends, do you think about what actually went wrong or do you just blame that the glitter wore away and move onto the next shiny object?

#relationshipadvice #lifechoices #glitter #alldone #valuesinlife  Today's modern women expect glitter in relationships. This may happen in the early part of a relationship, but once it wears away and true challenges of a couple lay ahead, then they run at the first sign of struggle.  Is this the way to go through a healthy relationship?

#glitter #relationshipadvice #countrylife #valuesinlife #chasinglove    When the glitter wears off what happens?  It takes both people to work at the relationship in order for the glitter to appear.  If you are lazy or place the blame on others when the situation is tough the glitter will never be there.

#stagnation #relationshipadvice #thewizardliz #lifechoices #valuesinlife    Ignoring or cutting people off when they don't benefit you sounds great but your actions can  impact society later on in a negative way.  We all want results right away but what are the trade offs?  Modern women view relationships as only serving their needs. Once those needs are no longer met, the...

#decoupling #lifechoices #valuesinlife #accountability #judgingothers    Is thinking only for yourself the right way of navigating a relationship?    In today's society, women have become so independent with exceedingly high expectations that no men can meet those expectations. They therefore become single women going their own way. And men are also not finding what they w...

#thewizardliz #soul #soulcontracts #valuesinlife #accountability    Are relationships meant to be like business transactions? You do your part. I do my part. Once our time is over, then we both leave. No hard feelings. All business.  Is this how you should approach personal relationships?

Kelsea Ballerini has revealed she is going through a divorce from husband and fellow country artist Morgan Evans.  She cites in a podcast the reason is because the glitter disappeared in her marriage and it didn't come back. This was her way of "following her heart" - something shes sings about her award-winning songs.  But is this really following your heart? Or is this a symbol of some...

#couplechallenges #glitter #relationship #relationshipadvice    The country singer says she tried couples counseling but it did not work out.  She waited till the end for the glitter but it just was not there so she up and left being so frustrated and angry at her partner.  There are indeed some instances when the result of couples counseling is that the two individuals are not...

#thewizardliz #detached #balanceinlife #lifechoices    How do you bounce back from a traumatic relationship?   Finding the key balance of not becoming overly detached otherwise you miss out on those special moments.

#chores #songs #valuesinlife #lifechoices    Humans of a pyschological bias - when they see celebrities act a certain way, they believe they actually are that way. Many teens look up to CardiB who says she doesn't cook and clean, but actually she definitely does cook and clean. But most people cannot make that distinction in their heads.