Decisions, Decisions

Punkie Johnson joins Mandii B and Weezy, and the missed signals are getting cleared up! Weezy reveals she tried to shoot her shot, Punkie explains the unwritten stud rules she grew up with in New Orleans, and the trio debates dating double standards, heaux phases and what actually counts as sex. Punkie also opens up about why Saturday Night Live wasn’t the right fit, the pressure of being a...

Mandii B and Weezy unpack one-sided friendships, question what a godparent actually owes your child, and call out the difference between someone letting you down and expecting a relationship they never agreed to. Plus, why some friends need a demotion instead of a dramatic goodbye. Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com   Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B...

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com   Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's epi...

Mandii B returns with another thought-provoking episode of Selective Ignorance , joined by A-King, Jason "Jah" Lee, and special guest Deante Kyle ( Grits & Eggs Podcast) for unfiltered conversations about politics, Black culture, social justice, and accountability. After recognizing Breast Cancer Awareness Month and encouraging women to schedule mammograms [00:00] , Mandii introduces the crew...

Mandii B and Weezy are joined by doula, author, and women’s health educator Erica Chidi for a conversation about knowing your body, asking for what you want, and refusing to audition for love. Erica opens up about her marriage to a man, exploring non-monogamy, and the breakup conversation that helped her embrace being gay. The three debate whether the right partner can change your relationsh...

Kara Leona joins Weezy to talk marriage, motherhood, OnlyFans, and making decisions the internet doesn’t approve of. Kara shares her side of the split with Guillermo, explains why their problems went deeper than adult content, and clarifies the conversation around her six-figure months. Plus, the double standard between Hollywood nudity and sex work, the comments that actually hurt, new musi...

Connie of First Date Diaries is back, and even Mandii and Weezy have questions about where the freak flag stops flying. The trio gets into sleeping with friends, working as a sex-party guardian, and the wild encounters that put everyone’s boundaries to the test. Plus, degradation that feels a little too personal, London versus New York nightlife, and why Hollywood keeps getting kink wrong. B...

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com   Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's epi...

In this episode of Selective Ignorance , Mandii B opens with an important Breast Cancer Awareness Month screening information [ 00:47 ] before previewing the week’s topics [ 01:12 ] and joining A-King and Jason “Jah” Lee for some back-in-New-York banter [ 02:49 ] . The crew recaps CultureCon with the Spill app [ 05:07 ] , praising its sexual-health advocacy while critiquing event...

Mandii B and Weezy are joined by Eddin for a wild conversation about dating, intimacy, non-monogamy, and what happens when friendship and parenthood start to overlap. From debating whether two friends can have a baby together without catching feelings, to navigating jealousy, emotional intimacy, and the unspoken rules of open relationships, the crew gets into just how complicated modern relationsh...

Would you take your ex back to split the bills? Mandii B and Weezy help a listener choosing between her child’s father and a new man who wants a vegan, off-the-grid lifestyle. From confusing good co-parenting with romantic compatibility to sacrificing your happiness for financial stability, the ladies unpack when choosing yourself means choosing neither. Send us your questions Decisionspod@g...

Mandii B and Weezy welcome Olivia and Kelly to talk about their 19-year age gap, the eight-hour drive that started their love story, and finding a connection neither of them expected. From coming out later in life and navigating intimacy to handling strangers who mistake them for mother and daughter, the couple shares what their relationship looks like beyond the comments. The conversation also ge...

In this episode of Selective Ignorance , Mandii B joined by A-King, Jason “Jah” Lee, and guest artist Akeem Ali , who previews his upcoming fall tour [ 00:44 ][ 02:53 ] . After debating the workweek and distractions [ 06:32 ] and reacting to major cocaine seizures at U.S. ports [ 09:38 ] , the crew questions why “partner” has become a popular label for significant others [...

Carter the Body joins Mandii B and Weezy for a conversation about catching feelings, setting boundaries, and why nobody wants to be somebody’s experiment. The All the Queen’s Men actress shares how she built an international exotic dancing career without taking it all off, explains why masculinity doesn’t erase her womanhood, and challenges the idea that bad men make women gay. P...

On this episode of You Got Decisions, a 24-year-old listener loves his girlfriend but is bored, tempted to cheat, and still living with her parents. Mandii B and Weezy unpack whether his seven-year relationship needs a reset or an exit, debating open relationships, mismatched goals, and whether marriage and baby plans should come before financial stability.  Send us your questions Decisionspo...

Mandii B and Weezy are joined by relationship expert Dr. Stacii Jae Johnson for a candid conversation about the patterns we inherit and the ones we need to break. Dr. Stacii opens up about her childhood and the experiences that shaped her work, while the ladies unpack emotional abuse, taking accountability, friends getting too involved, and why flowers after cheating don’t equal changed beha...

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com   Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's epi...

In this episode of Selective Ignorance , Mandii B, A-King, and Jason “Jah” Lee tackle food safety, religion, manifestation, surveillance, privacy, and politics . After previewing the episode [ 00:38 ] , the crew debates a mango recall and food safety scares [ 03:50 ] , questioning whether deregulation and Project 2025 could contribute to broader disruption [ 08:00 ] . After jokes about...

Mandii B and Weezy sit down with acclaimed writer and cultural critic Jamilah Lemieux to discuss her book Black Single Mother and unpack the stigma surrounding single motherhood, dating, co-parenting and blended families. Jamilah recalls discovering that her ex was engaged shortly after she gave birth, developing a healthy relationship with her daughter’s stepmother and why every woman who w...

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com   Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's epi...

Maino joins Mandii B and Weezy to discuss his dating philosophy, why he no longer promises women traditional commitment, and whether actions should matter more than relationship titles. He opens up about sleeping with a pregnant woman, keeping intimate videos, dating ambitious women, navigating non-monogamy, the places New Yorkers should never go while cheating, and his upcoming relationship show,...

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com   Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's epi...

In this episode of Selective Ignorance , Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King and headline king Jason “Jah” Lee for a wide-ranging conversation spanning Atlanta culture, policing, politics, infrastructure, race, hip-hop, gender identity, and the WNBA . After previewing the episode’s biggest stories [ 00:38 ] , the crew catches up on their weekends [ 02:43 ] before debating...

In this solo episode, Mandii B and Weezy revisit the conversation surrounding marriage, prenups and protecting assets before discussing gift-giving, women paying for their partners and how couples divide travel expenses. The ladies also talk about living together, compromising between New York City and the Catskills, former hookups resurfacing and spinning the block after months apart. Later, they...

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com   Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's epi...