Deciding to Love

Summary In this insightful interview, Dr. David Banks shares profound principles for building long-term, vibrant romantic relationships. Covering topics from identity and purpose to communication and intentionality, this conversation offers practical wisdom rooted in psychology, faith, and personal experience. Key Talking Points: The importance of individual wholeness before entering a relationshi...

Summary In this conversation, Nathan Holritz interviews Judy Herman, a licensed therapist, about her journey into therapy, the simplicity of love, and the complexities of relationships. They discuss the importance of awareness, responsibility, and authenticity in romantic partnerships, emphasizing that while relationships can be simple, they often require effort and understanding to navigate chall...

Summary In this interview, Nathan Holritz speaks with Steve and Shannon about their long-term relationship, exploring themes of romance, curiosity, and personal growth. They discuss the importance of maintaining curiosity in relationships, the challenges Shannon and Steve faced in their relationship, and how they navigated through difficult times. The couple shares insights on the significance of...

Summary Host Nathan Holritz reconnects with Paul and Sarah, a couple together for 20 years, to explore the foundations of their lasting relationship. They reflect on how they met, the role of spiritual connection, and the lessons they’ve carried forward from past experiences. The conversation centers on emotional intelligence, communication, and personal responsibility—highlighting the importance...

Summary In this conversation, Nathan Holritz engages with Field and Karie, exploring the depths of love, respect, and communication in relationships. They discuss the importance of love and respect, the impact of honesty on trust, and the necessity of navigating uncomfortable discussions. Field and Karie share their personal experiences and insights on how to maintain a loving and respectful relat...

Summary In this episode, Nathan Holritz hosts Mark and Sarah, a couple with over 30 years of relationship experience. They share their backstory, discussing how they met and the initial attraction that sparked their long-lasting relationship. The conversation delves into the importance of faith, communication, and intentionality in maintaining a healthy relationship. They emphasize the significanc...

Summary In this conversation, Nathan Holritz engages with Joe and Denise to explore the complexities of romantic relationships, emphasizing themes of unconditional acceptance, personal responsibility, and the importance of open communication. They discuss the societal pressures to present an ideal self, the significance of freedom within relationships, and the need for individual growth. The dialo...

Summary In this conversation, Nathan Holritz speaks with Jim and Laura about their 27-year relationship, exploring themes of commitment, emotional readiness, attraction, leadership, and the importance of respect and trust in marriage. They discuss their backstory, the challenges of navigating commitment, and the significance of personal responsibility and growth in maintaining a healthy relationsh...

Show Notes Cooperation vs competition, being more considerate of your partner's perspective, and intentionally addressing anything that is creating a divide in your relationship - big topics on today's episode highlighting Kim and Chris! Resources : I Said This, You Heard That, by Kathleen Edelman Website Book YouTube

Summary In this episode of Deciding to Love, Nathan Holritz discusses the critical role of honesty in building long-term romantic relationships. He explores the necessity of self-honesty for personal growth and the importance of being honest with partners to foster trust and intimacy. The conversation delves into the nature of dishonesty, often stemming from fear, and emphasizes the need for open...

Summary In this heartfelt conversation, Nathan Holritz interviews his Grandfather, who shares his remarkable love story with his late wife, Grandma. The discussion covers their initial meeting, the challenges they faced, and the deep love that sustained their 66-year marriage. Key themes include the importance of communication, empathy, and the commitment to continually choose love in a relationsh...

Summary In this episode of Deciding to Love, Nathan Holritz introduces the podcast's themes of commitment and personal responsibility in romantic relationships. He emphasizes the importance of deciding to love, even when faced with challenges, and shares his personal journey and motivations for creating the show. Nathan discusses the significance of self-awareness and emotional health, particu...

Summary In this episode of Deciding to Love, host Nathan Holritz shares insights from an interview with his Grandfather about love, empathy, and commitment in long-term relationships. Through the lens of his Grandparents' 66-year marriage, he emphasizes the importance of empathy, the choice to love consistently, and practical steps to nurture romantic relationships, especially as the new year...

Deciding to Love is a new podcast coming January 1, 2026! Long-term romantic relationships tend to fade with time. The relationship that used to bring excitement, adventure, and a deep sense of connection and fulfillment to your life now leaves you feeling annoyed and frustrated. Most couples accept a relationship that feels like half of what it used to be, learning to put up with their partner be...