death to self.

Welcome to DTS Season 6! 🤍 If you’re in a season where nothing makes sense and you’re wondering what God is doing, this episode is for you. Today we’re reading journal entries that remind us how easy it is to miss God’s hand in the moment—but how clear His faithfulness becomes when we look back🥹 I hope this encourages you to keep trusting Him, because even when you can’t see it, God is still wor...

I MISSED YOU SOOO MUCH!! happy 2026 I guess😭 Here’s a little life update on how 2026 has been treating me so far🫠 I hope the year has been good to you and we will be back sooner than you think by God’s grace 🩷 ✨death to self Substack✨ https://open.substack.com/pub/deathtoselfsub ✨Watch the Podcast on YouTube✨ www.youtube.com/@deathtoselfpodcastbyPearl ✨Follow the podcast on TikTok✨ https:...

In one of the first episodes, I opened up about struggling with loneliness and idolizing relationships. Now, in this catch-up episode, I reflect on whether being in a relationship really cures loneliness, explore what truly causes us to feel lonely, and share practical ways to overcome it. ✨Watch the Podcast on YouTube✨ www.youtube.com/@deathtoselfpodcastbyPearl ✨Follow the podcast on TikTok✨...

In this episode, we dive into one of the biggest questions that separates Christianity from Islam — is Jesus truly God, or was He just a prophet? We’ll unpack what the Bible says about the divinity of Jesus, break down the concept of the Trinity, and explore why Christians believe that Jesus is in fact God. We’ll also take an unbiased look at both perspectives, examining the reliability of the Qur...

I turn 23 today and in honour of God blessing me with another year, here are 23 lessons I learnt by 23 ✨Watch the Podcast on YouTube✨ www.youtube.com/@deathtoselfpodcastbyPearl ✨Follow the podcast on TikTok✨ https://www.tiktok.com/@deathtoselfpodcast?_t=8rotqEVc0Nb&_r=1 ✨Follow the podcast on instagram ✨ https://www.instagram.com/deathtoselfpodcast?igsh=MWV1a243cGhxZTRlcw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr...

You know death to self is supposed to be a safe space, right? So let’s be honest — have you ever found yourself missing the world? Missing your old ways and wishing you had the “freedom” to do whatever you wanted like you did before Christ? Because I have. In this episode, we’re talking about the struggle of keeping up with your convictions when you low-key miss the world — why that happens and ho...

Today’s episode features two very special guests—my friends who recently got married. They open up about their journey from friendship to courting, engagement, and now marriage. We dive into the beauty and challenges of navigating marriage in your early 20s —from adjusting to new roles to overcoming struggles while building a Christ-centered foundation together. ✨Watch the Podcast on YouTube✨ ww...

Lately, it feels like the world is getting darker by the day. Christians are being persecuted, evil is getting louder, and sometimes it feels overwhelming. In this episode, I just wanted to sit down and talk about what’s really going on beneath the surface—the spiritual layer we often forget is there. This isn’t about fear, but about courage. About choosing to stand boldly for Christ, even when it...

In this episode, my friend and I dive into the glorification of self and how pride often creeps into our lives—especially through achievements and success. Pride may feel like confidence at first, but it’s the very thing that distances us from God. ✨Watch the Podcast on YouTube✨ www.youtube.com/@deathtoselfpodcastbyPearl ✨Follow the podcast on TikTok✨ https://www.tiktok.com/@deathtoselfpodcast...

Offense isn’t just a feeling—it’s a trap the enemy uses to keep us stuck, bitter, and far from God’s presence. In this episode, we’ll uncover how offense works, why it’s so dangerous, and how you can overcome it before it takes root in your heart. ✨Watch the Podcast on YouTube✨ www.youtube.com/@deathtoselfpodcastbyPearl ✨Follow the podcast on TikTok✨ https://www.tiktok.com/@deathtoselfpodcast?...

What does it truly mean to be a godly woman? In today’s world, femininity is defined in so many different ways — but what does the Word of God actually say? In this episode, we dive into biblical womanhood and uncover what it really looks like to live as a woman after God’s heart. ✨Watch the Podcast on YouTube✨ www.youtube.com/@deathtoselfpodcastbyPearl ✨Follow the podcast on TikTok✨ https://w...

in this episode, we take a real and faith-based look at christian dating — from the butterflies of a crush to navigating boundaries and keeping God at the center. here’s the breakdown: 01:29 – understanding the why 05:12 – love vs lust 06:42 – having a crush 11:46 – talking stages 19:38 – going on dates 21:26 – flirting 24:38 – relationship boundaries 27:56 – how far is too far 29:56 – how do the...

Do you have a relationship with God or are you just following religion? Let’s talk about it on today’s episode! ✨Watch the Podcast on YouTube✨ www.youtube.com/@deathtoselfpodcastbyPearl ✨Follow the podcast on TikTok✨ https://www.tiktok.com/@deathtoselfpodcast?_t=8rotqEVc0Nb&_r=1 ✨Follow the podcast on instagram ✨ https://www.instagram.com/deathtoselfpodcast?igsh=MWV1a243cGhxZTRlcw%3D%3D&utm_...

The enemy’s greatest attack isn’t always on your finances, career, or relationships — it’s your mind. In this episode, we expose how the enemy uses lies to keep you stuck: making you believe you’re unworthy, unforgivable, or unloved. Once he has your thoughts, you do the job for him. Let’s talk about taking back your mind and walking in the truth and freedom God has already given you. Podcast desc...

How long will you be a baby Christian? Hebrews 5:12-14 talks about believers still needing milk when they should be eating solid food. Many of us stay spiritually immature because we hold onto the world, ignore God’s voice, and keep pleasing our flesh over our spirit. Let’s talk about what it really means to grow in Christ and move from baby steps to deeper faith. Timelapse 0:00 – Introduction 4:5...

Hiiii DTS FAMMMM!!!!!! 🥹 Just a quick note – there’s a little editing glitch in the first 3 minutes 😭 I was editing on my PC for the first time and somehow missed it, so thank you for your grace! 🙏🏽✨ Still hope the episode blesses you. 💚 I’ve missed you so much! Today’s episode is a life update on how this year has been so far (spoiler alert: not so great 🥲). I also met my younger self for...

Life pulls us in many directions—chasing the bag, earning a degree, pursuing passions—but in the midst of it all, are you making time for God? In this episode, we dive into hustle culture and the importance of seeking God first, above all of life’s demands. The podcast episode I recommend watching-https://youtu.be/jpUIFv6qUJ4?si=qIHFdsb9MbLV9LuK ✨Watch the Podcast on YouTube✨ www.youtube.com/@de...

Fear…the one thing that stops us from living in our calling…the fear of what will people say, failure, the past repeating Itself, is it God who really told me that? Let’s talk all about it on today’s episode! ✨Watch the Podcast on YouTube✨ www.youtube.com/@deathtoselfpodcastbyPearl ✨Follow the podcast on TikTok✨ https://www.tiktok.com/@deathtoselfpodcast?_t=8rotqEVc0Nb&_r=1 ✨Follow the po...

Many of us have been called by God to do incredible things for His kingdom—write the book, start the podcast, launch the website, or build the YouTube channel. We begin with excitement, but when the results don’t match our expectations, we struggle with inconsistency. In this episode, we dive into the importance of obedience over outcomes, staying faithful even when growth feels slow, and trusting...

“Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour.” ‭‭1 Peter‬ ‭5‬:‭8‬ ‭ In this episode, I share a personal story about a strategy the devil used to steal my joy. We also dive into the connection between accomplishments and pride, and uncover more tactics the enemy uses to draw us away from God. ✨Watch the Podcast on YouTube✨ ww...

Today’s episode marks the finale of our 3-part Christian Girl Chat series, where we dive deep into all things female friendship, sisterhood, and navigating friendship drama. Check out their instagrams Gift —https://www.instagram.com/meg.duuh.lin?igsh=Znd4M3I5bGtsMmFj Amanda—https://www.instagram.com/amanda.vanqa?igsh=MWlzbDl4NnNlZ3hwdQ== Divine—https://www.instagram.com/thats_sodivine?igsh=MW5lMHd...

In today’s episode, my sisters and I dive deep into navigating relationships as Christian women in our 20s. We discuss everything from purity and sexuality to finding contentment in singleness and embracing what God is teaching us about marriage and romantic relationships. Check out their instagrams Gift —https://www.instagram.com/meg.duuh.lin?igsh=Znd4M3I5bGtsMmFj Amanda—https://www.instagram.com...

Today’s episode is part 1 of a 3-part Christian girl chat series. My friends and I dive into what it means to navigate Christianity as women in our 20s. We explore our perspectives on womanhood, insecurities, the Proverbs 31 woman, modesty, and the lessons God is teaching us as His daughters. ✨Watch the Podcast on YouTube✨ www.youtube.com/@deathtoselfpodcastbyPearl ✨Follow the podcast on TikTok...

Watch the Podcast on YouTube✨ www.youtube.com/@deathtoselfpodcastbyPearl ✨Follow the podcast on TikTok✨ https://www.tiktok.com/@deathtoselfpodcast?_t=8rotqEVc0Nb&_r=1 ✨Follow the podcast on instagram ✨ https://www.instagram.com/deathtoselfpodcast?igsh=MWV1a243cGhxZTRlcw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr ✨death to self playlist on Spotify ✨ https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3YZWX13cOazDMzGIrmFQ5s?...

ChatGPT, the smartest, most brilliant AI tool there is at the moment. You can have conversations with it, go on calls with it, some people use it for school, work, personal development… others might have taken it a littttlee tooo farrr, telling chatGPT your problems, seeking guidance from chatGPT, going to chat GPT before GOD. How far is too far with ChatGPT, let’s talk about it ✨Watch the Podcas...