Dear Young Married Couple

You’ve heard the phrase “when you know, you know”—but is love alone really enough to build a lasting marriage? 💭  In this episode, we’re diving into the 10 essential conversations every couple should have before they say “I do.” From spiritual alignment and family dynamics to sex, conflict, and forgiveness, these aren’t fluffy questions—they’re the deep, sometimes awkward, always necessary topics...

Is praying together awkward? Do you struggle to make Bible reading a “we” thing instead of just a “me” thing? If your Bible is collecting more dust than highlighters, this episode is for you! 📖 We’re sitting down with Dr. Philip Nation—pastor, author, and VP at Thomas Nelson Bibles—to talk about why spiritual habits in marriage so often stall out and how to build rhythms that actually bring life....

What happens when you have everything you’ve ever wanted—yet you still feel empty? In this powerful conversation, Pastor Cortt Chavis shares his deeply personal journey through trauma, depression, and the unexpected road to healing. He opens up about childhood wounds, battles with unforgiveness, and the moment he realized that retribution would never bring peace. If you've ever felt unseen, if you...

*disclaimer* This episode includes discussions on pleasure and anatomy. If you’re not comfortable with your little ones hearing these details, consider popping in your headphones or saving it for a private moment. Most couples struggling with mismatched sex drives think the problem is obvious—one person wants it more, and the other wants it less. But what if that’s not actually the issue? 🤯 Let’s...

Feeling stuck in a cycle of closeness and withdrawal? 🌀 In this episode, Adam and Karissa reveal why your spouse may pull away—even when things are going well—and share 5 steps to build lasting emotional security. ♥️ Don't miss this game-changing advice for deeper connection! We have just one more EROS Marriage Weekend left this year! Register now! https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/eros Book...

Let's into a live Q&A session recorded at the EROS Marriage Weekend in Heath, Ohio! 🎙️ Adam and Karissa answered real questions from couples about love languages, navigating mismatched desires, and navigating sexual trauma and dysfunction in childhood. They even addressed ways for wives to avoid going into "mom mode" on their hubbies. 🤪 📚 Resources Mentioned: Truth Book Co – Thoughtful books for...

Stress doesn’t have to tear your marriage apart! 🤯 The way you and your spouse handle stress is likely different, and without understanding those differences, it can create tension. In this episode, we unpack the three stress styles—fighter, fleer, and freezer—so you can identify yours and learn how to work through stress as a team. Plus, we share a simple tool to help you stop stress from escala...

Are old survival habits silently sabotaging your marriage? 🤯 Dr. Dan Allender joins us to unpack why even the smallest conflicts—like a baked potato debate—often stem from something much deeper. We dive into how past wounds shape present struggles, why marriage is meant to reveal both our best and worst, and how to move from good to great connection. 💛 Resources: EROS is just a few days away! Ar...

💭 What do you do when cultural differences clash in your marriage? Or when postpartum challenges put intimacy on pause? In this LIVE recording from the EROS Marriage Weekend, Adam and Karissa tackle real questions from couples and share practical tools to strengthen your connection. You’ll hear about creative ways to initiate intimacy (hello, candle system 🕯️), navigating emotional differences sh...

We’re back this week with another round of anonymous questions from our live text line at the EROS Marriage Weekend! So many thoughtful, heartfelt, and vulnerable questions came in that we couldn’t address them all during the event—so we’re tackling them here on the podcast! ♥️ We’re keeping it real, unfiltered, and packed with practical wisdom to help you and your spouse grow together. And this i...

We’re back this week with another round of anonymous questions from our live text line at the EROS Marriage Weekend! There were so many insightful, heartfelt, and spicy questions that we couldn’t get to them all during the event—so we’re answering them here on the podcast! ♥️ We’re keeping it honest, unfiltered, and packed with practical wisdom to help you and your spouse grow stronger together. A...

Join Adam and Karissa as they dive into some of the anonymous questions sent in through our live text line during the EROS Marriage Weekend. There were SO many thoughtful, heartfelt, and spicy questions, and we didn’t have time to answer them all at the event. So, we’re bringing those questions here to the podcast! ♥️ We’re keeping it real, raw, and full of practical wisdom to help you and your sp...

We were joined by Pastor Mike Novotny for a candid and thought-provoking discussion about the topics many Christians shy away from—pornography, sexuality, mental health, and more. In this episode, we explore why avoiding these conversations can cause more harm than good and how approaching them with humility, empathy, and biblical truth can transform lives and relationships. Pastor Mike shares his...

We all want to protect our kids, but when it comes to conversations about sex, most parents feel unprepared or awkward. 😶 The truth? The stakes have never been higher. Did you know the average age of exposure to hardcore pornography is now just 8 years old?! In this powerful episode, we sit down with Nick Liberto, the creator of TheSexTalk.com, to uncover why having “the talk” isn’t enough and ho...

"You can't prioritize your MINISTRY over your MARRIAGE or you'll eventually lose both" -- Pastor Kurt Green. Listen in today as Pastor Kurt and Lori Green share their story of healing from pornography while navigating their ministerial calling. You CAN repair your marriage better than new. We are here for you! Resources: Adam's Porn Recovery Focus Group https://forms.gle/vrcFydBtGhqjcKoi8 Lori's A...

Before you rush into goal-setting for 2025, pause and reflect. In this heartfelt episode, we take you behind the scenes of our own marriage, scoring each area and sharing insights that have shaped our relationship. From trust to intimacy, personal development, and beyond, we dive into what worked, what didn’t, and how we’re moving forward. Resources Mentioned: Power Couple Circle Membership Sensat...

🎄 The holidays are here, and with them come all the packed schedules, family dynamics, and unmet expectations. But they don’t have to pull you and your spouse apart. In this short and practical episode, we unpack:  How unmet expectations can create frustration Real-life examples of aligning holiday expectations Tips for setting boundaries with family and budgeting stress A powerful question to sp...

Get ready to have your worldview shaken. 🤯 In this episode, we sit down with author, speaker, and cultural warrior Seth Gruber to uncover the hidden agendas driving America’s culture of death. From Planned Parenthood’s dark eugenics roots to the chilling parallels between ancient child sacrifice and modern abortion practices, Seth exposes truths that many are too afraid to confront. This is more...

Friendship as an adult can prove challenging, but we want to encourage you: It IS within reach. In this episode, Karissa sits down with her best friend, SarahAnne Buster, MA to unpack what it takes to maintain meaningful friendships in the midst of busy schedules, family responsibilities, and the many demands of life. Let’s dive into some practical insights, personal stories, and lessons learned f...

In this episode, Adam’s best friend, Evan Grizzle, joins us to discuss the vital yet often-overlooked role of male friendships in a world increasingly marked by disconnection. We explore why social media can’t replace real relationships, how isolation impacts mental health and decision-making, and why pursuing consistent, meaningful friendships is essential for emotional and spiritual well-being....

Gratitude isn’t just a warm, fuzzy feeling. It’s a practice that can transform your brain, your relationships, and your outlook on life. In this episode, we dive into the science of gratitude, exploring how it impacts the hypothalamus and prefrontal cortex, rewiring your brain for joy and empathy. Resources: Join us at EROS in 2025! ♥️ https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/eros Learn more about y...

The conversation around gender is becoming increasingly prominent. If we don't actively engage with our children and those we serve, the world will inevitably have a stronger influence. Today, we're tackling this topic through biblical, historical, and scientific perspectives. Our expert guest is Rev. DJ Hill from St. Louis, Missouri. Brother Hill serves as the General Youth President of the UPCI...

Enjoy this LIVE recording from the last stop of the 2024 EROS Marriage Weekend in Houston, TX! In this Q&A session, our Encore pass holders joined us for a private lunch and had the opportunity to ask pressing questions—many centered around parenting and raising children in today’s sexually confused world. Whether you're a parent facing these challenges or someone invested in guiding the next gene...

In a world filled with constant change and uncertainty, it’s easy to feel weighed down by anxiety—especially during election season. But what if we took a different perspective and realized that today, right now, is actually the best time in history to be alive? In this episode, we explore why this modern era, despite its challenges, offers unmatched opportunities for growth, health, and peace. Go...

As Christians, we're diligent about guarding our holiness in certain areas—whether it's avoiding substances like drugs and smoking or upholding the distinctions between male and female. But why is physical health rarely discussed from the pulpit? Today, we had the privilege of interviewing The Dehods, a pastoral family who are deeply passionate about the importance of caring for your entire being—...