Dear Tyla

Many people live in their own world facing their own issues living their own reality. The greatest seat of our reality is our mind. What the mind conceives is one of the greatest realities we would experience. Having a healthy and Co fident mindset about you isn't just some motivational antique but a true way of living your best life. The first limitation in your life is that of the mind and your...

Have you ever felt like what you carry isn't special or loved with a mindset of deep comparison? Well it is something many of us face especially if you're in the creative space. With so many people doing similar things to you it's hard to see yourself in the light of someone with something special. One thing we must have at the back of our minds is that God placed a unique gift in us and that gift...

Ever felt like you are a second grade individual or that what you carry isn't worth it? It's a feeling many of us get and most times we try to soften the effects by affirming we weren't created for greatness. This mindset has stopped so many of us from giving our best. Who we are is greater than what we do. How we dispense a gift is of more importance than the nature of the gift itself. God doesn'...

Nothing was created for nothing. There is a purpose attached to everything including you. Life has a way of dealing with us that makes us feel we are created less than others or that we are 2nd grade individuals. This is far from true. God designed us with originality and uniqueness. The moment you discover you were created for something great that is the moment you begin to experience true living

Addictions come in all type of forms. It could be a habit, a craving or desire and many other things. One of these things is actually 'ENTITLEMENT'. This is a mentality that wrecks individuals and destroys relationships. It creates expectations in leolme that they probably would never meet and ultimately builds resentment. The basis of this episode is to reveal a certain truth which is 'NO ONE OWE...

If there is one thing that is pretty common amongst us as humans is that we all have experienced failure in one form of the other. In truth if you haven't failed at something it's highly probable that you haven't tried anything at all. It gets even worse when you are really trying to break a particular habit or attitude and you seem to slip off more times than you can count. It can leave a bitter...

Your life is a building and so many forces are not just trying to occupy it but to rule it. When we decide to let go of habits, we also have to pick up new ones to replace them otherwise we become even greatsr slaves to the addiction we have been trying to let go of. In this episode we discuss how and why this happens and how to make the best out of such a situation

Every Addiction is actually an attempt to meet a need. We are usually victims or slaves to the things we crave for. It could be love, approval, attention, recognition and the likes. Once we sense that emptiness within we end up looking for things to satisfy the craving which in turn can lead us into an abusive addiction. Understanding that both God and Satan are vying for a place in your life is e...

Who has ever suffered from an Addiction? Simply being human already makes you a candidate for the possibility of addictions. Many people shy away from this topic generally because it can be demeaning and it expresses some level of lack of self control. As difficult as it is to be discussed it still needs to be discussed because in order to defeat the enemy we must know who the enemy is, why the en...

It's been 2 years of embarking on this Podcasting journey and it took going back to the beginning to see how far we have come. Things have been a bit challenging and growth really takes time but looking back and recounting the events that have led up to this day is truly mind blowing. Most times we don't see the growth in our daily commitments until we take a full account of all things. It's usual...

Our motives are extremely important aspects of our lives. The reason behind our actions need to be pure. One thing that destroys our motivation is when our motives don't align with something eternal. It is of utmost importance that we permit God to try our motives and intention. In this epiosde we discuss how something can start out purely but get corrupted along the line and how to navigate back...

Love is a beautiful thing. Finding the right person is something hard to come by and when it comes it is a wonder. But how do you explain love that is short lived? How do you begin to fathom that the one you thought you would grow old with and spend forever with would be taken from you 2 years later? How can God still be good in this situation? How can I be less than 35 and known as a widow? In th...

Life comes with its challenges and many times they can be devastating. Its hard to see the beauty in pain. Have you ever taken advice from someone who hasn't experienced a certain thing and yet sounds so commanding? It can be pretty annoying because they speak from the standpoint of information and not experience. There is something that experience does to us. It gives us an advantage of not just...

One of the most used statements drawn from scripture is from the book of James that says 'Faith without works is dead'. Jesus performed many miracles and most times we would think that all that happened was supernatural but in truth there was an action required on the part of the receiver. Many of us have been pinned down in a place because we have built so much safety in our pain. God has His met...

Have you ever watched Military Snipers in action as they prepare to take out a target? There is this focus that they have that is particularly admirable and fascinating to watch. One of the most powerful forces is focused light which we call A Laser. This laser can cut through some of the hardest surfaces easily. There is power in focus that many haven't discovered. In this episode we discuss how...

Your identity is a gift that sets you apart from others. Having an identity is one thing. Knowing who you are is another thing. For many of us we have downplayed the gift in us due to comparison and competition. Once you discover your gift and value it, you'd be able to dispense it with such grace that the world will celebrate you always. It's important to know who you are

Seasons are characterised by certain events. When you see the signs you understand the times. One thing that seems really difficult to do as people is to stay in the place of preparation because of seasons. We usually want to fast-track things and in doing so we put ourselves through exhaustion and depression. Some things were never meant to be forced. When the season comes everything aligns to ma...

We all have this team or group that we support. For one I am a Chelsea Supporter and you can only imagine how elated I feel when I get to see them winning and how broken I am seeing them lose. There is this passion that we give to our teams when we support them and silently we desire that for ourselves. Yet in all this we usually seem to lose sight of the truth that we as individuals need to learn...

One of the most common things you'd hear me say is that I am an introvert and don't have social energy as my number one excuse for refusing to go out. I know many people are like me and in reality there is a reason to it all yet the truth is that many times, these actions can be detrimental to so many of us. Many times our secluded lifestyle leads us to depression, anxiety and and low self esteem....

We all have Superheros that we love and admire. It one of those things that most young people and even the elderly fantasise on. As every Hero has their peculiar strengths they also have their weaknesses. Most people fail not because they are unaware of their strengths but because they have refused to acknowledge their weaknesses. Denying weaknesses is a setup to danger. Also understanding that a...

In this episode I just share random thoughts in my mind. So much has happened for me that has been really difficult but lessons have been learned. I hope my words will echo deep within.

We have all gone through moments where defeat seems a greater reality than victory. In those moments, it can be very tough to make progress but there is a way out. We all have tasted victory at some point also. This very feeling can motivate us into passion again. In this episode I share on coping mechanisms that help us to learn to win again.

Hey Dear Tyla... Its been a while we spoke. A lot has happened in such a short period. I celebrated my birthday which was very epic but sadly lost my nephew in a tragic event. Today I have decided to share that experience and hopefully it inspires you. Life is worth living and doing that well

Today was a really tough day for me. I guess it's an accumulation of many things honestly. The circumstances I've been facing have been overwhelming and it has affected me in so many ways. I just had to cry out to God today and what He told me was to silence the noise that the voices in your head are so many that it is hard to hear Him speak. We really need to get to the point where we silence eve...

Happy New Month. This is my birth month and I am really excited about. In this month I really want to open up and carry you on a journey of my personal transformation. I haven't got all things figured out right now but I'm open to be accountable on this journey with all of you. The mind is a powerful tool and is the seat of every reality we desire. If your mind hasn't grasped a thing it can never...