Dear Tyla

Everyone of us must have experienced one level of disappointment whether if it were personally or from others. It's one experience that can wreck the best of us. Many people get lost in the pool of disappointment and some never recover. Every storm has a way of being Navigated. There is a way out if you know the way and have the will. In this episode I share some of the disappointments I have expe...

Having the loyalty of people is one of the most precious gifts we can get from people but should we also have shared enemies? Should we inherit the enemies of our friends or should we end up choosing sides irrespective of circumstances? In this episode we discuss what it means to be a mediator and the key to preserving relationships.

So I was preparing to record an episode this evening and it just dawned on me that Dear Tyla will be 3 years tomorrow! It's been an amazing journey and one with many lessons learned. In this episode I share a few that can help you in your own endeavour.

Being a believer is one tough journey. Many times we feel that our allegiance to God exempt us from some certain things but in reality it makes us even bigger targets. Also there is this thought that being saved absolves us from every responsibility. The truth remains that the Lord delivers us from the the burdens of life by not only taking away the issues but I stilling His own demands on our liv...

Life is lived by references. Whatever you magnify becomes your reality. Faith is not just built on knowledge but on the emphasis of a particular conviction. Every aspect of life has a corresponding example and it is your responsibility to choose the one that you desire

In life we may go through seasons where we doubt the validity of our dreams and passions. In those times we begin to feel that we probably made mistakes or God isn't interested in our own lives. In this episode I share a very personal story and also a testimony that God has not forgotten any promise He made. I hope you find encouragement to believe again!

It's been a while that I shared anything on Dear Tyla. So much has happened and I've decided to share... Here is a bit of my heart.

There are so many voices in this world. So many people have a lot to say and suggest. In such a world as ours it's very possible that we tilt towards believing the opinion of people but what is most important is our convictions. Every opinion is a suggestion that has the potential to be wrong. We must define what our convictions are because they ultimately define our decisions and they in turn def...

Jesus you love me too much oooo... I'm sure you know the response already. Excess Love is such a beautiful song by Minister Mercy Chinwo. I remember how it trended for a certain period and oh my it blessed us. People deserve love in lavish amounts but can we love people too much that it hurts them and damages them? It's important to remember that love has many dimensions and one of it is disciplin...

It takes a lot to get me to live someone but in this episode I share a very deep secret that would probably get me married soon enough and hopefully some of us can use the same principles for ourselves... This episode is a fun one though

How many times have you fallen in love? How many X's do you have? For some of us our past relationships had good moments while for others, our past relationships were dreadful. In this episode we talk about the necessity of dealing with the past, both and good and bad and how ignoring it can wreck a beautiful experience

Happy Valentines Day to you all... So I don't have a Val but decided to come up with a fake Val story... Ente into my world of imaginations...

Have you ever asked someone out by mistake? Here is my story of how this happened and it's pretty hilarious. Imagine the many things we miss out on just because we are not bold enough to ask.

In this episode I share about my Culture and some of its peculiarities. In turn I discuss how our culture shapes our identity.

If there is one thing I have come to realise causes the greatest level of disappointment is when you don't get the results you desire from a thing. The truth is if we consistently depend on results to motivate us we may struggle to be consistent in our dealings. There must be something greater to fuel our passion in life and that is purpose. In this episode we share why purpose is so important and...

In this episode we discuss the reality that Heaven truly helps men. As it is important for us to live right and do right there may be times that we act out of order. In such moments we feel guilty reaching out to the Father but our solution lies in running to him.

Being a fan of super hero movies one of the many powers seen in them is the ability to deflect bullets or stop them from penetrating heros. This is a truly great ability and one that we can use in our personal lives. In this episode we discuss developing tough skin in this new year so that the world around you doesn't affect you in anyway...

Have you ever tried to remember certain things and details and sadly seems to never remember it existed? This happens a lot and it can be frustrating. As frustrating as these things may be it can sometimes help us as as recalling certain things can be extremely painful and detrimental to our progress. In this epiosde we discuss the benefit of forgetting certain things so that we can actually make...

Ever heard of the word NOSTALGIA? It is the emotion you feel when you encounter something from your past. It is usually a happy feeling packed with a lot of emotion. The very ability to have nostalgic feelings is a gift because you can draw emotional strength even from past experiences. There is a gift in recalling the faithfulness of God. Sometimes all we need to do is take time to remember the t...

In this episode I share on the value of relationships and taking advantage of the most important relationship available to us, The Holy Spirit. As we move through the New Year it is important that we don't weary ourselves by doing things on our own.

Happy New Year family. I'm so glad we made it to 2024. As with all new things there is always a wave of excitement and passion found in them. In this episode I decided that it would be very important and beneficial to help align our motives for doing things and also remind us that there is nothing wrong in trying to complete things from the previous year. You don't have to do new things but you ca...

It's been a very long time since I posted an episode and this will have to be one of the hardest ever. We always tend to move towards things that soothe our ego and cuddle our pride but it does more harm than good. In this episode I share the benefits of having uncomfortable conversations and the dangers of avoiding them.

There are so many things we receive as believers that come through our union with Jesus, our fellowship with other believers and the access granted by various vessels. A lot of things can be imparted but one thing that can't be imparted is our History With God. This doesn't just serve as a proof of our walk with Him but also a Testimony of His dealings in our life and how these dealings strengthen...

The Word of God is truly powerful. The Word of God is both instructive and prophetic. The words hidden in scripture don't just teach us but they show us possibilities for our lives. The word can come in such a way that it seems deeply personal and specific while other aspects seem general. You must see yourself and assignemt as it is captured in the Word of God. It will take both diligence and hun...

Faith is a very strong pillar of our Christian walk and its important we get a grasp of it in order to get the best of it. Whatever thing you define poorly will never benefit you. It's true that the concept of Faith may be one that is particularly hard to comprehend but I've come to see that God has placed so many pointers in the Word to make things clearer. In this discussion we delve into what F...