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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you loathe your brother's girlfriend's "Influencer" Instagram, are you just being judgy or should you warn him of red flags? If your friend's financial situation has gotten difficult, is it wise to loan her money? If you found your husband's top secret stash, starring a surprising main character, what should you do? And if your bo...

Today Shandy is delighted to welcome the (co-)WINNER of Netflix's Perfect Match Season 4, the one and only Dave Hand! We watched Dave leave the show hand-in-hand with Sophie... so what *really* happened? Today Dave explains the truth behind the breakup, who from the cast is the most misunderstood, and how his life has changed in the aftermath of TWO reality shows. Most importantly, Shandy learns t...

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Shandy couldn't resist the siren song of Perfect Match Season 4, and today they're breaking down the grand FINALE! Thanks to our sponsors... - Go to https://poshmark.com/shandy to get $10 off your first purchase! - Text SHANDY to 64000 for your 2 free gifts with the purchase of any Pocket Hose Ballistic hose! - Go to https://goodwipes.com/SHANDY to sn...

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you and your longtime platonic friend have been secretly crushing on each other, is it now or never to make a move, even if he's started dating someone new? (Speak now or forever hold your peace?) If your friend has volunteered YOU to help her move, can you worm your way out of it, or is it best to roll up your sleeves and help? A...

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Shandy couldn't resist the siren song of Perfect Match Season 4, so today they're breaking down the first batch, aka episodes 6-7!  Thanks to our wonderful sponsors... - Text SHANDY to 64000 for your 2 free gifts with the purchase of any Pocket Hose Ballistic hose! - Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first...

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Shandy couldn't resist the siren song of Perfect Match Season 4, so today they're breaking down the first batch, aka episodes 1-5!  Thanks to our wonderful sponsors... - Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://functionhealth.com/SHANDY and use gift code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towa...

Today Shandy is joined by fellow podcasters and dating advice givers, Jared Freid and Jordana Abraham from the U Up? Podcast! They chat the most common themes they see in the questions they receive, whether or not dating today is *actually* worse (or if we're just talking about it more), and what it's like to date when you're famous! Watch on for two relationship podcasts' (sometimes very differen...

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your best friend puts zero thought into setting you up with her husband's friend, is that a slight or are you just sensitive? If your boyfriend's new hobby involves regularly "borrowing" your ideas, is it weird to be annoyed or is just a case of "sharing is caring"? At what age is OK to stop sending your nieces and nephews money?...

*Special Announcement* Dear Shandy will be moderating Amy's Book Launch Event in NYC on May 5th, 2026! For more info visit: https://luma.com/unsingle It's not every day we bring back a Hot Topic guest, but when Amy Chan writes a new book, YOU BRING HER BACK. Dubbed the “scientific Carrie Bradshaw” by The Observer, Amy is a relationship expert, author, and founder of Renew Breakup Bootcamp and Dati...

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you love your husband but find his career boring AF, should you feign interest to spare his feelings, or be 100% honest about your disinterest? Is it acceptable to become close friends with your best friend's partner, even if your best friend doesn't approve? Has Shandy ever dated anyone who brought out the worst in them, and what...

Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering Temptation Island, Season 10 (or Season 2 in the Netflix era)! Today Shandy breaks down the second half of the season, episodes 6-9! #temptationisland #netflix #temptationislandnetflix Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://ogee.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 15% off! - Go to https://rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step...

Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering Temptation Island, Season 10 (or Season 2 in the Netflix era)! Today Shandy breaks down the first half of the season, episodes 1-5! #temptationisland #netflix #temptationislandnetflix Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://monos.com and use code SHANDY at checkout for the latest offer! - Go to https://poshmark.com/SHANDY or use c...

Ask and you shall receive! (And better late than never?) By extremely popular demand, Dear Shandy's WORLD-FAMOUS RECAPS are back, this time covering Netflix's Age Of Attraction! Today Shandy breaks down the REUNION! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY for up to 43% off, free shipping and a free rechargeable frother! - Go to https://oliveandjune.com/SHANDY fo...

Ask and you shall receive! (And better late than never?) By extremely popular demand, Dear Shandy's WORLD-FAMOUS RECAPS are back, this time covering Netflix's Age Of Attraction! Today Shandy breaks down the second batch, episodes 6 & 7, as well as the FINALE!  Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://perelelhealth.com a...

Ask and you shall receive! (And better late than never?) By extremely popular demand, Dear Shandy's WORLD-FAMOUS RECAPS are back, this time covering Netflix's Age Of Attraction! Today Shandy breaks down the first batch, episodes 1-5!  Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://drinkolipop.com/SHANDY to buy any two cans of Olipop in-store and get paid back for one! - Go to https://goodwipes....

Just 3 days before its scheduled premiere, The Bachelorette Season 22 starring Taylor Frankie Paul was abruptly cancelled. Many of you wanted to hear Shandy's take on the news and the shocking reason why. So today, in lieu of the Bachelorette Premiere recap that was meant to drop today, they're answering your burning questions Q&A style. Thanks to our sponsors! - Text SHANDY to 64000 for your...

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your elderly dad is juggling two girlfriends, is it acceptable to refuse to meet them? When your stepmom "forgets" your rule around holiday travel, is it better to hold firm or just keep the peace? Your boyfriend tells you you're perfect but also says he isn't "obsessed"—what's your next move? Finally, if you did a sizable favor f...

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today they're covering the Reunion for Season 10 of Netflix's Love Is Blind! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://monos.com and use code SHANDY for their latest offer! - Go to https://perelelhealth.com and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order! - Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go...

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today they're covering the Season 10 Finale of Netflix's Love Is Blind! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://piquelife.com/SHANDY for 10% off for life! - Go to https://oneskin.co/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off! - Shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear at https://www.skims.com/SHANDY - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHAND...

Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering #TheTraitors Season 4 on #Peacock! Today is a 2-for-1 as Shandy breaks down both the Finale and Reunion!  Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:41 - Finale 16:50 - Fire Of Truth 27:45 - Reunion 49:59 - Best Dressed If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! http...

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today they're covering episodes 10-11, aka Batch 3 of Season 10 of Netflix's Love Is Blind! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://oliveandjune.com/SHANDY for 20% off your first system! - Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY and use gift code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towards your membership! - Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code...

Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering #TheTraitors Season 4 on #Peacock! Today Shandy breaks down episode 10. Thank you to our sponsors... - Buy two cans of Olipop in store and get paid back for one at https://drinkolipop.com/SHANDY - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:46 - Episode 10 27:36 - Round Tab...

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today they're covering episodes 7-9, aka Batch 2 of Season 10 of Netflix's Love Is Blind! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.warbyparker.com/SHANDY for 15% off 2 or more pairs of prescription glasses! - Go to https://perelelhealth.com and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order! - Go to https://masterclass.com/SHANDY for 15% off!...

By extremely popular demand, Dear Shandy's recaps are back, this time covering season 4 of The Traitors! Today Shandy breaks down episode 9.  Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://ollie.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 60% off your first box! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:57 - Episode 9 37:45 - Best Dressed If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com S...

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today they're covering episodes 1-6, aka Batch 1 of Season 10 of Netflix's Love Is Blind! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://rula.com/shandy and take the first step towards improved mental health! - Go to https://ollie.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 60%...