Dear Shandy

It's that time of year again... Dear Shandy is officially 6 years old, and what better way to celebrate than to answer YOUR questions! We polled you over on Instagram and received Qs about us, our relationship, the podcast, Ruby, and everything in between! Thank you, Shandies, for 6 WHOLE YEARS of laughs, kinship and community. We absolutely adore you! Come join us in our living room to chat! Than...

Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering #TheTraitors New Blood on #Peacock! Today Shandy breaks down episodes 3 & 4. Thanks to our sponsors... - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for up to 20% off on home and sleepwear! - Go to https://trykepos.com/SHANDY to receive 47% o...

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! You're dating a guy but can't tell if the pit in your stomach is dread or butterflies... is it your anxiety or the infamous Ick? You regret agreeing to being your childhood friend's Maid Of Honor. Is it ever OK to back out of the role? You're a devoted daughter but your dreams extend beyond your duty. Between the crushing guilt and t...

Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering #TheTraitors New Blood on #Peacock! Today Shandy breaks down episodes 1 & 2. Thanks to our sponsors... - Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://AquaTru.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off your purifier! - Go to https://warbyparker.com/SHANDY to buy 1 pair of glasses and ge...

It's CALLER DAY! 📞 Today we're joined by lovely caller Dani who has been dating a guy for 6 months. Except... she's never actually met him?? Was he never interested enough to progress things further, or was she too guarded? Listen on for the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy's new Off...

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! You're happily married with kids but you carry a secret from a decade ago, before starting a family. Is it worth rocking the boat to tell the truth all these years later? If you like your coworker but hate how she ALWAYS cuts you off, what's the best way to fix her social faux-pas? Your mother-in-law keeps cornering you to trauma dum...

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind UK, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down the Reunion, aka Episode 11. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to  https://tumbleliving.com/SHANDY  for 10% off plus free shipping! - Go to  https://skims.com/...

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind UK, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down the grand Finale, aka Episodes 9 & 10. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://fabletics.com/SHANDY for 70-80% off everything as a new VIP! - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for an exclusive 20% off! Time stamps... 0:00 - Ho...

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind UK, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down the first half of Batch 1, aka Episodes 5-8. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use CODE SHANDY to get 55% off your new night guard from now until the end of August with Remi Club Subscribe & Save! - Go to https://revolve.com/...

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind UK, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down the first half of Batch 1, aka Episodes 1-4. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://functionhealth.com/SHANDY and use gift code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towards your membership! - Go to  https://cozyearth.com  and use code SHANDY for an exclusive...

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! You're excited to move in with your boyfriend, however, the geographical and financial benefits are impossible to ignore—is your judgment being clouded by the perks? You're a Gandy and your girlfriend looks young... TOO young. Is your self-consciousness warranted? Your wedding guest came but didn't send a gift—is it acceptable to ask...

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Shandy is excited to be joined in-studio by Monica Payne and Luke Wesselhoff from Season 4 of Netflix's The Ultimatum! Today Luke and Monica give us a peek behind The Ultimatum curtain: what didn't we see on the show, and just how accurate (or inaccurate) was their edit? We talk growth on and off the show, navigating the public's assumptions, their high school personas, the...

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your friend regularly makes passive aggressive digs about your childfree-by-choice lifestyle, is a confrontation in order? How can you navigate your in-laws' past financial issues becoming YOUR future problem? If he ends it because of his father's diagnosis, is that a sign you should wait, or is the illness a red herring? And what...

Content note:  This episode contains discussion of alleged domestic violence and may be difficult for some listeners. If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, help is available through the National Domestic Violence Hotline by calling  1-800-799-SAFE (7233)  or texting  START  to  88788 . Please listen with care and skip this episode if needed. Th...

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! The Ultimatum happens to be one of Shandy's all-time favorite shows, and today they're breaking down the Finale and Reunion for Season 4! *** This episode discusses domestic assault. Please listen with care. *** Thanks to our lovely sponsors... - Go to https://quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://ollie...

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! The Ultimatum happens to be one of Shandy's all-time favorite shows, and today they're breaking down episodes 5-8 of Season 4! *** Note: This episode was recorded before news dropped about one contestant getting arrested for assault ** Thanks to our wonderful sponsors... - Download the Poshmark app and use code SHANDY when you sign up to get $10 off y...

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! The Ultimatum happens to be one of Shandy's all-time favorite shows, and today they're breaking down episodes 1-4 of Season 4! Stay tuned for your recap of episodes 5-8 dropping later. Thanks to our wonderful sponsors... - Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://fabletics.com/SHANDY  for&...

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 6 & the FINALE of Season 8. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.warbyparker.com/SHANDY to buy 1 pair of glasses and get 20% off any additional pairs! - Download the Poshmark app and use code SHANDY when you sign up to get $10 off your first purcha...

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 5 of Season 8. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.skims.com/shandy to shop Sharleen's favorite Bras and Underwear! - Go to https://zazzle.com  to get 25% off your first order! - Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! - G...

It's CALLER DAY! 📞 Today we're joined by TWO lovely callers! Our first caller, Emily, has just been dumped by the first guy in ages she's thought could be The One. After years of dating and actively putting herself out there, she's downright defeated. What happened? And more importantly, WHERE IS HE?! Our second caller, Ryan, has an unpopular choice for her bridal party. Should she overcome her f...

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 4 of Season 8. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://tumbleliving.com/SHANDY for 10% off plus free shipping! - Go to https://ogee.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 20% off! - Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY and use gift code SHANDY25 for a $...

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 3 of Season 8. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards improved mental health! - Go to https://curehydration.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off...

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Several friends never respond to your texts—Is this the new social norm, or are you doing something wrong? If you put your foot in your mouth on an early date, is there any recovering? The guy you like *seems* interested but never makes a move—does Shandy still stand by the old adage "If He Wanted To, He Would"? And if you love your...

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 2 of Season 8. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://functionhealth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towards your membership! - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://poshmark.com/SHANDY to get $10 off...

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 1 of Season 8. Thank you to our sponsors... - Text SHANDY to 64000 for your 2 free gifts with the purchase of any Pocket Hose Ballistic hose! - Go to https://zazzle.com for 25% off your first order! - Go to https://ollie.com/shandy and use code shandy for 70% off...