Dear Primas

🎙️ Dear Primas, Welcome! 💌 Whether you've been here since episode one or you just found us through the internet rabbit hole, we're so happy you're here. 🤍 In this episode, we're taking it back to the beginning and officially introducing ourselves. We're sharing who we are beyond the microphones, our families, motherhood journeys, marriages, big life changes, and how Dear Primas came to be. From...

🎙️ Dear Quarterly Check-In 💌 Primas… consider this your official quarterly life update. 😅☕ In this episode, Kristi and Clari are catching up on all the things the good, the messy, and the very real. From unexpected illnesses and trying to survive the never-ending germs that come with kids, to fitness goals, family life, and figuring out how to take care of ourselves while taking care of everyon...

🎙 Dear Mamacita 💐☕ Primas… Mamacitas...Mother's Day is coming up, and we have QUESTIONS 😅 Like… what do you actually want? A thoughtful gift? A quiet house? A hotel room alone with uninterrupted sleep?? 👀 In this episode, Kristi and Clari are talking all things Mother's Day! What do we truly want in this season of motherhood? We're sharing past Mother's Day experiences, and the reality that so...

🎙 Dear Chat, How Does One Make Friends…As An Adult? Primas… why does making friends as an adult feel harder than dating?? 😅 In this episode, Kristi and Clari are getting real about something we don't talk about enough: how to actually make friends in this season of life. Between motherhood, busy schedules, and just being a little more… aware (and maybe a little more tired), putting yourself out t...

Primas… can we talk about the fact that we're señoras now?? 😅 Like… we grew up in the 90s with dial-up internet, LimeWire downloads, and parents yelling "get off the house phone," and somehow now we're the ones packing lunch boxes, scheduling dentist appointments, and reminding our kids to drink water. In this episode, Kristi and Clari unpack the very specific species that is the millennial mom....

🎙 Dear Family, Are We Complete Primas… this one is tender. 🥹💌 In this episode, Kristi and Clari open up about a question that quietly sits in so many moms' hearts: Are we complete? From planning Santi's first birthday without family nearby, to the emotional weight of those early wake-ups and sleepless nights, we talk honestly about the newborn bubble, how beautiful it is, how fleeting it feels,...

Primas… we have THOUGHTS. 😅💅 In this episode, Clari and Kristi are doing what we do best catching up on what we're watching, what we're reading, and the shows that absolutely have a chokehold on us right now. From His & Hers to The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives and Tell Me Lies, we're unpacking the twists, the red flags, the characters who make questionable choices, and why we're still so investe...

Primas… if January has you easing in instead of going all in, this one's for you. 💅✨ In this episode, Kristi and Clari are reconnecting after the New Year and pressing pause on the pressure. We're talking motherhood, growth, and what it really looks like to balance family life when you're doing it from different states and different seasons of life. This conversation feels like a journal entry r...

Primas… we can't believe we're here. 🥹 In this milestone 50th episode, Clari and Kristi are pressing pause to reflect on how far Dear Primas has come and how much we've grown right alongside you. From the early days before hitting record with nerves and big dreams, to navigating motherhood, work, and the constant evolution of who we're becoming, this episode is a heartfelt look at the journey so...

Primas… why do Christmas cards feel like a full-time job? 😅🎄 In this episode, Kristi and Clari talk through the holiday pressure we all feel, from coordinating family photo sessions and the outfits, to racing the weather and hoping at least one photo turns out frame-worthy. We're sharing the joys, the stress, and the funny moments that come with trying to "capture the memories" while real life i...

Primas… this one feels like a long overdue catch-up. 💌 Clari and Kristi are reconnecting after a major life shift! Clari's move from Houston to Miami 🌴. We're talking about the emotions behind packing up a life, the road trip, finding a new home, and what it really feels like to start over in a new place with your family. We also open up about how this holiday season will look different, how tra...

Primas, it's officially that time of year the pumpkin spice (or caffeine of your choice) is flowing, the field trips are field tripping, our kids can't be the only ones that changed Halloween costume ideas 12 times. 🎃😅 In this episode, Kristi and Clari are leaning all the way into the fall feels catching up on parenting moments, Halloween prep, and an unforgettable farm birthday party. We're tal...

Primas, welcome to Everything Must Go, AKA The Garage Sale Era, where everything's negotiable… except our emotions. 🥹💅  This one's for the real Primas who've hosted (or survived) a garage sale or two in their day. Who remembers the sticker tags, the small talk with strangers, and the "wait, are we really selling that?!" moments? Clari has started moving prep, we're on a rollercoaster of letting...

Primas, this one feels like dropping a voice note in the group chat. 💅 Life's Better When You Have a Primas Group Chat! We are catching up on all the things from fried food at the state fair to our current TV obsessions (yes, we have thoughts and questions on Dancing With The Stars 🪩) Are the Primas watching too? Of course, we also talk about the books that have us up past bedtime. 📚 If your gr...

Okay primas… moving isn't just about packing boxes, it's about packing emotions too 💌. In this episode, Kristi and Clari talk about the ups and downs of parenting through big changes navigating school dynamics, family reactions to Clari's upcoming move to South Florida, and the bittersweet feeling of leaving behind familiar comfort zones. We get real about: ✨ Helping kids adjust to new dynamics...

Primas, what's for dinner? 👀 This week's episode is the question we ask every. single. night. We're talking our go-to dinners, freezer staples, crockpot hacks, Sunday meal prep dreams (that sometimes flop). From pork shoulder carnitas that stretch into four meals to "pizza Fridays" that save our sanity, we're spilling our go-to dinners, the ones that actually get us through sports practices, pick...

🎙 Dear Mom Diaries… Primas, let's talk about something that doesn't get enough space in the group chat👉 motherhood and how we see ourselves after having babies. 💕 In this episode, Kristi and Clari open up about the real and raw parts of postpartum body image, from trying on five outfits before leaving the house to wondering if you'll ever feel "yourself" again. We talk about breastfeeding hunger...

Primas, this is one of those FaceTime calls you didn't ask for… but definitely needed. 💕 In today's episode of Dear Primas, Let's Talk About It, we're firing off all the random topics living rent-free in the group chat: 📍 Location sharing in relationships — sweet or sus? 💌 Hard launch culture — is soft launching still a thing? 🙋 Social etiquette in public spaces — can people not? 💬 Communicat...

Dear Primas, He's not the one if… Primas, let's be real dating looks way different these days 😅. Whether it's your 20s, 30s, or 40s, we've all had those "wyd?" late-night texts, the awkward first dates, and the 🚩 we wish came with neon lights. We may be on the other side now but trust us… we've got some stories and a little perspective you didn't ask for but. 😉 In this episode, Kristi and Clari...

Primas, let's be real—going from one to two (or more) kids hits different. 💁🏻‍♀️ Some days it feels like we're juggling snacks, schedules, and sibling drama all before our second cup of coffee. Other days, the mom guilt sneaks in and we're wondering if everyone is getting enough of us. In this episode, we're opening up about the new season of life as moms of multiples. The challenges, the guilt,...

🎙 Dear Primas, Catch Us Up 🏖️📚 Okay primas… summer is officially in the rearview, and we need to talk. 🫠 We're catching you up on ALL the things, from vacation highlights to the very real struggle of getting kids back on a sleep schedule (send cafecito). Between late bedtimes, meltdowns over lost pool toys, and the back-to-school prep, we're just trying to remember what day it is. In true Primas...

🎙 Dear Primas, I Got a Text! 💌 (Casa Amor Recap + All the Drama) Okay, Primas… we need to talk. CASA AMOR 🔥 Your favorite millennial couch commentators (aka us) are back with a full Love Island download and YES, we're watching "for the plot." From recouplings that had us gasping to the beige flags that suddenly turned BRIGHT RED, we're breaking it all down like we're voice-noting the group chat....

🎙️ Dear Primas, Can We Pull You for a Chat? I GOT A TEXT!!!!! IYKYK!! Primas, let's talk Love Island — because you know we have thoughts!! Are we watching for the plot (and by plot, we mean drama, and who's giving ick vs. green flag energy 😅). Week 1 is here, and we are breaking it all down — Can we pull you for a chat? This episode is basically our group chat in podcast form: 🩷 Who came in hot?...

🎙 Dear Primas, What's Your Type... ✨ Primas we are back and talking all about personality types and how they show up in life! Are you the planner with color-coded lists and calendar invites? Or the go-with-the-flow queen figuring it out as you go? Whether you're navigating big life shifts, planning your next move, or learning how to not overthink every little thing (guilty 🙋‍♀️), this episode is...

🎙️ Dear Other Half This one's for every Prima who's ever side-eyed their partner mid-diaper change or whispered "I'm doing everything!" under their breath. In this episode, we're talking about the real side of parenting as a team — the good, the messy, and everything in between. 💬  From navigating discipline styles to carrying the mental load, we open up about what it's really like co-parenting w...