Dear Men Podcast

There’s no doubt that the consumption of porn is more accessible and more acceptable in our society and sometimes even in our relationships. Porn sites get more traffic than Twitter, Instagram, Netflix, Pinterest, and LinkedIn combined. Even though for the most part it is free, there is definitely a price we pay. And when it comes to creating healthy, intimate connections with others, the price ma...

There is this sweet and nice girl persona that women tend to embody as a way to create safety for themselves but also as a way to secure a man. But the men that they secure that desire them to be sweet and nice in order to love and commit to them, are not actually real men. In this episode, I explore why men like this are immature and what fears they're protecting themselves from by being with...

It is easy today to notice how disconnected men are from their emotional sensitivity and how this lack of self-awareness and emotional intelligence has and continues to lead to violent outbursts of rage and violence towards other men and women. In this episode, I want to focus on of the biggest reasons I believe men lose sensitivity to their emotions and how they affect others.  If you enjoyed thi...

Have you ever felt that you were responsible for someone’s healing or wellbeing? And if you weren’t in the picture or if you didn’t tend to their needs they would be a wreck and couldn’t take care of themselves or something terrible would happen to them? In this episode, I discuss how this pattern of relating known as codependency, when it goes unchecked and unnoticed evolves and becomes what can...

Fathers today are either completely absent or emotionally unavailable. And how fathers show up today not only affects women and daughters but men and young boys— it shapes their perspective of manhood and masculinity. So based on the state of men today there is a conversation that men are not having with each other about the effects of having absent or emotionally unavailable fathers.  If you enjo...

How do you recover and heal from a betrayal by someone close to you? How do you find the courage to remove your armor in order to let love in? How could you ever put your trust in someone else again after seeing what happened when you did? If you enjoyed this episode, please feel free to leave a review. It helps get this message to other listeners that may also enjoy and benefit from it.  @Byermea...

When a man loves a woman he does three things profess, provide, and protect. And on this episode, I want to focus on how we as a collective define and view the responsibility of providing and protecting, and how it can and has negatively impacted our relationships and the evolution of men as a whole.  If you enjoyed this episode, please feel free to leave a review. It helps get this message to oth...

Why is it that even after we've learned a lesson, or seen what happens when we ignore specific red flags in people, we somehow recycle the same relationship? We recreate the same dynamics that exhausted us and caused us to negotiate boundaries and abandon ourselves in the process. In this episode, I explore some of the conditions that shape that experience. If you enjoyed this episode, please...

Though our traumas may be unique and different from each other, there is a trauma that we all share, and this trauma formed a deep wound inside our souls that we all carry. In this episode, I explore that trauma, how it affects us and our relationships, and the things we can do to tend to it. If you enjoyed this episode, please feel free to leave a review. It helps get this message to other listen...

Many women and even men think that what men want and only really care and think about is sex. Which is on the list, no doubt about that. But when men mature there are things that they begin to crave, yearn, and desire from their partner that has little to nothing to do with her physical body or appearance. If you enjoyed this episode, please feel free to leave a review. It helps get this message t...

The more men can take the time to look and address how much their relationship with their mother has impacted and continues to influence their relationship with women as an adult, the less difficult it will be for women to feel safe with men. In this episode, I explore what impedes a man's evolution, and the stories that skew his perception of the women around him. If you enjoyed this episode,...

The idea of purity and the experience of being slut shamed are closely linked but also originate from the minds of men who want to not just control women, but reduce the risk of rejection.  In this episode, I show how each of these is connected, and the harm it causes women but also men that uphold it.  If you enjoyed this episode, please feel free to leave a review. It helps get this message to o...

I've noticed in my life an inability to properly process rejection and realized how I was also not alone in this. That there were a lot of men around me and even men I looked up to that didn't also know how to navigate the feeling of being rejected. So in this episode, I explore how this failure to cope and process rejection influences the behaviors and patterns of many, and even determine...

We can easily witness and state how technology is made in our image, but how often do we take the time to really integrate what this means? If our phones are a reflection of us, what experiences and stories are taking the most storage? What conversations have over 5GB of data? What can we clear in order to make room for new, more resistant love, relationships, and opportunities? Advertising Inquir...

In Part 3 of 3, we bring everything we've unpacked in parts one and two, full circle. Looking at the power of understanding, and how it is understanding that moves the fear, anger, or guilt we may uncover as we return home to ourselves, into higher frequencies such as compassion, love, and joy.  Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privac...

Growing up we enjoyed films and stories like Sleeping Beauty, Cinderella, Rapunzel the list goes on. But each of these stories carries the same energy and underlying meaning, they point us to a story that is taking place inside. Where a part or aspect of ourselves seems to have been abandoned or rejected and now awaits our return. In this episode, we explore what are these aspects that we've a...

In Part 1 of 3 episodes, we unpack one of the biggest factors that lead us to repeat the same lessons in new forms, when it comes to our relationships. Something is happening on a subconscious level that is causing us to date the same person with a new face. To go through the same experiences and dynamics of relationships as the ones we have known and experienced growing up with our parents.  Adve...

Have you ever heard the saying "go with your gut" or "trust your gut"? But have you also heard "detox your gut before you can trust it"? So how often are we trusting our gut or our internal guidance system without clearing it of the things it's accumulated over time, from false perceptions, traumatic experiences and so on. Can we really trust what feels good to us? Adve...

In this episode, we unpack and explore the root of our fears around making life-changing decisions that we ultimately and intuitively know will lead us into more of our Highest Joy. Seeing the many voices, and forms of Fear and how it tries to prevent and protect us from new and unknown spaces of ourselves. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.co...

An introduction to the host Jeremie Lotemo and the podcast. Why was it created and what the listeners can look forward to from the episodes to come.  Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy