Dear Men Podcast

In this eye-opening episode, we dive into the often-misunderstood concept of unconditional love. While the idea of loving someone without conditions may seem ideal, it can actually hinder personal growth and authentic connection. Explore with me why seeking unconditional love can lead to unrealistic expectations and how embracing a more nuanced understanding of love can foster deeper, more fulfill...

Do you know the difference between dating and courting? In this episode, we dive into the lost art of courting and how it distinguishes itself from modern casual dating. I share the intentional, respectful, and masculine approach along with key principles and guides to follow when truly courting a potential wife. If this episode resonates with you, please take a moment to leave a review. Your insi...

In this episode, we delve into the intricate and complex wounds of our relationships with our parents. We explore the idea that the wounds we have from these experiences are far from being barriers, and can actually serve as transformative gateways or initiations leading us toward profound spiritual growth.  If this episode resonates with you, please take a moment to leave a review. Your insights...

In this episode, we dive deep into the fabric of what truly creates an enriching relationship. How to move beyond societal expectations, beyond the cooking and cleaning, beyond the paying of bills. This conversation is an invitation to shift your perspective and cultivate relationships that are truly enriching. If this episode resonates with you, please take a moment to leave a review. Your insigh...

If you grew up with a father that was physically absent, emotionally unavailable, or verbally or physically abusive, chances are the relationship you had with him is still impacting your relationships and self-worth. In this podcast episode, we confront this deep-seated issue, its manifestations, and ways to heal. If you're seeking to understand how this wound holds you back, this episode is f...

After some positive feedback from my last life update episode, I decided to keep the series going. In this episode, I vulnerably and openly share my struggles with trust in my life and relationships. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

When women are objectified they're seen as just bodies, instruments and objects designed for the use and pleasure of others. But what drives us as a collective to reduce women to less than human, is it cultural norms, gender roles, religious institutes, or is it the media we consume? And is there anything we can do about it?  Links:  Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeas To learn more about...

What happens when you grow up in a world where communication is instant, where you have access to so much information, and so many different types of people, their lives, relationships, and personal story, and you can interact with whoever you wanted whenever you wanted? How does this impact our psychology and our relationship with self and others? Links:  Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeas...

Maybe you've heard the Buddhist philosophical concept of impermanence before, and maybe you haven't. But in this episode, I share my relationship with impermanence and uncertainty and navigating the possible shadows that manifest as a result of this integration. Links:  Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeas To learn more about my private mentorship programs for both men and women, click...

This episode is a brief update on my life. I talk about the importance of sharing the messiness and complexities of the human experience, my challenges around balancing work and play, and making time for my spiritual practice. Links:  Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeas Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Have you found yourself constantly attracting the same person in a different body? In this episode, I share why this may be happening and provide insight into a five-step process that when followed can create lasting changes in the type of partners and dynamics you attract. Links:  Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeas To learn more about my private mentorship programs for both men and women, c...

I think productivity is over-glorified, over-valued, and over-emphasized in our culture. The glorification of productivity conditions us to externalize our value and believe that our worth does not exist beyond what we are capable of producing and doing for others. In this episode, I also unpack and explore what the obsession with productivity, being busy, and chasing goals is helping us avoid. Li...

In this episode, I share 5 reasons why I believe every man needs to go celibate at some point in his journey. I share some of the benefits I noticed from my own celibacy journey, things men need to unlearn and deprogram, and how future relationships will be impacted as a result. Links:  Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeas To learn more about my private mentorship programs for both men and wom...

In this episode, I discuss why I do not identify as a polarity teacher, the ways that these teachings can be harmful rather than constructive in a relationship, and how I apply these teachings in my own personal life. Links:  Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeas To learn more about my private mentorship programs for both men and women, click the link below.  https://www.byermeas.com/1-on-1-coa...

In this episode, I talk about what dark masculine and feminine energy are, what they are not, and how we can begin to integrate, purify and embody these energies in an authentic and empowered way. Links:  Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeas To learn more about my private mentorship programs for both men and women, click the link below.  https://www.byermeas.com/1-on-1-coaching Advertising Inq...

In this episode, I cover my 6 tips to help you set stronger boundaries. So whether you are new to developing this skill, or have had years of practice, the tips I share will be able to support you in refining and strengthening this ability no matter where you're at in your journey. Links:  Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeas To learn more about my private mentorship programs for both men...

Healing our deepest wounds and improving ourselves is such a gift not only to ourselves but also to our relationships, but often this endless ambition to be better or more "healed" feels more comforting and safe than being and accepting who we are right now in this moment at this point in our journeys. This is how healing gradually becomes a cover-up for perfectionism... Links:  Instagram...

When advice like "if he wanted, he would" goes viral and is validated and approved by thousands of people we end up taking it at face value, ignore the nuances and fail to skillfully filter it through the context of our life and unique relationships. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode, I wanted to share more about my personal and spiritual journey. What are the events that lead me to the work that I'm doing today, what are the experiences in my childhood that shaped the beliefs I have, and a glimpse into my spiritual awakening and initiations that took place in my early 20s. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redci...

What does the rise of the sacred feminine mean to us as a collective, as individuals, and to our future? How can we consciously participate in this awakening? Links:  Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeas To learn more about my private coaching programs for both men and women, click the link below.  https://www.byermeas.com/1-on-1-coaching Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Pri...

I hear this all of the time, “where are all the good men?” “All the available people are taken and married.” But what does this belief secretly give us permission to do, what is the unconscious benefit/payoff we get from believing this?  Links:  Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeas To book your FREE introduction with me, click the link below.  https://www.byermeas.com/1-on-1-coaching Advertisi...

Being authentic is about being your true self, accepting yourself, and not shrinking who you are or your values to avoid rejection or being misunderstood. But how can we be authentic without trying to control other people’s views of us? How can we be our full, vibrant selves while also being mindful of those around us? Links:  Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeas To book your FREE introduction...

There comes a time in your journey when the most empowering, healing, and healthiest thing you can do for yourself is to choose to no longer engage or maintain a relationship with your toxic family. This episode is a guide to help you know when and how to establish no contact. If you enjoyed this episode, please feel free to leave a review. It helps get this message to other listeners that may als...

When it comes to dating women there's a common belief amongst men that in order to get the girl, you have to embody and become the asshole or the jerk. So the saying goes, “nice guys finish last.” But this is so far from the truth so today I want to demystify this myth and talk a little about what women actually want from a man. If you enjoyed this episode, please feel free to leave a review. ...

There was a time when the primary purpose of our relationships was to ensure our survival and the continuation of our lineages. Now today that has become only one aspect of why we seek partnership and love. We now are driven by the desire for emotional depth, intimacy, spiritual evolution, and healing. But the fulfillment of these desires cannot truly unfold when we are relating to each other with...