Dear Future Husband

There are mainly 2 scenarios that occur after going on a date: 1). You enjoy it and look forward to getting to know them more or 2.) You believe you have a clear "not for me" after the date is over. So what do you do? As women, we tend to want to avoid this guy/conversation or "kindly" reject them slowly into the friend zone. But KINDESS is not the best solution following a dat...

Whenever we feel our best we're more prone to show up as our best. On the contrary, when we feel physically, emotionally, or spiritually burnt out, we're more likely to burn out in our romantic and platonic relationships. Today Cara Clark, Integrative Nutritionist, CN, IHP, shares the intricate correlation between our overall health and our relational health AND how you can strengthen bo...

When a subscriber asked me my thoughts on prenups from a Christian perspective, I became curious as to what most others thought. Learning that 1 in 5 millennial couples today are getting prenups and opting to keep their finances separate in marriage, I knew we had to have a conversation around this. Whether you're on the trail to engagement or prepping for the future, let's talk about ho...

How does the right relationship allow us to embrace our divine femininity? In a union flowing in God's design, we as women can find freedom to be our true selves, safety to flourish in new ways and acceptance and love acting as the women we were created to be without striving. In this episode I brought back my dear friend Nava to have girl talk about first dates, femininity & faith. Pray...

Whether it's because of acne, weight, upcoming wedding or period pain, most women in the US are offered birth control as a quick-fix oral solution. But what physicians such as Dr. Jennifer Mercier are finding today is that these synthetic hormones are not advisable for long-term fertility and health, nor the best answer to problems or circumstances many women face today. So before you add BC...

There comes a point in your dating when you ask, "How committed are we and should we take the next step?" There can be many evaluation strides you need to cover well to have clarity and peace in your decision. Whether that's bringing up the sometimes daunting expectations and timelines topics or navigating long-distance like my husband and I had, here's a glimpse into how we ma...

Trying to explain to someone exactly how they'll know if a guy is THE guy or not is a lot like trying to solve a puzzle blindfolded... It's hard to know until the pieces are in front of you. BUT there is one person who will never lead you astray and who's advice you can always voice, even in dating. Join me and Juli Bevere as we share the best advice we can on "discernful"...

So you're praying for Mr. Right and have all this time on your hands until he comes. SO what are you going to do? If you're looking to grow yourself and start marriage off on the best possible foot, then set out to master these 3 areas that will help you become your best, thrive where you are, and be better prepared for where you're going!  Pray while you wait with Future Husband, P...

Purity is, well depending on your background, either confusing, shaming or plain weird. But that is not its true nature!! There is a protection and blessing that comes from enjoying our sexuality within God's design and that's simply what the purity message's goal is—enjoyment! In this episode, Nicole Ivanov shares what led her as a non-believer embracing hook-up culture to think, &...

There is a lethal threat our (future) husbands are facing. One that has become overtly subtle and sneaky over the last few decades. As women of faith, we can become praying wives even now! In this episode, I'm joined by Emmanuel and Bekah of Team Vulnerable. They expose the truth on p*rn addiction and how communication and prayer can free us from any sin that hinders us as individuals and/or...

"If you wanna be my lover, you gotta be that friend !" A little spin on a classic but what an idea, right? Can being a good friend actually enable us to become a better future spouse? And is contentment in singleness just soemthing people say or something you can do? In this episode, our friend Riley Sewell Kehoe shares how she saw God develop her as a wife by focusing on the blessings i...

We are not shy about this movement to pray for your future spouse! But there is a question floating around—when you meet that someone, should you begin praying together during dating? Prayer is powerful and our guest, Scott Kedersha, created a devotional for engaged and (SPOILER ALERT) dating couples to use to enhance their relationship.  P.S. - Find "Ready or Knot" at www.scottkedersha....

"I started to wonder if I was waiting on God's timing or if guys simply didn't like me." —Allie Schnacky.  Phew! Okay if you too have ever thought that you were only ever seen as the friend, the last one single or the girl who's simply only an option, this episode is a reminder that you are NOT second tier and you are NOT forgotten! In this episode, the joyful and encourag...

"I'd never go out with someone who has watched p0rn," I thought when I was single. However, then I had no idea how rapidly young men, boys, and even women were being exposed to this addictive trap. In our part one episode on the topic, Joshua Broome shares his testimony as a former porn star transformed into a devoted preacher. We discuss how you can respond if your partner shares t...

This may be my most controversial episode to date. Flirting? Bad? "What am I supposed to do with someone I'm interested in, Christian?" Okay buckle up because I want to give you 3 reasons overtly flirting could be stifling your relationships. Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal . Disc...

So you've waved goodbye to dating the "bad boys" but you're not exactly looking forward to dating the boring good guy either... Well, our guest Kait Tomlin Ward from the Heart of Dating has a few reasons why your heart and head will thank you if you do, AND how you will be delightfully surprised sooner than you think. Find more from Kait and JJ at www.heartofdating.com. Pray wh...

Let's make 2024 your year for successful dating!! Our guest, Bela Gandhi, is a dating Coach who is sharing her secrets for succeeding on your next date. Whether it's your first, second, tenth, or FIRST EVER date, these practical tips will help you be confident in how you present yourself and what you're looking for. Find more from Bela at www.smartdatingacademy.com. Pray while you w...

Are you tired of people asking you why you're still single or when you're finally going to start dating someone? Do you want to react and say, "I WISH I KNEW!"  Well, what do you do? Can you control this situation or avoid it altogether? In this episode we give three practical tips for answering this question honestly and happily! Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an...

Never say never, unless it's about settling! Relationships are dynamic connections but when we settle we trade dynamic for potentially dangerous... In this episode, Madi Prewett  Troutt and I share testimonies and tips for avoiding settling. Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal . Discover both a...

Does dating as a Christian come with too much pressure? Could we potentially be doing this whole dating thing in a better, les complicated way? To answer that, I brought on my husband, Arden Bevere, to share what did and didn't work for him dating as a christian male. Be sure to review the podcast and leave a comment letting us know what you will be implementing into your dating experience fr...

There are many ways, both big and small, that unresolved tension, pain or fears of our past can rob our futures. BUT the good news is, that growth and healing are anecdotal and possible. What in your past could you heal that would make way for a better future? Jason gives us a guide to discovering. His latest book, "Get Past Your Past" is now available everywhere books are sold. Pray whi...

The Bible puts it plainly, "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers." (2 Corin. 6:14) but WHAT does that mean and WHY is this a word of wisdom? Let's gain a better understanding of this verse so we can head this instruction in singleness to journey toward fruitful marriages. Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear...

Emotions are an important and integral part of any relationship, and they can greatly affect the dynamics between partners. Professional counselor and author, Debra Fileta, shows how owning your thoughts and emotions allows us to better function as individuals and partners. Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Pray...

Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal . Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.

No one, I mean absolutely no one, likes the feelings rejection brings. Whether it's from a heartbreaking relationship or not being picked for sports in grade school, rejection can urge the question: "Was I not enough?" In this episode, relationship counselor and rejection overcomer, Stefanie Rouse, shares how she found her foundation in God when faced with those same questions. Pray...