Dear Future Husband

Will They Be Blinded By Love or Blind-Sided by the Others' Answers?! In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian Bevere hosts our first blind-dating panel, where single men and women answer honest questions about attraction, standards, communication, and what they’re really looking for before meeting face-to-face. From funny first impressions to surprisingly honest reveals,...

What if your waiting season is revealing where your trust truly lies? In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian Bevere sits down with worship leader Rita Springer for an honest conversation about singleness, surrender, longing, and refusing to settle. Rita shares what it looks like to stay desperate for Jesus, not marriage, when the wait feels longer than expected. Together, sh...

What if men are not as hard to read as women think? In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian Bevere sits down with author and speaker Jeff Bethke for an honest conversation about men when it comes to dating, attraction, and communication. Together, they unpack the difference between healthy standards and unrealistic expectations, why men need to open up rather than hide behind...

Are you choosing from peace, or is loneliness choosing for you? In this episode of the Dear Future Husband podcast, Christian Bevere sits down with author and speaker Ashley Hetherington for an honest conversation about singleness, dating, discernment, and becoming the woman God is forming you to be. Together, they talk about why singleness is better than the wrong relationship, how to recognize t...

What do single women really wish men understood about dating—but rarely get asked directly? In Part 2 of our Single Women’s Panel, the conversation gets even more honest. This time, men get to call in and ask the questions they’re usually too scared, hesitant, or unsure to ask women face-to-face. Christian is joined by three single women representing different seasons of life—in their 20s, 30s, an...

What are single women really thinking about dating, waiting, men, marriage, and the season they’re in? In this episode of Dear Future Husband, Christian sits down with a panel of single women from different seasons of life — women in their 20s, 30s, and 40s — for an honest conversation about modern dating, singleness, frustration, hope, and what they’ve learned along the way. They talk about the q...

“What if the future you’re praying for is waiting on the decisions you keep avoiding?” For the third time on Dear Future Husband, we sit down with Dr. Henry Cloud alongside Christian Bevere to talk about his new book, Your Desired Future — and talk honestly about the patterns, beliefs, and boundaries (or lack thereof) that quietly shape the direction of your life. We unpack how your habits, mindse...

What if your waiting season is actually where God builds the foundation for the relationship you’ve been praying for? In this episode of Dear Future Husband, Christian Bevere sits down with DeAngelo & Whitney Moss for a powerful conversation on waiting well, dating with purpose, and preparing for the marriage you actually want. After waiting 12+ years to intentionally date, DeAngelo & Whit...

“Long-distance relationships never work”… unless they do. 👀 For the launch of Season 7, Christian and her husband, Arden, share the real story behind their long-distance relationship — what challenged them, what kept them connected, and why they’re actually grateful they dated from far away. They open up about the habits, communication, and lessons they learned while dating across the country tha...

Part 2 is here—and the conversation gets even more real. 🎙️ We’re back with the Single Guys Panel on Dear Future Husband—and this time, we’re answering YOUR voice memo questions… no edits, no filters. We get into the questions everyone’s thinking, but few are asking: Do men actually like Botox and “high maintenance” women?  Why aren’t men approaching women anymore?  And what are the absolute WORST...

What if the confusion you’ve felt in dating… actually makes sense? In this episode, we’re doing something a little different. I sat down with three single Christian men in their 30s and asked them the questions we’ve all been wondering —the ones that keep us up at night, overthinking texts, mixed signals, and everything in between. What are they really thinking while dating?  What actually matters...

What if everything you’ve been told about submission, dating, and gender roles… isn’t the full story? In this powerful episode of Dear Future Husband , Christian Bevere sits down with Pastor Darren Whitehead from Church of the City for an honest, biblical conversation that challenges assumptions and calls believers back to truth. Together, they unpack what biblical submission really means —moving...

In a world of casual dating and mixed signals, etiquette might be the most underrated advantage. In this episode of Dear Future Husband, I’m joined by Alison Chepernick from @ElevatedEtiquette to talk about the art of dating well. From how you present yourself on a first date to the subtle social skills that create genuine connection, Alison breaks down why etiquette is far more than knowing which...

What if the way you handle money right now is preparing — or disqualifying — you for the marriage you’re praying for? In this episode of Dear Future Husband, I sit down with Rachel Cruze from Ramsey Solutions to talk directly to single women about stewarding your finances with wisdom and intention, plus "investing" in your future marriage. We discuss: 󠁯•󠁏Why your single season is the bes...

What if singleness and marriage were never meant to be opposing seasons — but invitations to the same deeper goal? In this honest and hope-filled conversation, Lisa Harper shares her personal story of not choosing singleness — and discovering that Jesus meets us fully in the life we didn’t plan. Together, we explore the tension between longing for marriage and learning contentment, and unpack what...

"I never thought I could love again… until I did." In this tender and honest episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Courtney Pray Duke shares what it’s like to open your heart after you were certain it was closed forever. After losing her first husband, love felt impossible — even unimaginable. The grief was heavy. The future felt rewritten. And the idea of loving another man felt b...

Valentine’s Day can make singleness feel louder than usual. But what if this season isn’t about waiting — it’s about preparation? In this special episode, I share 3 ways to intentionally prepare for marriage as a single woman who desires a godly relationship. We talk mindset shifts, dating with clarity, emotional readiness, and becoming the woman you’re asking God to bless. You’ll also hear a live...

What do you do when following Jesus puts tension in your closest relationships, especially with your family? In this episode of Dear Future Husband , Christian Bevere sits down with Sazan Hendrix to talk honestly about navigating faith, love, and obedience when the people you love most are not on the same page. Raised in a Middle Eastern Kurdish family, Sazan shares how unexpectedly falling in lov...

Women carry a powerful key to connection—but most have no idea they even have it. In this powerful episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian Bevere sits down with bestselling author and relationship expert Dr. Emerson Eggerichs to unpack how men and women are uniquely wired by God—and how misunderstanding those differences can quietly sabotage our relationships. In this episode, we exp...

In our second conversation, with my father-in-law and renowned author, John Bevere, he confronts the spiritual roots shaping modern relationships. We explore how sin nature influences attraction, why God’s design for marriage clashes with today’s dating culture, and how compromise—often mistaken for chemistry—can quietly cost us covenant. Drawing from biblical truth and traditional Jewish courtshi...

What does it really look like for a man to take responsibility for his healing? In this episode, Laterras R. Whitfield of Dear Future Wifey shares his journey from infidelity to integrity and how owning his past became the turning point that prepared him for a second chance at love. Rather than blaming circumstances or others, Laterras chose a harder path. He took accountability, did the internal...

Maybe you know you want to get married someday—but no one has really talked to you about what actually makes marriage work. I’ve been there. Before I got married, there were things I wish someone had told me—things that would’ve saved me confusion, unrealistic expectations, and a lot of learning the hard way. In this episode, I’m sharing 3 things I wish I knew about marriage before getting married...

Have you ever felt like waiting is taking too long—or that dating should be easier by now? Have you caught yourself comparing your love story to others and feeling disappointed? In this episode, Rachel Awtry shares powerful insights from her new book on why we can—and should—be cultivators of joy in every season of life. We talk about how choosing joy, even in the waiting, can transform not only o...

What do you do when God answers your prayer… and you’re afraid He might take it back? In this episode of Dear Future Husband, Christian sits down with Mia Fields and her husband, Joren Dunnavant, to share their love story—the waiting, the surrender, and the moments when trusting God felt risky. From placing an answered prayer back on the altar to learning how to hold a promise loosely, this conver...

Your prayers for your future husband matter more than you think! In this episode, my husband shares how the prayers I prayed over him while I was single impacted his heart and our marriage. If you’ve ever questioned whether your prayers make a difference — especially in a season of waiting — this conversation will remind you: they do! We're giving you a preview of the other side of YOUR praye...