Dear Future Hubby Podcast

I am so glad that I have Learned to Reject the Pain! Having once felt like I was a Toxic Magnet and the Only Relationships I could find were the Toxic ones, where the men were emotionally unavailable, insecure, angry all the time or just plain bad for me in general; I am Grateful for Letting them all go!!! Someone said, “to do the Same thing but expecting a different result is insanity”. Well, I m...

Happy International Women’s Day To All of the Queens out There!!! I hope you had the Most Amazing Day! I wanted to pay a Special Tribute to the Queen in My Life, My Mother. Mrs. Betty Davis. If Anyone Knows Me, she Most Definitely Does! Take a moment to listen in on Who My Mother says I am! I Hope this Episode encourages Someone! Enjoy!

Sometimes, you can be in the Wrong Atmosphere for too long! Sometimes, change is very Necessary! When was the Last Time You Imagined Yourself doing something Absolutely Amazing? No Boundaries, no limits, you let your imagination run wild and created one of the Best Experiences Ever! Have you Stopped Reaching Beyond the Stars? If so, Why? If you are someone who has Forgotten what it’s like to Dream...

Dating isn’t what it used to be! At least this is what my elders tell me! Nowadays, there are just way too many options, when you consider Social Media. So How do you vet your future spouse in 2021 and beyond? With so many ways to create a Representative, how will you Know if you are Meeting, Getting to Know and/or falling in love with the Real Person? Well, I will always suggest Prayer, however,...

My Future Hubby was in my dreams today during my nap time. And from what I saw, he is just was I Prayed for and So Much More!!! However, Now I am even more excited to meet him some day! From experience, I Know GOD’s timing is Perfect! So I won’t try to Rush this but What I can already see is that My Future Hubby is the Perfect Man for Me! Glory!!!! If you would love to hear my description of him,...

I’ve heard it many times... Time heals All wounds. Well, we expect time to heal our wounds but what about the wounds we inflict on others? Has it ever dawned on you that some things won’t take place in your life Until... You forgive. Until...You Repent. Until...You Apologize. Until...You try to make things Right! If you are someone who has been waiting for your “Until” moment, this may be an episo...

I believe I have ready many times in the Bible that “You shall Know the Truth and the Truth Shall Make You Free”! But Why does the Truth Frighten So Many People? Where is the Freedom, where is the Liberty in Fear? I’m only asking? If you are someone who believes you can Handle My Truth, take a Listen to this Episode! I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Enjoy!

I’m still waiting for my Future Hubby to Manifest, Single Ladies, how about you? What are you doing in the Meantime? Are you creating an atmosphere for your Future Hubby to step into? His way of escape from all of the craziness around him? Are you calling those things that are not, as though they already are? Would you love to see how That is done? I’ve provided an example of this episode. Listen...

Save the Drama for Someone Else’s Mama! Because I do not want it around these parts! There comes a time in your life, if you are blessed to live long enough that the Main thing you seek is. peace! Well, I must be aging gracefully because Peace is what I desire! Peace in my Marriage, Peace on my job, Peace with my Children, Peace with my siblings, Peace with my Parents, Peace with my Friends, Even...

By Definition, a Prize is given as a Reward for an Outstanding Achievement. Isn’t it Amazing that one can have a goal in mind, and one if the Motivating Factors is the Prize he/she will receive once the goal is met? You are a Prize, not in the sense of a Trophy but in the sense of being one of the Greatest Gifts ever Created. Specially designed and fit for that perfect person! Have you taken a loo...

How many of you hate to repeat yourselves when you are asked a question? I know I have been very guilty of this! I also hate repeating the same mistakes I have made. Especially when it’s expected that we learn from our mistakes, right? Well, one mistake I truly don’t want to repeat is being with the Wrong Man! This is one reason Why I am figuring out a few things about Myself. Hopefully in doing t...

Forgiveness is a Gift. One that most people take for granted. But Why? Why hold on to grudges? Why remain in the zone of indifference? Doesn’t feeling this way exhaust you? Holding grudges and being indifferent. I used to operate in this space. All it made me was Bitter! Yes, Bitter! However, once I made a conscious decision to let go of the grudges and denounce indifference, I was able to find th...

Smile! Did you know that it takes more muscles to frown than it does to smile? Have you truly embraced your smile? Did you know the world needs your smile? The world also needs to heal! So much is still broken in this world. And even through the brokenness, I choose to smile! Find out why on the latest episode. I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Enjoy!

Nothing happens by accident! Not even the waiting season. To everything there is truly a season! Right now is my Waiting Season. However, I know that I am Not the only person experiencing this Season in my life! Is it you? Are you in the Waiting Season Too? Well, maybe. Just Maybe. This Episode is for You! Go ahead, take a listen and please be sure to spread the love! I hope this Episode encourage...

In order to start a brand new chapter, you must finish the one(s) before. I believe this is why it was imperative that I take a conscious moment to close the chapter of my past. It’s One thing to say, “I am Healed” but it’s Another to tell your inner child to “Heal Babygirl/Babyboy, Heal”. This is exactly what I sensed must be done before I move forward into wherever it is God is going to take me....

There is a huge difference in communicating in a condescending way versus communicating in a way that edifies. Trust me, I have been on both the giving and receiving end of condescending undertones and it wasn’t received in love, nor was it given in love! However, I have also been on both ends of edifying communication and this kind of communication is healthy for your spirit and soul! How do you...

With everything going on in this world, who are you listening to? Who is ordering Your footsteps during these unprecedented times? Well, for me, I know I need a Power much greater than my own to get through all of this! And I Know, I am Not Alone! If you are someone who feels alone, have experienced moments of loneliness, this just may be the episode for you. I hope this Episode encourages Someone...

Trust me, I totally understand. You are Stressed all the Way Out! Just a little isn’t the closest thing to the Truth. However, are you going to Stay there and Risk your health, your peace of mind, Yourself?! Instead of allowing the stress of this world to overtake you, why not seek a little stress relief? If you are someone who battles with stress, checkout this podcast! Tell a friend about it or...

Where is the Grace in Relationships to be completely honest, open and RAW - Real and Wise?! Are you someone who feels the pressure from all that is going on in this world? Do you have a person who you can truly Confide in? No Judgement?! Where you can be vulnerable and you don’t have to Worry about it being Used against you Later? There is Liberty in that you know? Well, if you are someone I can c...

What does Perfect Peace look like for you as you weather a storm? For some, it’s the sun before the storm, for others, it’s the smell of the rain to come. And for others it’s the thunder and the lightning. It’s true, Peace looks different to different people. However, have you stopped long enough to center yourself after the storm? Or do you remain on autopilot, silently bracing yourself for the n...

I’m sure by the title you are most likely thinking about Facial hair right now. However, proceed with caution, the content in this Episode is for Mature Audiences Only! 🚨 Trigger Alert 🚨 If you are a person who is extremely sensitive and/or easily offended. Please do not listen to this Episode! On this Episode I am RAW on a totally different Level! You have been Warned! I hope Someone is encoura...

February is the Month of Love and as I practice self-love, as well as, self-care, I couldn’t help but recognize that my Love Language consists of them all! However, as the days change, I understand that the way I minister Love to My King will too. So, Dear Future Hubby, I’m curious and would Love to know What are your Love Languages?! If you are also someone who is trying to figure out what your l...

Living your Truth takes Courage! Courage that I have noticed a lot of people don’t operate in! Instead, there are people who choose to live the Lie! But Why? In my Singleness, it is imperative that I learn How and When to Ask the Right Questions when Dating! This is not an Option, it is a Must! After all, I have my Children to Consider. Plus, asking the Right Questions could help me to avoid the W...

Today represents the Day of Love! I hope and pray that everyone who is celebrating this Holiday truly feels Loved! I also hope that those who are Single, with no Mate, also feels the Love! May this day be one of reflection where in your Singleness, you Choose You and you Choose to Love on Yourself! After all, we Teach others How to Treat Us! I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Enjoy!

Let’s see if Two is a Charm! Turns out, the original episode which I believed that I taped on 1/11 is non-existent because it didn’t successfully record. Therefore, today, is the remake. According to many, that day was the day of Manifestations. When the atmosphere shifted. Well, in honor of January 11th, please try to write down 111 things you would love to see manifest in your lifetime and anoth...