Dear Future Hubby Podcast

I understand. There are distractions all around you. It’s hard for you to know whether you are coming or going. You need answers and you need them quickly! However, there are so many thoughts running through your mind all at the same time! You need these thoughts to stop long enough for you to Think Clearly! So what should you do to make them stop? In my opinion, You should quiet the noise! I hope...

I have heard it said before, “There is Three Sides to Every Story!”, there is his side, her side and the Truth is in the Middle! When was the last time you drew towards the Middle to gain strength from the Truth! From the “Middle Man”? I think it’s something Worth at least considering. Checkout my latest episode and see if you agree. I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Enjoy!

Can you imagine getting ready for the moment of a lifetime, your Special Day? Everything looks so Beautiful, including You! You wait for your Future to send for you. But he never does. You’ve been passed over. Why? Because... he chose her! Are you her? Or sirs, are you him? Did she pass over you too? Well, checkout my latest episode and see if you can relate or not. I hope this Episode encourages...

Are you a Buried Jewel? Have you buried all of your gifts and talents? Do you sometimes feel as if your Best just doesn’t deserve the Recognition it gets? Has someone made you feel like a “Fraud”? Have you ever been told that you must have the “Imposter Syndrome”? Do you know what this even means? If not, take a moment to checkout my latest episode. I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Enjoy!

Do you believe in Love? Or has Lust crowded your judgment? I am only asking because sometimes we tend to stay stuck in certain areas of our lives. Well, maybe it is time to get unstuck and explore your options. Especially if all of your exes live in Texas, pun intended. Have you considered finding love from a distance? Checkout my latest episode. I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Enjoy!

Decree it! Declare it! Believe it! Receive it! Say it with me, “It’s My Time to Shine”. Sometimes, we allow the voices of the Naysayers to Silence our Voice! Not Today Satan!!! It’s My Time!!! Have you been waiting for Your Turn? Patiently watching everyone else around you receive their Blessings? Doing all that you can to Remain Positive and Rejoice for their Success(es) all at the same time. Hop...

When a Cheater cheats, one of the reasons Why his spouse remains in the relationship is simple because he/she believes that it’s an “Isolated” Incident. But what exactly makes it that? Is he/she a serial cheater who just got caught One Time or Nah? Checkout my latest podcast where I dive a little deeper into this. I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Enjoy!

An Inquiring Mind with a Genuine Concern wants to know! How Are You Doing? Let’s keep it R.A.W. - Real And Wise... For Most of Us, this is the First Pandemic we have Ever Experienced in Our Lifetime! For A Lot of Us this is the Longest we have Had to Work From Home! For Most of Us, this is the Longest Time we have had to Wear Masks! And the List goes on of how many Firsts we have experienced from...

It’s True, I do wonder if my future Hubby and I will be Soul Mates. However, did you know you could have more than One Soul Mate? I do! Some of my Dearest Friends are My Soul Mates! They help to Guard My Soul and I help to Guard Theirs. If you don’t have a Soul Mate, I pray that you will some day have at least one. Someone who you can be completely transparent with! Someone who you can be Yourself...

It Still takes a Village to Raise A Child! So imagine if you have multiple children! This is one reason why I believe some single mothers are quick to call the father’s of their child(ren) ‘Sperm Donors’! Partly because all he was willing to do is make the baby but not stick around long enough to help her Raise the baby! I once labeled my Children’s Fathers a ‘Sperm Donor’ too! But Listen in to fi...

Wouldn’t you agree? We All could stand to make Better Choices? I once believed that knowing, “What’s done in the dark will eventually come to the Light” would be Enough to keep us Accountable! However, I am beginning to see that not even This is enough to keep some people completely honest. I can only hope and pray that I will continue to make better choices. Checkout my latest episode and see if...

Now Y’all May not know who “Mr. J” is per se. However, this is a subject that because I have been on Both Sides of the Spectrum, I wanted to talk about in further detail. Bottom Line... We All Make Choices! However, I truly believe that if we began to Count Up the Entire Cost, some choices could be avoided like the plague! Some Things are better left Not Done! In my opinion, Infidelity is One! I u...

It’s Never Too Late to Start Over if that’s what you prefer to do. It’s Never too late to go back to school, start saving, redefining your goals, to start working out, to start keeping a journal, the list goes on. But Why are some of us so quick to blurt out, “It’s Too Late!” Well, checkout my latest episode and see Why I believe it’s Never Too late! And see if you agree or if you totally disagree...

Deception is in the same family with Lies! I’ve heard it said before, “Oh what a Web we Weave when we Practice to Deceive!” Well, I don’t want to deceive my future Hubby and I pray that he doesn’t want to deceive me! So let’s talk about it!!! In hope this Episode encourages Someone! Enjoy!

🛑 This Episode is for Mature Audiences Only!! On this Episode I keep it R.A.W. - which is the Acronym for “Real And Wise” 🛑 Isn’t this the One Thing A Lot of us Absolutely Love to Say in our Defense, “I’m Grown!” Well, just How is being “Grown” working out for you? In all of my years of Living, I have come to realize that being grown doesn’t mean that I have LIFE all figured out! No matter what...

Moving on and Moving Forward could be one of the scariest choices one will ever make. However, it may be just as important as the air you breathe! Why? Because maybe this is where your Divine Healing dwells. Maybe this is where you Discover who you were Meant to be before life’s circumstances got in the way. Maybe this is Necessary to avoid any and all distractions or Maybe it’s just Time! I hope...

You can doubt me and my abilities all you want, but I sure do Hope that you don’t doubt My GOD!!! Processing grief comes on stages. There may be times when you believe you have truly “arrived” but then something is said or done that causes you to take ten steps back! Who will catch you when you fall? Do you know? Or are you trying to go at this alone? Please, find at least one person whom you can...

Just because I wear a smile doesn’t mean I am Not hurting! Maybe I wear a mask because the wounds within e run so very deeply. Be careful how you speak to me, be careful what you say! Because I lost another relative Today!!! I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Be encouraged.

Even in the healthiest of relationships, there will be times when it seems as if Nobody Understands why you do the things you do! Could it be because they don’t truly know just how deep the Wounds of your past are? Could it be that if you opened up Pandora’s Box, you would have to Re-Live that Pain all over again and the mere thought of doing that gives you extreme anxiety? Could it be because you...

This is dedicated to All of the Husbands and or Wives who have been dealt a Treacherous hand in their marriage! My heart truly goes out to you! I understand what that feels like, I have been there and I have done that!!! It isn’t good for Anyone, not you, not your spouse or your child(ren). Get Help! Be Safe! Don’t risk losing your Life, but Pray for your Offender until you see A Change come! Be E...

Let me start by Apologizing! On this Episode I am delirious... Exhaustion has truly caught up with me. However, I refuse to let it have the Best of Me and wanted to talk about Communication. We cannot expect our Future Spouses be Mind Readers. Therefore, if we haven’t learned how, we must take time to learn how to communicate appropriately, safely and wisely! Therefore, I am working on my communic...

Haven’t you heard this before? “You’ll Never Know if You Don’t Ask”. Well, I would have to agree with that statement. Too often we would rather lean on our Own Understanding, based on What and How we would handle a situation if place in a certain scenario. However, just because This is How You would handle a Situation, doesn’t necessarily mean that Someone else would do the Same or Respond the exa...

Significant, you are! When was the Last Time someone took a moment to tell you these words? “You Matter”, “Your Life has Value”, “You are Irreplaceable” or “You are Significant”? Most times, it’s the Opposite, Right? Instead of Words of Edification, you may hear words of degradation! Why is this? Why do some people prefer to tear you down, rather than build you up? Could it be because of their own...

Too often we try to go at things Alone! In doing so, we may not Always get the best results! Well, I have tried to do things my way, too many times to count! This way of doing things hasn’t always worked out in my favor! Then I tried a Better Way. I started praying and surrendering my way to His Way and before long, I began to Let Him Work It Out! After all, His Ways are Better than My Ways and Hi...

Why is it that for many of us, the word “No” causes so much disappointment? However, when we hear the word, “Yes” we are most likely excited? Why is it that these two words have such a different impact when heard? I wonder. If you are someone who struggles with rejection, maybe this is the episode for you. I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Enjoy!