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What if friends, family, or paid matchmaking could help you find a date worth keeping? In this episode, I share 5 Reasons to Let Your Friends Play Matchmaker. Listen and come over to Youtube to join the conversation! 🤝🏽 Here's how to Support Me: ⭐ Leave a review or rating here ✔️ Please Subscribe to my YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/fopenkwocha 🤳🏽Follow me on Instagram:  http...

So many red flags in dating that if you spot them, can save you a lifetime of stress. Today's #AskFopsy deals with a real Life financial abuse story - Her Husband Makes Her Pay His Debt.  Listen and head over to YouTube to add your own advice in the comments: what would you advise her to do? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qChPrLojA6k 🤝🏽 Here's how to Support Me: ⭐ Leave a review or rat...

Your Complete Guide to knowing when to share details of your past with your partner. I know how daunting sharing your past can be, but it's an important part of getting to know each other. I share tips on how to decide if now is a good time to share, and guide you on how to do this with your boyfriend or girlfriend. 🤝🏽 Here's how to Support Me: ✔️Please Subscribe to my YouTube Channel: https://w...

Christian guys are boring, so your dating preference is "Christian, with a bit of hood". Let's talk about it real quick. 🤝🏽 Here's how to Support Me: ✔️Please Subscribe to my YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/fopenkwocha 🤳🏽Follow me on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/fopsythegreat 📒 Buy My Book on Amazon (Situationship: How To Stop Breaking Your Own Heart) :  https://...

How to ask to pick someone's brain, via DM, e-mail, and not get ignored. These are 7 tips to consider.   ⏰Timestamps   00:00 7 Do’s and Don’ts of Networking   00:17 #1 Soften Them Up   1:50 #2 Get Specific   3:26 #3 Instead of “Can I Pick Your Brain” 4:10 #4 Make it Easy to Say “Yes”  4:57 #5 How to Bring Value to a Mentor  7:29 #6 Keep it Short and Sweet ...

Talking about money in marriage comes down to one question about your philosophy of what marriage is. Listen to this to help you answer: Should You Have Joint or Separate Accounts in a Marriage.   00:00 Money Should Not be Where we Draw The Line  00:51 Why Talking About Money is Hard  2:52 Joint and Separate Accounts? #SteveHarvey  3:57 What if one person makes more?  4:58...

My counter question is Does it matter if He's Broke?  ⏱Timestamps  0:00 She’s Always Attracting Broke Christian Men  2:44 A lot of us start out broke 3:13 Broke but not Vision-less? 5:31 My Husband and I’s Journey   8:00 How to Attract The Kind of Man You’re Looking For  9:34 More urgent things to consider Here's the "Parole 101: A Christian Guide to Toasting" by Pastor Em...

Looking for a new job but not sure what you want next? Here's a framework for figuring out what to do next when you're feeling stuck in your career or unsure of what's next.  Inspired by this article from Harvard Business Review: https://hbr.org/2022/01/finding-a-job-when-you-dont-know-what-you-want-to-do-next  Want to Support Me?   Please Subscribe & Share this episode to your...

Gauge my response to a real question from my DM about considering playing small because the guy thinks "his family" won't like her ambition. In this video, I share my advice on whether or not to compromise in a relationship. This is the launch of #AskFopsy ! You can e-mail me  / DM your questions to fopsydee@gmail.com and I'll likely answer them live in an episode. Prefer Video? Watch on &nbs...

This episode was inspired by lessons from 2021, Pastor Nomthi's life and mantra #EnjoyYourLife, as well as a video Tosin Alabi created. Listen and enjoy.