Abbey Gustafson

Dear Abbey

Society EN ↓ 171 episodes

just your average 20 something yr old retired pick me girl navigating relationships, mental health, and self discovery. expect uplifting stories, lots of reflecting, and light hearted fun.

Author

Abbey Gustafson

Category

Society

Latest episode

Jun 25, 2026

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Episodes

Dear Abbey, this one is for the boyz 22.06.2023

**PSA: TRIGGERING TOPICS IN THIS EPISODE (depression, suicide) This week I open up about something very important to me... men's mental health and the stigmas that go along with it! I kind go all over the place but hopefully I can at least shed some light and encouragement on this topic. Also, don’t be shy…call 909-817-1742 to leave a Dear Abbey voicemail aka.. you call and leave a voicemail askin...

Dear Abbey, Why not take yourself seriously? 15.06.2023

This week I talk about Dungeons and Dragons, why taking myself too seriously holds me back, and we figure out what a text from a boy means...does he want a second date or not?! Also, don’t be shy…call 909-817-1742 to leave a Dear Abbey voicemail aka.. you call and leave a voicemail asking for some advice on something silly or serious then I will play it and answer it hopefully in the next episode!

Dear Abbey, HELP I need some summer inspiration 08.06.2023

This week I listed 8 ways to spend this summer to hopefully help inspire you to have the best summer you can! During our dear Abbey segment I express my opinion on whether or not fighting is normal in relationships and do all men just want "quiet" women... Also, don’t be shy…call 909-817-1742 to leave a Dear Abbey voicemail aka.. you call and leave a voicemail asking for some advice on something s...

Dear Abbey, you need a reason for social media or it will deplete you! 01.06.2023

This week I talk about my theories on why social media can be depleting and how to prevent this, my thoughts around imperfections, and how to end a friendship!! Also, don’t be shy…call 909-817-1742 to leave a Dear Abbey voicemail aka.. you call and leave a voicemail asking for some advice on something silly or serious then I will play it and answer it hopefully in the next episode!

Dear Abbey, how’s your OCD recovery going? 25.05.2023

This week I do a deep dive on where I’m at in my recovery with my once debilitating OCD, ways I was able to now enjoy things I never thought I would enjoy again, and I also answer a question regarding if you should tell your sister that you hate her boyfriend. Also, don’t be shy…call 909-817-1742 to leave a Dear Abbey voicemail aka.. you call and leave a voicemail asking for some advice on somethi...

Dear Abbey, what are some of your favorite ways to process daily emotions? 18.05.2023

This week I share my weird encounter with a big time streamer YEARS AGO, I talk about some ways I have learned to process emotions, non-emotionals vs emotionals, and I play a rather odd anime game at the end! (don't you dare skip it) Also, don’t be shy…call 909-817-1742 to leave a Dear Abbey voicemail aka.. you call and leave a voicemail asking for some advice on something silly or serious then I...

Dear Abbey, what are 8 tips for healing anxiety/ocd? 11.05.2023

This week, I talk about 8 different things that I have learned from my mental health journey this far and tips to help recover, along with why your pain can always be turned into purpose!! Also, don’t be shy…call 909-817-1742 to leave a Dear Abbey voicemail aka.. you call and leave a voicemail asking for some advice on something silly or serious then I will play it and answer it hopefully in the n...

Dear Abbey, what are some ways I can choose to love my body this summer? 27.04.2023

I talk about why I am a fantastic frisbee player, ways you can love/accept your body this summer so you DON'T MISS OUT ON FUN, and why setting boundaries with an ex is beneficial (especially if you want to get back with them) Also, don’t be shy…call 909-817-1742 to leave a Dear Abbey voicemail aka.. you call and leave a voicemail asking for some advice on something silly or serious then I will pla...

Dear Abbey, how can I make friends when I’m an anxious wreck?! 13.04.2023

I talk about my recent boat ride with dolphins, opening your heart after heartbreak, and the anxious person's guide on where/how to make friends!! Also, don’t be shy…call 909-817-1742 to leave a Dear Abbey voicemail aka.. you call and leave a voicemail asking for some advice on something silly or serious then I will play it and answer it hopefully in the next episode!

Dear Abbey, there is NEVER a reason to cheat 06.04.2023

I talk about my recent trip to New York City (which was the trip OF MY LIFE), and why the phrase "there is always a reason someone cheats" is my pet peeve!! I also answer a Dear Abbey question, and play a fun little debate game!! Also, don’t be shy…call 909-817-1742 to leave a Dear Abbey voicemail aka.. you call and leave a voicemail asking for some advice on something silly or serious then I will...

Dear Abbey, I’m moving in with my boyfriend.. plz help 30.03.2023

Abbey talks about how to practice trust to ease anxiety, what questions to ask your boyfriend before moving in, and some of her favorite songs rn! Also, don’t be shy…call 909-817-1742 to leave a Dear Abbey voicemail aka.. you call and leave a voicemail asking for some advice on something silly or serious then I will play it and answer it hopefully in the next episode!

Dear Abbey, how do I practice self compassion? 23.03.2023

Abbey talks about practicing self compassion, her vision for this year, and plays would you rather. Also, don’t be shy…call 909-817-1742 to leave a Dear Abbey voicemail aka.. you call and leave a voicemail asking for some advice on something silly or serious then I will play it and answer it hopefully in the next episode!

Dear Abbey, Justice for "Pick Me" Girls 16.03.2023

Abbey opens up about relapsing in OCD recovery, pick me girls and why they exist, and how to stop putting people in a box (including yourself) Also, don’t be shy…call 909-817-1742 to leave a Dear Abbey voicemail aka.. you call and leave a voicemail asking for some advice on something silly or serious then I will play it and answer it hopefully in the next episode!

Dear Abbey, HELP! I have to mother my boyfriend 09.03.2023

I talk about rehoming my sweet dog Rudy, perfectionism with ocd/anxiety, and how to figure out if you should stay or leave a relationship where you have to mother someone…. Also, don’t be shy…call 909-817-1742 to leave a Dear Abbey voicemail aka.. you call and leave a voicemail asking for some advice on something silly or serious then I will play it and answer it hopefully in the next episode!

Dear Abbey, are they a rebound? 02.03.2023

In honor of women history month I talk about how powerful woman are that know they deserve to take up space in this world, how we can do this ourselves, and how to tell if someone is a rebound….. Also, don’t be shy…call 909-817-1742 to leave a Dear Abbey voicemail aka.. you call and leave a voicemail asking for some advice on something silly or serious then I will play it and answer it hopefully i...

Dear Abbey, how do I love myself more? 27.02.2023

I talk about emotional releases, how to use unconditional gratitude to love your body more, I also may or may not create a dungeons and dragon character and unleash the nerd… Also, don’t be shy…call 909-817-1742 to leave a Dear Abbey voicemail aka.. you call and leave a voicemail asking for some advice on something silly or serious then I will play it and answer it hopefully in the next episode!

Dear Abbey, how do I heal from a breakup 17.02.2023

We jump into how I tore ligaments in my foot, not being able to walk during a very fast paced week, and I answer someones dear abbey question on how to deal with a breakup… Also, don’t be shy…call 909-817-1742 to leave a Dear Abbey voicemail aka.. you call and leave a voicemail asking for some advice on something silly or serious then I will play it and answer it hopefully in the next episode! Lea...

Dear Abbey, no more victim mentality 10.02.2023

This week I talk about my victim mentality, lies OCD tells the sufferer, and finding out which BTS member am I…. Also, don’t be shy…call 909-817-1742 to leave a Dear Abbey voicemail aka.. you call and leave a voicemail asking for some advice on something silly or serious then I will play it and answer it hopefully in the next episode!

Dear Abbey, stop with the emotional breakdowns 02.02.2023

This week I have an emotional breakdown. I talk about the effects of abandonment and betrayal, as well as how OCD has flipped my world upside down Also, don’t be shy…call 909-817-1742 to leave a Dear Abbey voicemail aka.. you call and leave a voicemail asking for some advice on something silly or serious then I will play it and answer it hopefully in the next episode!

Dear Abbey, I need a therapist 27.01.2023

This week I jump into why its hard to let go of our anxious identity, how you can tell a therapist will be a good fit, and much more…. Also, don’t be shy…call 909-817-1742 to leave a Dear Abbey voicemail aka.. you call and leave a voicemail asking for some advice on something silly or serious then I will play it and answer it hopefully in the next episode!

Dear Abbey, what have I done? 20.01.2023

This week I am jumping feet first into the podcast world to talk about my embarrassing hobbies and my worries about podcasting…. Also, don’t be shy…call 909-817-1742 to leave a Dear Abbey voicemail aka.. you call and leave a voicemail asking for some advice on something silly or serious then I will play it and answer it hopefully in the next episode!

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